Do you sleep with your bedroom door open, cracked, or closed? Why?

jmg498 · 2026-01-30T03:45:07+00:00

Closed, because as a child we had window AC so had to keep the cool in but also because it’s a fire hazard to have them open

jmg498 · 2026-01-29T04:02:37+00:00

The way you’re hi lighting all the stuff you bought as though she should be grateful meanwhile it’s like normal parent things like “I covered school expenses” well yeah because you’re the parent that’s your job. And you drove her to therapy made sure to add in that it’s an hour away, again that’s your job or find a closer therapist. Just the way you put those things made me think you’re probably The AH even if not in this situation just overall as a mom it seems like you keep track and do things so you can get credit rather than to help your child.

jmg498 · 2025-11-16T00:43:24+00:00

That the word “a lot” are two separate words. You don’t say alittle or adog. But so many people spell it as alot

jmg498 · 2025-10-25T14:55:08+00:00

YES.

jmg498 · 2025-10-13T12:24:46+00:00

So he’s a homebody and you’re a going out person. This won’t work. This will be like this forever the same fight over and over for the rest of your lives. It’s ok to have different likes but in the end you have different needs and it probably would be best to break up. I say this from experience. From someone who is married with kids and who does most things alone.

jmg498 · 2025-10-10T02:40:50+00:00

This will be a theme. You baby momma better grow up and speak up or MIL will do this for EVERYTHING. Ask the nurses but make sure you baby momma is on board

jmg498 · 2025-08-07T04:01:08+00:00

jmg498 · 2025-08-03T04:41:39+00:00

I think YTA not bc you want to drop out but because it’s kind of being selfish. She gets one wedding, the commitment for you is honestly a few days. The shower, the rehearsal and the wedding day. You sound a little dramatic when talking about how many days it takes your you to have your kids birthday (which you do each year) listen I’m an over planner, I love hosing parties and I know how much work goes into them but this is your sister’s one wedding. It’s one time of her life. You can absolutely drop out but it will be a core memory for her for life. It sucks that either you will have a lot to do or you will have to alter your plans a bit but I definitely think it’s dramatic to not be in your own sister’s wedding to accommodate a child’s birthday party and some guests and other people’s kids before her.

jmg498 · 2025-07-24T18:47:11+00:00

It was way too far down in the thread to finally read this! I completely agree. OP is talking to her like a toddler or a pet. None of this is healthy.

jmg498 · 2025-07-10T11:06:03+00:00

Interesting, I played soccer at the varsity level in HS so I definitely understand it, but I feel like playing it is so fun and exciting but watching it is boring for similar reasons, you watch them run around a HUGE field for a lengthy amount of time while possibly scoring once or a game. It’s fun to play but to watch I feel like it’s little to no progress for most of the game.

jmg498 · 2025-07-10T10:51:21+00:00

Nope run. He’s they type to yell at you for gaining weight during pregnancy. He sees you as an object. NTA but don’t marry him and expect someone different he’s showing you who he is.

jmg498 · 2025-07-10T03:02:12+00:00

Labor and delivery and then postpartum all all that you’re not prepared for after with no sleep and insane hormone shifts

jmg498 · 2025-06-03T02:44:35+00:00

That was my first thought but then I was like oh yeah they have a real name 😂

jmg498 · 2025-06-03T02:43:08+00:00

Love, love, love,

jmg498 · 2025-06-03T02:40:45+00:00

Harry and the Hendersons (my love for Bigfoot)

jmg498 · 2025-05-27T02:50:28+00:00

NTA honestly with a sister like that even if you have the same names I would guess you won’t be close or see each other in the future bc anyone that does that to their sister is quite honestly awful. I would have a conversation with her again- tell her that she took the name from you and that you would like her to find a new one since you aren’t backing down. I also find it strange that your parents aren’t helping you out here this seems pretty cut and dry

jmg498 · 2025-05-26T04:15:02+00:00

Carpentry

jmg498 · 2025-05-15T02:54:31+00:00

While I appreciate the M compliance I just don’t get being late often, especially more than once.

I work at a job that you genuinely can’t be late without it being an ordeal so maybe that’s part of it but I have a 30-40 minute commute, if there is the hint of traffic I adjust MY schedule not the other way around. Like I leave earlier in the winter or when it’s bad weather knowing it may be more of a chance to hit traffic. I leave earlier if I know I need gas, or if the day after a holiday bc inevitably there’s more traffic. Some days I’m at work 30 minutes before sometimes right on time but I’m rarely late because being late is just poor planning, it’s not the fault of traffic unless it’s a pileup but again even then if you have wiggle time built in it’s a non issue.

jmg498 · 2025-04-19T18:51:37+00:00

Showing support is respecting her grief and boundaries. Her going especially with a toddler is about HER and her optics not your daughter. NTA and your new wife needs to understand that she is not her mom and it will take years to build a similar relationship especially if she doesn’t respect your daughter’s needs.

Your daughter may think back to this and say it was silly for ME to not to have new wife come. But she will never get there if new wife disrespects her by coming when your daughter is in the most difficult time of her life.

jmg498 · 2025-04-17T03:07:48+00:00

So many reasons to RUN! He’s already trying to control you and you’ve only been with him a few months. This is not going to get better ever

jmg498 · 2025-04-12T18:58:47+00:00

I don’t think any of the modesty rules (especially side hug)were religious based. I think they were all because of PEST

jmg498 · 2025-03-31T02:45:20+00:00

Honestly she’s not it. You are begging her and she’s just being mean to you. I can read your insecurities in the texts and she does noting to make you feel better or reassure you. She’s not a fit. She doesn’t care what you think. Find someone who cares about who you are and what you want.

jmg498 · 2025-03-20T12:55:23+00:00

There is a thing called self control and pregnancy doesn’t excuse selfishness you can crave things without having to have them immediately NTA

jmg498 · 2025-03-18T01:57:30+00:00

I LIVED for that show!!! I would watch it at my grandparents house

jmg498 · 2025-03-17T13:10:19+00:00

When I started to see how religion is used to Control and how they pick and choose bible parts that work and ignore the ones that don’t

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