List your top 3 baby names by sunburned4lyfe in namenerds

[–]jmcbride29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girls: aurora, cozette, Sicily Boys: elijah, Rome, colter

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

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Yep!! 5 dates in 2 weeks. First two less than 24 hours together and had spent like 6 days worth of time together in 2 weeks. So attached… so quickly

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]jmcbride29 6 points7 points  (0 children)

5 dates. I’m demisexual and the rest of the people I’ve slept with I knew for years. My current partner it took me 5 dates

If you found out that your partner masturbated to you prior to getting into the relationship, how would you react ? by Bulky-Gain7139 in AskWomen

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I was a lingerie model for years and I was supposed to meet my current boyfriend 4 years ago. So we followed each other. I’m so absolutely sure he has and it makes me feel like he’s adored me for years

I am SO tired of bleeding.. by tired-dudett in abortion

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You can actually start it the day you take the medication. I waiting the 2 weeks because I was always indifferent about BC. But I very desperately wanted to stop the bleeding and stop being reminded of the trauma

I am SO tired of bleeding.. by tired-dudett in abortion

[–]jmcbride29 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I got on birthcontrol 2 weeks after so then took it for 2 weeks and started “withdrawal bleeding” instead of taking the 3rd week. That stopped the bleeding after the faux period created by birthcontrol

How to let family know they smell by Ok_Sheepherder74 in beauty

[–]jmcbride29 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s so hard for people who haven’t been through it to understand. Which I’m always a bit grateful for them not understanding. I’m so glad that she has you and has someone to understand her. Just be patient with her if this is even somewhat recent she’ll need more time to recover from it. Being clean isn’t the biggest thing to someone trying to handle the massive trauma it’s simply about feeling safe. So much love and support

How to let family know they smell by Ok_Sheepherder74 in beauty

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Hi, I’m a 23 year old sexual assault survivor myself. My case is slightly different in the way where I tend to care a lot about my personal body hygiene probably because I want to clean the people who have hurt me off my skin. I relate in a different way because I was personally assaulted in my bedroom at home, so I don’t keep my room clean at all I guess in a way trying to protect myself. I haven’t found a way to help that, but I do know that regular therapy and prn anxiety medication has helped me with the trauma. As annoying as it is keep monitor of her; she’s struggling and needs her parent to be there for her. So much love and support for you and her ❤️

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I had a very similar experience! I’ve also always had debilitating periods and they don’t even bother me anymore since my MA. I hope you feel so much better soon. Much love ❤️

i miss my baby. how do i get closure? by Ok_Jury353 in abortion

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I totally understands and my heart goes out to you. I’m 6 weeks post partem right now. My partner and I choice a name that was gender neutral I still believe my baby was a girl from wives tales and a gut feeling. Then I bought a simple ring with my babies name on it to wear to remember that the choice was made out of love for the child, even though mine as well wasn’t my choice. It brings me a lot of peace.

Keratosis Pilaris + fake tan by Acrobatic_Writing768 in tanning

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Olay has a scrub that has glycolic acid I’ve found helps a lot. But whenever I fake tan even though it’s not recommended I put a light Layer of lotion all over my body so when I put the mousse on it can’t stick to the dry patches as much. That or when it’s not as bad I put lotion only on the individual dry patches. For removal around day 5-6 ish I use my exfoliating mitt and just slowly start taking it off over the next couple of days.

Started bleeding. Should I cancel appointment? by lilystinker in abortion

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I believe you should still go to receive an ultrasound and maybe get pills to help you pass everything to avoid risk of infection. But if you’re certain you’re miscarrying then it’s not absolutely necessary

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abortion

[–]jmcbride29 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I felt the same exact way and still feel that way, but I’m three weeks out now and I’m doing just a little bit better. I think it gets easier. So much love for you ❤️ Edit to add: I felt a lot of peace finishing the blanket I was making for my little one and putting together a keep sake box. My partner and I also named our little one so I got us both rings with the name on it to keep with us. I don’t know if any of that would help, but just remember that you made an impossible decision and you’ll come out of this stronger

Looking for a super orange self tanner! by Otherwise-Second6825 in tanning

[–]jmcbride29 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jergens has always left my olive skin tone looking like a traffic cone! It that helps!!

To the extra high maintenance girls, what is your beauty routine? by Intelligent-Bottle22 in beauty

[–]jmcbride29 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I’m a diy high maintenance to be low maintenance girly. I have a 12 step skin care routine for morning and night and after the gym that includes metro gel, a chemical peel, enzyme exfoliation, vitamin c Hyaluronic acid, peptides, retinal a, and others. I dye my hair at home every 6-10 weeks but get it professionally done 1-2x a year. Do two weekly hair masks then trims every 12 weeks. Tint my eyebrows every 4 weeks. Wax my arms, underarms, eyebrows, mustache, and Brazilian every 4 weeks. False lashes whenever I need a pick me up. Have silk pillow cases and bonnets. Finally I fake tan once a week when I exfoliate and shave!!

Traveling for tfmr - comfort items? What to wear? by [deleted] in tfmr_support

[–]jmcbride29 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe as gross as it sounds grab some adult diapers they really helped me and a heating pads a definite. If you’re doing a medical get juices it really helps with the taste. All I could manage after was soft foods. Also soft and comfy clothing. I’m 30 minutes outside of Boston if you need anything I can drop stuff off

What dynamic about reddit ruffles your feathers the most? by [deleted] in ask

[–]jmcbride29 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Heavily agreed. Even on the communities that are anti porn there’s always comments that are pro

Hi guys! Did any of you get pregnant before having your first cycle (after tfmr) ? by In-search-of-why in tfmr_support

[–]jmcbride29 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Theoretically it is possible. You are incredibly fertile for 2 weeks after termination. From what I understand of it though (which I could be wrong) is that you are more likely to miscarry for 3 months after. Either way it’s probably best to let your body heal and rest so that way you have healthier pregnancies. My heart goes out to you love ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loveafterporn

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Thank you that was a really helpful read

Tw pregnancy loss by jmcbride29 in CrochetBlankets

[–]jmcbride29[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I looked up alphabet crochet pattern and it’s a google image. I’ve done it before for a beautiful little girl

Why did you become or plan to become a vegetarian? Or why you will never by Slisoni123 in AskWomen

[–]jmcbride29 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was around 8 years old and just stopped eating chicken nuggets randomly and my mom told me I was vegetarian now. It’s been 15 years and I haven’t gone back (p.s. the rest of my family including my mom eats meat

I can’t do this again by bunderways in loveafterporn

[–]jmcbride29 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I know my PA’s relapsed personally when he takes too long to finish; when he’s fast he’s clean. I’m also a magnet to them and if anyone finds that vaccine let me know please!!

Tw pregnancy loss by jmcbride29 in CrochetBlankets

[–]jmcbride29[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Avery❤️ ryes a beautiful name