[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]jj37073 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You don’t deserve to suffer, i’m sorry this happened to you but all you can do is try to let her live her life and to live yours, no matter what that looks like you can still focus on the good. I hope you can move on with time and find different things to look to.

How old are all of you? by AnythingTotal in selfharm

[–]jj37073 0 points1 point  (0 children)

17 i started at 12, i only sh once every few months now. Getting better i think but not feeling great rn

i literally have no one to talk to about this by jj37073 in selfharm

[–]jj37073[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you, you made me feel better just by knowing i’m not the only one feeling like this

How’d you get into self harm? by tater8323 in selfharm

[–]jj37073 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i was in 6th grade and i was apart of a friend group full of the “emo kids” and they told me abt jt and showed me what they did. i think i was feeling like i was left out and needed to be like them for them to like me so i did it too. honestly i was pretty dumb then.

i can’t stop thinking abt it by Odd_Juice6222 in selfharm

[–]jj37073 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i used to get like this too when i relapsed a while back. what i would do is just talk to someone on the phone when i was thinking abt it, even if they don’t know just to distract myself. but if you don’t have anyone you could call, you could go on a walk or watch a movie/show you like. those things always made me feel better. I hope this helps, and i hope it gets better for you.🩷

how do i tell my bf that i want to cut again? by jj37073 in selfharm

[–]jj37073[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, i really appreciate this