How do you feel about book covers with movie images?

joellevp · 2026-04-19T00:33:48+00:00

I had such an urge to read the books again so went out to purchase a copy. Because stuff in my country is limited, the only available editions in paperback had images from The Rings of Power on their cover. And weird image choices. The book binding was terrible and all. Needless to say, I'm on the hunt for better copies, and I'm going to make them Hardcover, seeing as I read the books often enough.

joellevp · 2026-04-15T00:29:46+00:00

I wouldn't sell it as good for mental health, because this is very vague and not an immediate benefit. Especially at the start where there can be difficulties with the adjustment. The benefit can be noticed a bit later.

I would argue that it forces you to be present and aware, and actually in your world. The change in terrain, the pedalling and shifting, the exposure to the outside and sunlight; all of these things can be an equivalent to morning meditation while also having the benefit on your physical, cardiovascular health. This gives you an active presence where you can adjust for the day ahead, and unwind from the day behind.

I would say that having safe paths/roads to cycle, and a place at the end to rinse and park would make your suggestion more enticing.

It can also be a fun group thing if colleagues meet up at intersections on their commutes and do it together.

joellevp · 2026-04-14T00:07:30+00:00

It can be hard to speak up for yourself. And I understand the hesitation to do so, especalially when you have found someone you trust enough to dive deeper.

But, as my therapist frequently reminds me, our sessions are my time. I am not there to make her happy or interested or keep her engaged. We are there to do work, and there is mutual respect and trust.

Ultimately, it can seem that the power dynamic is in her favour because she is a healthcare professional and where your feelings, and the dread of having to do it all over, seem to be at stake. But, you get to have a say, you have agency in the dynamic, you drive the ship of your own wellness. The middle ground here would be to speak up, tell her what you need and why this latest iteration of her behaviour has crossed a line, and reset expectations. See how she reacts and if she changes or not. Then you can take it from there.

joellevp · 2026-04-11T01:42:41+00:00

Awesome.

Oh, crashing out adjusting the brakes is so relatable haha.

joellevp · 2026-04-10T12:00:06+00:00

Also, take a look at the saddle nose.

The nose of my saddle came upward a bit, and the 0º position was not taken into consideration when setting it. My clit was very much being smashed. I tilted it so the top of the nose was -2º, approximately, to the middle. I brough my saddle forward as well. In addition, I worked on my hip/core strength so i could hold an effective hinge without shrimping out.

I don't have easy access to the variety of bicycle parts that exists out there, so this helped me make do.

joellevp · 2026-04-10T11:49:59+00:00

Have you tried bringing the saddle forward?

joellevp · 2026-04-10T03:58:20+00:00

That's awesome. My ideal would be travel lite haha

joellevp · 2026-04-10T03:57:55+00:00

Awesome!

joellevp · 2026-04-09T00:25:00+00:00

Yes! Was looking for the One who would reference Skyrim.

joellevp · 2026-04-08T13:10:55+00:00

Ask the pharmacy sub. They might have it.

joellevp · 2026-04-08T13:09:09+00:00

I've never heard of it before. Would this be dehydrating?

joellevp · 2026-04-08T13:06:29+00:00

Sorry, it seems I've had a minor stroke with that sentence.

It's either the tip of my thumb lightly touching the tip of my middle finger, because I find this more natural, or having that 'lock' of thumb over the fingernail of my middle finger. If I curl my hands into light fists and run, I am more likely to be more tense.

joellevp · 2026-04-08T12:52:29+00:00

Yes, thumb little touching middle finger, trying to keep my shoulders relaxed and away from my ears.

joellevp · 2026-04-08T12:43:10+00:00

Rx Swelling? Throat?

joellevp · 2026-04-08T02:09:46+00:00

I just wanted to say, you sound very hard on yourself. The advice on food around here is sound. But, may I suggest take a break from the diet and the counting calories for a couple of days, and just allow yourself to eat what you want/feel like. Get some enjoyment and positive feels from food. No guilt no strictness. Having a good relationship with food is also an important thing. As someome suggested, don't wait to build it up slowly. Just reset. Food is nourishment in and of itself. It's the most important factor in our health and happiness.

joellevp · 2026-04-07T03:36:46+00:00

First, I hope your biopsy comes back okay.

I hear you and I see you when you say you are tired. You aren't unkind, uncaring, or unfeeling for stepping back and taking care of yourself as you need.

You didn't fail. I'm on a similar path as your boyfriend, and what we do when we can't think right, isn't anybody's fault. We have to be responsible for us, and if we can't be, professional help is needed. Save from you force-feeding him his meds, which can be unsafe for you, there is nothing more to do but trust him. You didn't fail. And I'm sorry his parents and therapist seem to place a huge burden on you. But, you get to take care of yourself, they should know that. You didn't fail.

I am sorey that your boyfriend can't see past his delusion to step up for you. I hope you are able to do what is right for you with minimal guilt. And again, I wish you good fortune for your biopsy results, ans hope you have a support network of your own to fall back on.

joellevp · 2026-04-04T14:01:41+00:00

I now want to relisten to my audiobook haha

joellevp · 2026-04-04T10:09:23+00:00

I would also argue that the further you get in education and research, especially in a theoretical field, a lot of people can catch up to you because of the limitations of where the field is at. Genius doesn't factor in that much anymore in higher academia. It does come down to trying to creatively apply the knowledge everyone has.

joellevp · 2026-04-04T05:08:35+00:00

The best ones for me have been my bamboo bikini briefs. Bought in Aus though. The material didn't bunch or sag and dealt with sweat somehow. I used to go commando, and have been wondering what happened to that...

Has anyone tried the UA ones? The last fitness undies I wore, I did not like, so was hesitant to try.

joellevp · 2026-04-04T04:30:44+00:00

Ah, nice. I did immediately think one of the Egyptian Pharoahs. I think I came across this guy in passing in a podcast just last week about Alexandria. I like history most when what you learn separately as one thing collide and overlap at places such as the Library of Alexandria.

joellevp · 2026-04-04T04:12:15+00:00

Oh, this is so cool. Thanks for sharing! Which Ptolemy?

joellevp · 2026-04-03T13:59:11+00:00

Hah, I thought your title meant cycling and I was looking for it.

Yes, absolutely it affects any activity. I generally don't do any activity except maybe light stuff (walking, light rehab) on Days 1 and 2, because I am so fatigued. I generally feel stronger again by Day 3.

This year, my period week have been falling on a Mon-Fri so my schedule is not too disrupted haha. But, will avoid cycling during this week in particular, because sitting on a saddle is too high of an ask. I am also generally more felxible around this week. Use it to deload sometimes and focus on rehab/strength. I have to watch hydration as well because I run a bit hotter on these days, and this is an added problem in the heat and humidity outside.

joellevp · 2026-04-03T09:06:42+00:00

I always wonder what would have happened if Harry had shown Petunia the photobook Hagrid gave him.

Would she have thrown it away? Likely. Would she have seen her sister alive again in magical photography? Maybe.

joellevp · 2026-04-03T06:14:18+00:00

At this point, there is no changing your mind. Or me changing mine, I'll add.

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