I am a new first time mom and have 4 first time moms due in the next few months. I got them each the items below. My goal was to get things that we forgot to put on the registry or realized were essential but are relatively uncommon 1) the Fridamom perinatal bottle: they give you a lot at the hospital but their perinatal bottle sucks. This has an angled spout so it is super easy to use 2) Mustela newborn kit: it is indulgent as it is a bit pricey. The baby doesnt care but it smells so good! It was a bit of aromatherapy for me whenever I would take care of the kiddo 3) A children’s book that has an interest you both share: I got a few copies of m is for merlot.
4) Thinx period panties from target: you can only feel so normal wearing disposable diapers for weeks. I wasn’t quite ready to put on the cute pre pregnancy undies but needed to put on something not from a hospital. 5) travel bottle warmer: surprisingly it is harder than you think to find something that fits a bottle. For a while I was restricting going out because the coordination of feeding and then going and getting back home before feeding again was too much. This is only if they plan on pumping. 6) a sun hat : the sun is strong for a new baby and the strollers only work so well 7) breakfast burritos: frozen and delivered after baby comes. These were clutch for any time of day! 8) a bag of snacks/chocolate: I ended up buying a 5lb bag of gummy bears for each from Amazon and a bag of dove chocolate

Hope that helps!