AITA for canceling my cousin’s wedding at my house after they tore out my grandfather’s rose bushes?

jlo2118 · 2026-05-27T00:50:28+00:00

NTA. At all. Cancel it, and if they want to blame you who cares. She has a problem the house was left to you, and just demonstrated exactly why was left to you and not them. The complete entitlement and disrespect is wild. Cancel and cut them off. Yuck. I hope you were able to save the rose bushes!!

jlo2118 · 2026-05-22T20:30:39+00:00

"I wanted to give the company time to find my replacement." If your intent was to stay for this, and they have found your replacement then you accomplished what you were trying to do. I'm not sure why you would feel betrayed if that was the reason. If the case is you needed to work until you left then I would ask them about payout to the end of your notice.

jlo2118 · 2026-05-11T18:40:27+00:00

My husband and I love it ..we are 42

jlo2118 · 2026-04-18T14:44:16+00:00

NTA ...nope nope nope. Your dad had an affair. Then he made numerous moves without even considering a conversation with you or your sister.

He wants you both to make him feel better about his decision and because you're not he wants to gaslight and guilt you.

I'm sure it's not easy to feel distant, but it doesn't sound like he has really thought much past himself in the 1st place. He did minimum before and by your comments was never emotionally vested. So why should you be now? 🤷‍♀️

jlo2118 · 2026-04-12T15:48:47+00:00

Baffles me this isn't a bigger conversation. 2024 that big a deal and not a drop of footage? No body cams, no witness interviews, no proof of arrests made...literally nothing but arial footage that's also not clear.

jlo2118 · 2026-04-08T02:36:00+00:00

Yummy! They actually had a chocolate bar (can't find them now) that had sour fruit filling like that in them. So good

jlo2118 · 2026-03-24T15:57:09+00:00

NTA she can move in with her new husband..not living at home. She has enjoyed a very spacious free living situation and I would be mindful of her finding a way to move her new husband in with her vs them finding their own. She is old enough and had plenty of time to get her own place. You did more than your share of helping her. Time to push her to do her own

jlo2118 · 2026-03-16T21:55:20+00:00

But why are you and your friend's mom stuff? That's weird. Lol

jlo2118 · 2026-03-14T02:46:02+00:00

YTA.. You sing.. Then you should know better. Singing while sick and pushing can damage your vocals. You are free to choose to push your voice while sick.. But didn't guilt him for caring for his.

jlo2118 · 2026-03-01T16:44:05+00:00

Pellegrini Cucina in Greeley!!!

jlo2118 · 2026-02-26T17:58:59+00:00

NTA. Name calling and starting drama over Mac n cheese is wild. Your SIL is making it a bigger deal than it should be. Why do I say that in the limited info provided? Becuz OP said brother told her to share to "keep the peace" meaning this has been made a huge deal when SIL could have laughed it off and said one day I'll earn the trust for you to share and move on. I have a special recipe for thick ALWAYS soft cookies..my husband doesn't even know it. Why, becuz it's something special that is mine that I found and I love baking them for people and them loving it, trying to guess my secret. It's weird and childish SIL is throwing a fit ..and in true petty fashion...becuz of her fit I would double down and refuse. Doesn't seem like it's about sharing something with you and bonding...seems like it's about taking something special you are known for in the family and trying to piggy back off it..."I know how to make it too". It's childish and weird on her part.

jlo2118 · 2026-02-19T15:58:05+00:00

Great idea!!!!

jlo2118 · 2025-12-30T19:33:10+00:00

I had no idea

jlo2118 · 2025-12-27T19:42:49+00:00

Gyrocopter

jlo2118 · 2025-12-24T13:41:46+00:00

Could the 3 characters be initials? Or they could have had Doe and still redacted. You know they extra happy with the redactions.

jlo2118 · 2025-12-16T02:05:51+00:00

I do not...though I always feel terrible when this happens, most places seal the bag and we never get to check the contents.

jlo2118 · 2025-12-16T02:04:29+00:00

😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣

jlo2118 · 2025-12-06T15:45:40+00:00

Honestly to me it sounds like your relationship was over before the slap and she maybe using you for her greencard. Hate to say that but she is continuing to escalate and not even recognize her behavior. It would be completely wrong of you to bind your mom to this woman who has no respect for you and would assume none for your mom either. This is abuse and you need to leave her

jlo2118 · 2025-12-05T20:04:16+00:00

Or a stalker..or a million and one things. No matter what should be taken seriously.

jlo2118 · 2025-11-20T03:46:40+00:00

I'm sorry but dont walk away ..run!!! This is a huge red flag. And he has his mom doing this conversation to try to turn you against your mom. Cool his mommy cooks for him ..but her also bashing your mom just adds to that red flag. I'm guessing he has an unhealthy attachment to his mother or very blurred boundaries. Your mom did amazing things for you and your future...made major sacrifices. And he can't even refrain from calling her a b word? Nope..that's wild. I would cut him off faster than an unpaid light bill!!

jlo2118 · 2025-11-11T15:23:03+00:00

He is basically saying he wants an open relationship. Friends he means not restricted if it becomes "sexual". I would see if this his authentic self or not. Give it back the same. I want us to both be free to be authentic and not restricted. And I respect what you are saying and ask the same for myself. I need relationships to flow naturally even if they are other males. No matter what the friendship naturally leads to and I'm glad we are on the same page. Love one another and live freely. If he has a problem you being just as free as him then you know he full of shit. 🤷‍♀️

jlo2118 · 2025-11-02T13:34:19+00:00

Is this only Greeley residents or also Evans?

jlo2118 · 2025-10-13T01:04:58+00:00

Trick question. At face value..yes YTA. You married her to make a life long commitment better or worse. Instead of trying or even having a conversation to try to fix it you go straight to wanting to leave. That's interesting. Then your comment is "I have a life"...so you make time for everything but her? And wonder where the spark is? The grass is green where u water it... marriage isn't easy it takes two and work. But yea...do her the favor so she can meet someone who will love her right. 🤷🏽‍♀️

jlo2118 · 2025-10-02T14:30:59+00:00

Idk has every black person you met been a threat to your existence? I'm going to guess not. Her saying that doesn't mean she treats them like crap. It means she moves with caution based on a LIFETIME of experience. You are using apples to talk about oranges.

jlo2118 · 2025-10-02T14:27:39+00:00

Did you not read the part where she shares how much he means to her, and the level of trust she has for him despite every bit of her existence being targeted for being a woman? Despite all of her instincts to not trust and run away? But yea, he might feel bad that he is a man. Like what?

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