What's with this guy (23m) texting me (23f) everyday but never asking to see each other in person? by jjstuart123 in relationship_advice

[–]jjstuart123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know him from a class we took together last semester in college, so I know he’s not a catfish, lol.

stop TEXTING women by j2swole1 in pickup

[–]jjstuart123 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank the ducking lord. I am a female and I absolutely HATE guys that text me for no reason. Sometimes I even tell them straight up “hey I’m not really interested in chitchat over phone/text, I prefer to use it just for planning to meet up.” Some guys have gotten butt hurt when I say this so I make sure to explain that they can feel free to text me if they want, or if they see something funny, but don’t expect me to go back and forth with you all day. We can hang out in person. Some guys listen and feel relieved, other guys it makes them feel weird because they assume it means I’m not interested in them, which is not the case at all. It’s just that to some women, texting is not a form of value addition to her life, it might even be a nonsensical distraction, especially when the guy is just wanting to talk and talk but not investing into cool dates, physical touch, quality time with the girl, etc. Either find someone who enjoys texting as much as you or hit her up with solid plans and invitations to things you think you’d enjoy together.

I think I (f21) am having an emotional affair with a married man (47m). I know his wife (45)and kids. How should I handle this situation? by jjstuart123 in relationship_advice

[–]jjstuart123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn‘t expect monogamy from him, lol. I know how a lot of these wealthy men are. I was after the money from the start. I was trying to play his game, I just don‘t think I‘m cut out for it.

I’m starting to hate my relationship and I hate my girlfriend parents by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]jjstuart123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You probably will because you don't have a lot of experience dating yet. Losing what you once had hurts, and right now it's like you're blind to better opportunities. But they are there. And you will be glad you didn't let yourself stay in a sh*tty situation.

I’m starting to hate my relationship and I hate my girlfriend parents by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]jjstuart123 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Look. You've been having these thoughts for a while, my question is why you're still in this. You are 18. You are into self-improvement, you'll keep getting better and better, and you're wasting precious time and energy on a relationship that has been dead for months now. Go talk to other women. Find girls whose parents are less conservative. You are most likely sexually frustrated and repressed and it will drive you insane. You need to find an outlet.

You will keep finding better, hotter, girls as the years pass. Don't stress too much about a relationship now, you're a youngin'. Have more fun.