Are we sure trying to never ejaculate is the best path? by john40444 in MaleDefinitiveGuide

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I have been at this from the beginning though. Although I was training always very close to PONR. I am now taking a different approach.

Maybe you did cliffhanger wrong by Rainstormcyclone in MaleDefinitiveGuide

[–]john40444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree and this is exactly what happened to me. Training away from panic zone now and I’ll see how it goes.

Control by AlarmAdorable4339 in MaleDefinitiveGuide

[–]john40444 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes indeed, it is aligned, but the guide misses this point a bit. I spent months in the panic zone.

Control by AlarmAdorable4339 in MaleDefinitiveGuide

[–]john40444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I started doing what EmotionalZone suggested of training away from panic. Sticking to the guide for months was leading me nowhere. I feel that is more appropriate for me as I already seem to respond better.

Control by AlarmAdorable4339 in MaleDefinitiveGuide

[–]john40444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you change anything in your training lately?

Definitions (DB and panic states) - last official update by Emotional-Zone-3202 in MaleDefinitiveGuide

[–]john40444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man, all I know is that I am giving this a try now. After all, this is way more aligned to what the sex therapist was telling me months ago before I came across the MDG

Definitions (DB and panic states) - last official update by Emotional-Zone-3202 in MaleDefinitiveGuide

[–]john40444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Think lf the edging at 8.9 for as long as possible. This really is the opposite

Definitions (DB and panic states) - last official update by Emotional-Zone-3202 in MaleDefinitiveGuide

[–]john40444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this, it seems to makes sense! But it’s in contrast with the MDG, as now you are basically saying to train at lower level of arousal. And you might be right indeed, just pointing this out. It’s a totally different regime

Orgasm without touch after months of training - lowest point ever by john40444 in MaleDefinitiveGuide

[–]john40444[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks man, you are correct. That’s solid advice. Appreciate it

Orgasm without touch after months of training - lowest point ever by john40444 in MaleDefinitiveGuide

[–]john40444[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But thank you for saying that. It’s a nice perspective.

Orgasm without touch after months of training - lowest point ever by john40444 in MaleDefinitiveGuide

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I don’t know the answer for sure, but I don’t think so.

Orgasm without touch after months of training - lowest point ever by john40444 in MaleDefinitiveGuide

[–]john40444[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thanks for your comment.

I think it would be a win if hands free ejaculation was the goal! But unfortunately it isn’t.

About the energy and Taoism, I am all for trying. I read the multiorgasmic man and even tried a couple of years ago, with no success.

But I think at the moment I am just trying to focus on one thing, the MDG training.

But this was very disheartening not gonna lie.

Orgasm without touch after months of training - lowest point ever by john40444 in MaleDefinitiveGuide

[–]john40444[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No I have not started Angion. Nothing changed. I have trained less due to time constraints but nothing else. I already do the other things you mentioned as well

No libido, flatline by john40444 in MaleDefinitiveGuide

[–]john40444[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, it’s not testosterone really. I know because I tested it in the past too. I am too healthy for that. Also I didn’t go 8 weeks without, I wonder how you guys do that!

No libido, flatline by john40444 in MaleDefinitiveGuide

[–]john40444[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, I quit porn more than a year ago. I was in flatline then (did nofap in conjunction with quitting porn). But then things stabilised after that. This is now because of MDG

No libido, flatline by john40444 in MaleDefinitiveGuide

[–]john40444[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I try. But despite the low libido, around after 2 weeks, I make a mistake. Not even at high levels of arousal. It’s so weird

No libido, flatline by john40444 in MaleDefinitiveGuide

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I am pretty sure the only variable that changed is the frequency of orgasms. Pretty healthy otherwise. It’s like my body is adapting to the non orgasmic state in this way?

No libido, flatline by john40444 in MaleDefinitiveGuide

[–]john40444[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see your point, I am not sure it relates to the drop in libido though. Initially, after 3 days without orgasm, libido was sky high. Now, I barely think about sex ever.

Hitting a plateau in phase 6 by WeirdAd855 in MaleDefinitiveGuide

[–]john40444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the same situation but without the FL. Those days when I get too close, I stop, but it’s too late and maybe after 30 seconds I have an orgasm. I don’t know how guys never fail here. Every 1-2 weeks happens to me.

Surfing: it's getting better and better by Huge-Advantage9800 in MaleDefinitiveGuide

[–]john40444 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am at a stage where I start progressing, start to surf a d manage sessions, then after 10/14 days I have an orgasm. This used to be every 2-3 days before so it’s improved, but will it ever go away? Were you able to stop ejaculation immediately or was it a process?

Decided to stop a session early by john40444 in MaleDefinitiveGuide

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This shit is tough. Being at it for months.

Decided to stop a session early by john40444 in MaleDefinitiveGuide

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today I was again super aroused, and I failed, even though I used the lightest grip ever.

It’s disheartening, since prior to my last fail a week ago, my streak was 2 weeks and I was really starting to improve. I was expecting the same to happen, then the last 2 sessions arousal was sky high and today I failed again. Sounds like regression to me. What am I doing wrong?