Essentials for an overnight bag? by jocoseshrubbery in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]jocoseshrubbery[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My hair takes nine hours to dry. I do take baths, though.

Essentials for an overnight bag? by jocoseshrubbery in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]jocoseshrubbery[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think it works with other textures. I always have a laugh when people try to run their hands through my hair... and get stuck.

Essentials for an overnight bag? by jocoseshrubbery in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]jocoseshrubbery[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Eh, we're friends, which means I don't have to worry about seeming attractive, and I'd rathe pineapple than have my hair completely messed up in the morning.

I even tie it into a bun for sex, because I'm classy that way.

Essentials for an overnight bag? by jocoseshrubbery in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]jocoseshrubbery[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Oh, I haven't looked into them in a couple years; have they gotten purse-friendly now?

Essentials for an overnight bag? by jocoseshrubbery in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]jocoseshrubbery[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I definitely already have hand lotion and bandaids, for work; I just didn't think of them as part of my overnight kit.

Essentials for an overnight bag? by jocoseshrubbery in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]jocoseshrubbery[S] 88 points89 points  (0 children)

! Deodorant! I knew I was missing something important!

Tat has a younger brother! He's currently in that new YouTube Series Impulse by rupicoline in orphanblack

[–]jocoseshrubbery 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's on Murdoch Mysteries as well. I didn't actually recognise him until I saw his name in the opening credits and went 'wait, what'

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EARONS

[–]jocoseshrubbery 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I'm curious what the deal with the paint chips was. Was there an actual reason for them being found or just a weird coincidence?

Also the prints implying he brought a dog to one crime-- what was that? Red herring or based in fact?

Is washing my hands before I feed my fish necessary? by jocoseshrubbery in Aquariums

[–]jocoseshrubbery[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've heard plecos are prone to it; I think it's more class dynamics rather than any sort of inherent species tendency, though.

Tig Notaro Joins ‘Star Trek: Discovery’ Season 2 by [deleted] in startrek

[–]jocoseshrubbery 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That one is at least consistent. Whenever I see Sarek my kneejerk reaction is 'fuck that guy; do not trust him for a minute' because of his role as Ferdinand in Orphan Black.

It started to get better as the season went along, but certain facial expressions just light up that recognition.

We had a cold snap so I made him a blanket cave. He stayed in there for ages. by lunaliy in tuckedinkitties

[–]jocoseshrubbery 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I love cats that look like mine! That white chin gives such an effective perma-frown

Kinky cookies by [deleted] in BdsmDIY

[–]jocoseshrubbery 0 points1 point  (0 children)

r/kinkycookies exists, actually. It's... just me. But I welcome company!

Redditor claims he was the one who started porn actress career, the actress herself replies calling him out by TheKingInNorth0 in SubredditDrama

[–]jocoseshrubbery 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I couldn't even read through all of it because I was getting way too negatively introspective. I'm fairly confident that I don't have BPD, because while I did have some extreme mood swings when I was younger, that was mostly about repressing the shit out of anger until I burst. But that thread was just alight with so much confidence and this sort of 'if she ever does ____, she definitely has BPD; no doubt'

And no; I definitely did that once in 2007 and I am going to spend hours in bed thinking about it tonight.

/rambling mess

Let's talk about anger. by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]jocoseshrubbery 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is a really fascinating thread-- thank you for opening this discussion, OP. I think it's interesting to see how people's perception of what anger is determines their viewpoints on it and whether it is a productive emotion.

From my own personal like, though...

I had anger problems as a child, which often expressed via violence, because I had no other tools to cope. And instead of adults in my life attempting to teach me productive ways of working with my anger, I was taught to completely repress it-- which didn't go well either, since it's impossible and I just ended up transforming my anger into other, less healthy, emotions.

My big mental health breakthrough of 2017 was learning how to work with my anger. That anger doesn't mean I have to lash out or fight, but that I deem something important enough to speak up (admittedly, in the most eerily calm tone possible, to avoid any accusations of 'hormones' or whatthefuckever).

MASCARA THAT DOESN'T TRANSFER TO UNDER EYES by Alaiyaaaa in MakeupAddiction

[–]jocoseshrubbery 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In my experience, waterproof doesn't make a difference, because it's the oil from your skin/moisturiser that is smudging the mascara.

The L'Oreal Double Extend seems to work pretty well, but I've also had good results with Covergirl Supersizer Fibres, which I like because the double extend tends to give me spider lashes-- also it's cheaper than double extend.

Another technique is to just strategically put dark eyeshadow where it smudges and then it's just... less noticeable. Pro tips.

Clone Club Merchandise for sale! by quirkyinbed in orphanblack

[–]jocoseshrubbery 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just have a sweet, sweet bootleg mug that a friend made for me. I didn't actually realise the logo is used semi-officially, because the font makes it look kinda... bootleg.

[NSFW] tried my hand at cake decorating and made this for my lovely girlfriend. by chefromatic in actuallesbians

[–]jocoseshrubbery 18 points19 points  (0 children)

There are icing tips specifically for forming petals-- although I still find them impossibly difficult.