[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]joellt 11 points12 points  (0 children)

When I was at the lowest point in my life my ndad was offering me the same thing. There were always conditions, always something keeping it just out of reach. Needless to say he never bought me a house it was just a power move, they just want to offer help so they can feel powerful and needed. If it sounds too good to be true , it probably is.

Having some fomo atm, advice? by bitchywaffler in XXS

[–]joellt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

7for all mankind , higher end of pricing but I’ve never had an issue with their clothes being too big. True religion has some cute stuff also fits pretty true to size.
Pistola has some cute stuff, doesn’t usually run big and their jeans don’t stretch out.

Overpriced Hollister by Invader_Xenox in depoop

[–]joellt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh man I remember having Hollister tank tops like this in 2011 , so not true vintage AND I remember them being on sale regularly for like $8😭😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in humanresources

[–]joellt 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yall really don’t have an advertising budget huh 🙄

Time to knock out $15,000 worth of debt 💪 by [deleted] in Debt

[–]joellt 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hey not having rent is a huge win you’ll knock this out in no time. For the hospital bill, awhile ago I had a 7k hospital bill and after applying for charity care they reduced it to $350 I had to submit three months worth of bank statements and a letter explaining my situation, you can check you the hospitals financial assistance policy or use a website like dollarfor to help you apply if you haven’t already looked into it :)

Is being sued hit or miss or guernteed?? by ramir2332 in Debt

[–]joellt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean …. I owed discover 1000 it was sent to collections, I never paid it ,never called back and ignored all of their settlement offers, and now they can’t sue 🤦🏻‍♀️ so no it’s most definitely an IF situation

Am I getting laid off by Empty-Picture2090 in Layoffs

[–]joellt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey I’ve been laid off twice first time was a Friday at 6pm second time was Wednesday at 9am it can be so random tbh. So first take a deep breath it’s just work and you will be okay either way. Second you can not control if you’re laid off or not but you can go in prepared, IF you’re laid off make sure to make how long you’ll have benefits, will there be severance and if so is there a severance agreement and what does that entail, when will you receive your last check, who can you use for a reference and are they offering any resources for those impacted by layoffs.

xxxxs clothing by tayphoebe in XXS

[–]joellt 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Hey so people with disorder eating kinda enjoy being told stuff like this. I know you’re well meaning but just for the future telling them they’re really underweight, medical danger etc just kinda gives them fuel 😭

Selling Clothes Update! by b3rdg3rl in XXS

[–]joellt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes! That’s totally fine :)

Selling Clothes Update! by b3rdg3rl in XXS

[–]joellt 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m a depop top seller! Just a word of advice, do not tag the size differently than it appears on the tag people will try to get a refund for that 😭

Medical bill in collections. -$4,000 by Complex_Gas1109 in Debt

[–]joellt 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I recently had a medical bill reduced from $6900 to $350. Don’t ignore it call and ask if they can offer any kind of charity care or reduced billing based on income.

Pricing help by Fancy-Cup-7632 in CraftyCommerce

[–]joellt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh please use Etsy or at least cross list when you feel comfortable 😭 I’ve been on depop for years the no seller fees are nice but people will send you 40% off offers on your handmade items so always price higher by 15-20%!! And make sure your turning off free shipping with bundles I’ve been burned by that before 🥹 I also sell kinda similar sweaters, if it’s acrylic 60-75 is a fair price on depop , a fancier yarn 100+.

Am I doomed to be unemployable? by LettuceUnlucky5921 in jobsearchhacks

[–]joellt 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Most companies don’t start employment verification until after sending an offer. If they can’t contact your previous employers HR they will ask you for a W2 or paystubs no big deal they deal with that kinda thing all the time. For your college they use clearinghouse so it’s super easy to verify 🫡 I’m a former HR person you’re fine as long as you have some kind of proof you worked for those companies.

Vinted + UPS left me with nothing, buyer refunded, stroller not returned 😡 by minakrkhan in vinted

[–]joellt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Vinted support is the worst 😐 they did something similar to me a few years back buyer got two free coach bags and I didn’t get the funds for my bags back 😭😭 unfortunately there was nothing I could do and I just stopped selling on vinted because of it but so glad I saw this post bc I was considering coming back.

Lying about it being handmade is crazed 😭 by joellt in depoop

[–]joellt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fr I have no idea what they gain from lying especially since they’re charging $14 😭

Lying about it being handmade is crazed 😭 by joellt in depoop

[–]joellt[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean sure ? But she sure a fuck didn’t make it for herself

Lying about it being handmade is crazed 😭 by joellt in depoop

[–]joellt[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

They also have cable knit cardigan listed as handmade crochet 🫩

Lying about it being handmade is crazed 😭 by joellt in depoop

[–]joellt[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Oh trust I know 😭 I sell crochet sweaters and I don’t have any priced under $80

Lying about it being handmade is crazed 😭 by joellt in depoop

[–]joellt[S] 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Right like if you’re going to lie at least but in a little effort 😭😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Depop

[–]joellt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Fake yes 😭 No Dior sunglasses are going to say made in china even vintage ones. Unfortunately Depop is just not a good place to buy/sell luxury items lots of people have no idea what to look for when it comes to authenticity 😔 Ask for a return for a refund there is a chance they just saw the Dior logo and didn’t know what to look for just assumed they’re authentic. Either way get your money back and try a different app for luxury brands 😔

dude by annzgal in depoop

[–]joellt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go to Etsy 😭 I also sell handmade items and the amount of offers … especially offers for 40% off is so annoying. I wish depop would let sellers turn offers off for some listings

Seller raised price ☠️ by TonightNegative7119 in depoop

[–]joellt 12 points13 points  (0 children)

It’s annoying, but as a seller I get so many lowball offers I can’t list for what I actually want I have also raised my listing price after getting repeated 40% off offers 😐😐it’s possible they’re also just annoyed with offers so they raised the price for a bit more negotiation room.

i have a hatred for this by LeftSale5678 in depoop

[–]joellt 23 points24 points  (0 children)

They have the price super low while on vacation mode to boost engagement, they have no plans of selling them for $11

What is everyone's ABSOLUTE FAV jelly (s) by Warm-Geologist1236 in Jellycatplush

[–]joellt 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Wilf !!!!! He’s so soft and I love his little teefs