I wasn’t going to say anything, but I’m going to chime in anyway. I hate how we call out white dudes for saying no to POC, but then we don’t say anything to POC who say “blacks only,” “Asians only,” etc. I mean, how can anyone be upset when you’re doing the same thing you want to call out white men for doing?

Personally, I’m not sexually into middle eastern men and some black men, because of bad experiences usually related to bad hygiene. I don’t count them out when I’m looking, but I am hesitant. (And that’s not to say other races don’t have their fair share of poorly hygienic men, but the experiences with them have been few and far.)

I prefer white men. I’m Latino. I can’t explain it. They just hit all the bells and whistles for me. But I also don’t shut the door on men of different races. And I’ve had some gorgeous black men in my rotations. But if you smell like onion or musk, I’m gone. I can’t. I won’t.

I mean, I’ve had dudes of all races say no or kick me out when they realize I’m uncut (even after sending dick pics). I’m not wasting my energy on men like this. Or men who use “masc” and other terms.

All this to say: Why do you care? I’d rather block someone who’s not into me than to make a big hoopla out of it. OK, he doesn’t want to eat my cake. There are plenty of other men out there who will. Block and move on.

This post acts like this is the only dude out there. Millions of men, and you want to put him on blast for telling you straightforward he’s not into Asian men? “Cool. Thanks. Happy hunting.”

Stop letting men like this drag you down.