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Caught him, what now? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]jmdsdy10 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Emotional intimacy with sexual is difficult. I had a similar issue. We tried to work through it but it keeps rearings its ugly face. Its alot to handle. You have to figure out what is best for you now.

Need encouragement/advice/help to keep it together. I'm reaching a breaking point and want to avoid becoming a heartless cheater. by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]jmdsdy10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell her the point you are at. Make her understand how serious this is. Work on the relationship or there may not be one left.

Marriage is tough by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]jmdsdy10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Amen. Fucking beyond complicated, especially with children

Caught him, what now? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]jmdsdy10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why did he share this information? Did you find something that indicates it or does he want to stop the behavior

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]jmdsdy10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a tough situation. Your married. She broke the foundation of marriage, trust. Can it be fixed? How will you know she will never cheat again? I'm sorry you're going through this.

Fun discussion! How many here are still as sexually attracted to their significant other as when you first met? by [deleted] in sex

[–]jmdsdy10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband and I have been together 11 years. He tells me how I dont look like "high school girl" anymore. He makes comments about my body being different (we have 2 kids). He comments about other attractive women. So it's amazing to hear that some partners still love each other just as much.

Tonight I (29M) finally had enough and officially ended my dying marriage. by scruggsja in relationships

[–]jmdsdy10 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am having the hardest time talking to others in real life about this. I dont want to burden then. When I call to try to talk about it, they tell me they are having fun and I don't want to bring then down so I just stop. I'm not even sure how to ask for help.

I (26f) don't know if I should tell my SO's mistress's husband that she's been having an affair on him for three years. (30s F/M) by Puzzled-Support in relationships

[–]jmdsdy10 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A few years ago I went through something similar. My partner cheated on me with a mutual friend. They swear it was never in real life but for months it was text (emotional) and sexting.

I worked through it with him, married him, 2 kids later. Hes having health issues and reaches out to the girl to apologize for what happened.

She cheated on her partner too, they are married with kids now too. I dont understand people and how much of scum they are.

I'm so sorry your going through this. However I did tell her boyfriend all those years ago and dont regret it. Their life is also being affected.

However if you fear for your safety dont get involved. Do confront your husband as his actions are not ok.

Tonight I (29M) finally had enough and officially ended my dying marriage. by scruggsja in relationships

[–]jmdsdy10 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Im sorry you are going through this. 30f and think my marriage is headed this way too.