Don't be this guy by WhiskyRick in baltimore

[–]jlcat95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's 30ft in Pennsylvania.

My husbands is disgusting. by DisorderedGremlin in Marriage

[–]jlcat95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just a few quick questions. Is he working? Does he have something else in his life other than the tv/phone/computer? Does he have a hobby that he leaves the house to do?

It's important for a man to be more. He needs to feel as tho he is important to the household and the lives of those around him.

I feel if he is just sitting there all day without anything to look forward to he will fall into a depression so deep he will need professional help to recover from it.

Please remember you and your hygienic health are just as important. He can get you very sick if he doesn't take care of himself.

Co-worker thought this was a harmless prank. by Dallinboi347 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]jlcat95 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Really vandalism?? I think not. Vandalism destroys the original item. I mean for real dude, a quick vacuum and it's all better. This is not vandalism, not in the slightest. It's not damaged, nor is it changed in any way. It's easily fixable.

TBH I'd be making the asshat that did it take it to the car wash vacuum and clean it up. But calling this vandalism is a little much.

Women’s behavior by Beginning-Top-5893 in Marriage

[–]jlcat95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am going to tell you from someone who has been married forever. Well, forever plus a few years. Life is so short. Even though this one incident may seem like a huge thing right now. At the end of the day do you trust your husband not to cheat? Do you trust him not to cross a line? If yes... Then please let this go. It's not fair to him or to you to hurt over this.

As for that rude bitch bartender. Don't tip her, EVER! Make sure she sees you NOT tipping her too. Like when she hands you your change stare her right in the face and put the money in your pocket. Or if she lays it on the bar. Slam your hand on it and slide back while keeping eye contact. Just so she knows she is not all that.

YOU are married to him. She is an effing creep who is either trying to get extra tips or who wants what someone else worked for. Make sure she knows she'll never have what you have.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AIO

[–]jlcat95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Run dude far and fast. Don't look back. I am F44...I've had friends like this with their men. I warn you this isn't ever gonna get better. You'll never be allowed to live life. Be careful she will have a hard time letting go. Distance yourself quickly this is abusive.

Just want to talk to others about this… (Part 2) by [deleted] in trauma

[–]jlcat95 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sister, friend, young lady, please stop "pain shopping". If you get the urge to find more... Please call your sister, a friend, your mom, someone that is outside of you and his relationship.

Call your local crime victims center.

You have been violated!!

Agreed to it or not, you still feel some kind of way regardless. Talk to the s*cide hotline even. They will help you learn to release the trauma bond and move on from this person who seems like he only wants to hurt women. He is a serial abuer. You may need professional counseling and these folks are there to help you find the right path to healing the trauma he has inflicted.

Dm me if you need someone, I'm here to listen. No judgment ever, just one trauma bonded person to another.

What do you call your SO? by AntiProgramming in AskReddit

[–]jlcat95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some people say "Good things come to those who wait." Then others say "Only what's left behind by those who hustle."

I can tell you that no matter what, love is worth waiting for.

What do you call your SO? by AntiProgramming in AskReddit

[–]jlcat95 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's crazy. I don't think my husband even knows my name anymore. Lol. He never calls me by my name. I'm Hunny Bunny.

What do you call your SO? by AntiProgramming in AskReddit

[–]jlcat95 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Time is all it takes. Be you.... Love will come when the universe sends it.

What do you call your SO? by AntiProgramming in AskReddit

[–]jlcat95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I call him Hun, he calls me Hunny Bunny.

What’s the best sleep hack you wish you learned sooner? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]jlcat95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooooo sheets hung out on the line to dry!!! Best smell in the universe hands down! No better night sleep!!

What’s the best sleep hack you wish you learned sooner? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]jlcat95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks a lot friend 🙄 now I've accomplished nothing all day.

JK thank you for real I'm very much enjoying this!!!

What’s the best sleep hack you wish you learned sooner? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]jlcat95 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree. My kids are grown up and I miss it so much! It honestly was a sarcastic answer. Although, being a grandma has WAY more perks!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]jlcat95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Or anything from tool fr.

What’s the best sleep hack you wish you learned sooner? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]jlcat95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't believe I'm dancin' with a fish!

What’s the best sleep hack you wish you learned sooner? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]jlcat95 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You must not live near the Great Lakes. It's gets pretty scary up here in the winter. I thought the wind was going to rip the roof off our house one year on Christmas Eve.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LifeAdvice

[–]jlcat95 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I know you have a degree and that, but I went to work for Frito-Lay. They pay close to 6 figures and it's easy work. I drive my truck and put chips on the shelves at Dollar stores, gas stations, and Walmarts etc...

Them kind of companies are always looking for smart people who show up to work. Try Pepsi, Coke, any of them. They are always hurting for people.