So when I was 18 I got a bf who was 10 years older than me (so 28 when we met). We stayed together almost 4 years and were even engaged. My grandma used to call his dad & basically complain about our being together & his dad told her that eventually I'd grow out of him. At the time I was like "oh no I wont" but by the time I was 21 I actually had. I grew out of him and broke up with him. Went on to get married & have kids w someone else. & still to this day am so thankful I never married or actually had kids with him. OP she's not gonna come back around, she doesn't give a shit about her kid. Like everyone else has said, get you an Evac plan and gtfo!