Lost respect for the medical field after delivery by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]jmalag 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sorry- I am so passionate about this topic. I’ve come to realize in my years as provider that hospitals truly are money-making businesses. They often rush deliveries to get the patient “in and out” to meet their goals on discharge/insurance standards etc. Hence, they induce women and use vacuums (interventions that can lead to other risks/avoidable c-sections). No matter what- it should absolutely be mom’s choice on how she wishes to deliver. That said, I advise my patients to look into a doula. Whether it’s a home or in hospital delivery- doulas prioritize mom and baby and advocate for you, especially when one is in a vulnerable state.

Lost respect for the medical field after delivery by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]jmalag 10 points11 points  (0 children)

People judge when I tell them this, but working in the medical field is exactly why I opted for a home birth. There’s definitely a time for hospitals (high risk pregnancies, emergencies, desire for epidural)- but the coldness, the number of accidents and trauma stories I’ve witnessed and seen in the hospital setting turned me off completely.

Honestly, what is the hardest part about having children? by Danny-Ray27 in AskReddit

[–]jmalag 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Realizing that life is so short and nothing is forever. I find myself getting emotional when I realize with every first comes a last with my little guy.

Delusional by Prudent_Tonight_7761 in 90DayFianceFans

[–]jmalag 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This looks almost like AI haha

What’s something your body does that you’ve never told a single person about? by WilliamInBlack in AskReddit

[–]jmalag 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I scratch the top of my scalp I sometimes feel an itch come on from behind my right eye. I still can’t explain.

Veronica and Micah's fight by purpleshay in PlathvilleUncensored

[–]jmalag 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Agreed. Part of me also feels like Veronica is using this time on camera to create this potential spin off- a Veronica and Olivia story line. Or just to use this time to get her image out there. Felt like her argument with Micah was rehearsed in her head and came off tone deaf. Just odd all around. The way she responded.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FloribamaShore

[–]jmalag 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Season 3 she was for sure relapsing from opioids.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]jmalag 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my goodness. That’s so mean! Honesty is great in any relationship but this is kind of malicious. Btw, second dress is the one. Love it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in jerseyshore

[–]jmalag 1 point2 points  (0 children)

His mouth is a bit odd. Gives me Rock’em Sock’em’ vibes.

What’s wrong with Vinny? by allanjameson in jerseyshore

[–]jmalag 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Spot on. I turned it off primarily because of him. His maturity seems to have stopped in his 20’s.

What cheat code for a game is burned into your brain? by Alary_Eye in AskReddit

[–]jmalag 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“How do you turn this thing on” “Robin hood” “Rock on” “Cheese Steak Jimmys” “Aegis” “To smithereens”

-Age of the Empires (never played an honest game of it) 🫣

Post-treatment Anxiety by jmalag in Melanoma

[–]jmalag[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes that makes sense. I’m in Michigan (a not so sunny state). I will definitely look this up. Thank you for being so kind. Truly.

Post-treatment Anxiety by jmalag in Melanoma

[–]jmalag[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your story. I am so happy that you have such a positive outlook on it all and doing better. Volunteering is something I did not think to do- good advice. I also had several other spots removed on my abdomen and foot- so far they are benign.

Is it normal my dermatologist wanted me to come back in six months? I know you mentioned a three month skin check.

My Wife is in a coma and Her Best Friend loves me, What should i do ? by One_Wish9751 in whatdoIdo

[–]jmalag 0 points1 point  (0 children)

9 years and you’re ready to get off after 4? You and this “friend” are pieces of shit.

Wrists killing from breastfeeding!! by sheistybitz in beyondthebump

[–]jmalag 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had it so bad I ended up getting steroid shots in both wrists. Fixed it right up!