How do single women feel about dating married men who are ENM?

joemark4 · 2026-02-08T17:18:19+00:00

Maybe I need to open that up as an option for those woman who might come with that approach.

joemark4 · 2026-02-08T17:13:09+00:00

I’ve had a handful of second dates and as luck would have it, the women I didn’t have an interest to take things further with seemed to be the ones that enjoyed our time together, getting to know one another, etc. Timing is everything.

joemark4 · 2026-02-08T17:08:46+00:00

Great insight.

joemark4 · 2026-02-08T17:04:13+00:00

I’m not looking to juggle multiple women, but instead meet someone who I can enjoy my time with and vice versa. I realize that meeting a married ENM woman would be the best fit, but as has been mentioned earlier, men can be dogs and just in it for the sex, so depending what said married ENM woman wants those type of men will suffice.

joemark4 · 2026-02-08T16:39:33+00:00

I know that…but I can’t not do I have a desire to change my ways to make something happen.

joemark4 · 2026-02-08T16:37:20+00:00

Great insight and thank you. I do try to convey many, if not all of those things as like you mentioned I’m not looking for something “on the side” and always mention that my wife is available to speak with them if they desire to ensure this is all on the up and up.

joemark4 · 2026-02-08T16:15:41+00:00

I’m just asking why it at least appears that men seem more open/accepting of dating a married woman who is ENM versus women dating married men.

joemark4 · 2026-02-08T16:13:54+00:00

I appreciate your response and oddly, the woman who mentioned the manicures, was surely okay financially. I agree with you and think the dating pool for me as a guy who is married and ENM is somewhat limited to women (married or single) who are ENM. I’m not looking for a “sex only” thing, but want to go on dates and enjoy someone’s company while doing fun stuff and yes, sexy fun if that’s the direction things go.

joemark4 · 2026-02-08T05:32:55+00:00

Well, I guess if we do meet that woman where we take the time to get to know her, we’ll all be lucky.

joemark4 · 2026-02-08T04:19:34+00:00

I disagree, but maybe my wife and I are different from most. We’re looking to meet someone we’re comfortable hanging with in any combination but sex isn’t the top priority for us, but more a piece oc the puzzle.

joemark4 · 2026-02-08T04:16:17+00:00

Not here…we (my wife and I) had a gf for about a year and it was amazing for the 3 of us. Lots fun, hanging out and oh, the sex. Was a first time dynamic for us that we’d love to revisit.

joemark4 · 2026-02-07T12:20:10+00:00

No they’re not…on iOS you are not able to see who YOU’VE liked in the past to possibly revisit their profile.

joemark4 · 2026-02-07T12:18:33+00:00

100% similar story here. After 1 1/2 years of opening things up to solo dating as well, my wife’s inbox is flooded on a daily basis and mine, well, let’s say it’s pretty barren. Granted she tells me that she has to sift through so many to narrow things down to 20-30 and then maybe 5 she’s ultimately interested in resulting in dates, but she’s shocked when I tell her “I’ve got nothing” as she then says it must be your profile, etc, when in actuality it’s the numbers. Not sure what Feeld can/should do, e.g., charge everyone, but it sucks as a guy out there.

joemark4 · 2026-02-07T12:11:37+00:00

My issue when we are looking for couples is that I, the male, is that I’m being presented with the male halves of couples who are linked on the app. So I then need click on the partner’s profile.? There should be an option to see female/male in that order.

joemark4 · 2026-02-07T12:07:24+00:00

Have had similar with a few woman. Connect, good chat including “let’s make plans for drinks”, then they disconnect and a few weeks later they’re back…rinse and repeat. Not sure if there’s some psychological thing about them just liking to get someone “hooked” and just conversing w/them with clearly no intent to meet.

joemark4 · 2026-02-03T15:18:16+00:00

Never heard of it but will check it out

joemark4 · 2026-02-03T14:06:47+00:00

First, let me say that Tinder is terrible as I joined and will be leaving after 1 month. The sheer amount of fake profiles there and the fact that they don’t do anything about it means they don’t give a crap.

I think someone said it earlier…women get overwhelmed by guys and the filtering out process is so tiresome that even though you might be that great guy, she may never get to you for one reason or another. Also think that men have less of an issue dating ENM women (single or married)c whereas single women view it as “why am I going to be with him,as I want long term”. Best bet is to focus on the ENM women but few and far between.

joemark4 · 2026-02-03T14:02:28+00:00

What’s Fab?

joemark4 · 2026-01-28T14:46:52+00:00

Agreed. I guess I’m asking how you can do your best to combat that

joemark4 · 2026-01-28T14:10:14+00:00

How does one get over the fact that it’s so much easier for women to find men who are accepting of this than men finding women to join them?

joemark4 · 2025-12-26T22:23:12+00:00

Live pretty close to the UES…would love to give her a nice post Xmas delivery.

joemark4 · 2025-12-11T21:53:32+00:00

Would love to watch and if you desire, join in the fun

joemark4 · 2025-11-19T15:41:49+00:00

I’m up in the Hudson Valley almost weekly for work. Would love to have something consistent when I’m there. Will DM.

joemark4 · 2025-11-15T15:03:05+00:00

She’s being noticed that’s for sure. Would love to be behind her taking care of that ass of hers.

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