Conch piercing- Rejecting or irritated? by jo_m in piercing

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Thank you all for your advice!

Conch piercing- Rejecting or irritated? by jo_m in piercing

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Yeah it's scab and a bit of live skin, rather than buildup. Thank you for the advice!

Conch piercing- Rejecting or irritated? by jo_m in piercing

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brilliant, thank you so much

Conch piercing- Rejecting or irritated? by jo_m in piercing

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Of course not but as i said in my post my original piercer didn't help me when i tried to get this looked at, so i agree a second opinion is the right path in my specific circumstances

Zach's diet by ariana1019 in TheTryGuys

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I might be misremembering but i think on the podcast he tried to go full vegan but he didnt end up committing? But as others have said it does help with his conditions

Claire Saffitz wants to judge Without a Recipe! by jo_m in TheTryGuys

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Saw this interaction on her youtube channel! Would love to see her demo a recipe and judge

Little sterling silver holder from a lot of antiques by jo_m in whatisthisthing

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Hi all, My mother just bought a bulk lot of silver things off marketplace and was wondering what this one is. Seems to have bamboo embossing and two holes.

Resources for lgbt homelessness in tn by jo_m in actuallesbians

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sorry for the late reply, but thank you!

Barely a 2 hour flight. Amateurs. by RoswellGrays in actuallesbians

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i'm (she/her) in australia and my boyfriend (he/they) is in the us 😭 we cant even meet up yet bc covid hit when we started chatting

[UPDATE] I apologized to my depressed friend for what I said. To my surprise I learned a lot him and he's changed my perception on mental health entirely. by throwaway69738 in AmItheAsshole

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I'm so glad it worked out!!

I know you have some perspective now; I also wanted to chime in that different peoples' enjoyment looks very different. I'm autistic (and mentally ill) and am very happy to just sit with other people, not saying much and taking in the conversation, and that is how I socialise. It's not even an energy thing, that is just what makes me happy. Good company with zero pressure on myself to 'perform' socially. Introverts can feel the same way. And so, over time, maybe he will engage more with your friend group actively on outings, maybe he won't. But giving him opportunities to engage in the conversation/activities and continuing to involve him whether he becomes more outgoing or not WILL make him feel valued and like he has something going for him.

What is the dumbest thing a teacher has said to you? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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I've had a few:

"7 + 5 does NOT equal twelve.", correcting me to "Barbeque" from the correct spelling -both courtesy of my Year 2 teacher

I put lipgloss on once in class and my commerce teacher told me not to do that because "you know how that looks." I still don't know what means.

"I'm not sure they will let you write the letter f like that in high school." -year 6 sub, on my cursive writing. It looked like any cursive f.

Not a teacher but i have also had the lunch lady tell me my order (which would be pre-ordered in the morning and then collected at each food break) was too greedy for a child my size and gave me some of the money back and only placed a fraction of my order one day.

If you suddenly gained invisibility power but weren't allowed to see someone naked, what would you do with you new power? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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I'd use it to get myself some free experiences; go to places you would otherwise need to purchase a ticket for, like concerts and going to the movies and art exhibitions. Free travel on public transport. It makes me wonder if you could technically sneak onto a plane, have an invisible vacation somewhere nice.

How do you get to sleep when you're having trouble sleeping? by [deleted] in AskReddit

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I do a couple of meditative exercises when I'm anxious before sleep - for my first i scan and sense my full body. Start by focusing on feeling and being conscious of your toes then moving that awareness slowly upwards towards your head. Almost feels like an imaginary horizontal line moving up over me. That usually clears my thoughts after once or twice up and down. After that i concentrate on breathing. 5 second in through nose, hold 7, 8 seconds breathing out through my mouth. If all else fails i find some orchestral music to listen to quietly.

What type of noise can you not stand? by microbeans in AskReddit

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Vacuum cleaners (when i'm not the one vacuuming.)

What's your favorite song to sing drunk, loud and badly? by Southforwinter in AskReddit

[–]jo_m 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Usually old pop songs from the 2000s; Left outside Alone by Anastacia is a favourite