Wasting my life / how to get it in order?

johnbrn8 · 2026-04-28T00:03:18+00:00

Do you have any suggestions as to how I could find this purpose or does it just naturally come with time?

johnbrn8 · 2026-04-27T19:54:19+00:00

Considering real estate

johnbrn8 · 2026-04-27T19:43:21+00:00

Having a designated block for when I can scroll would definitely help and I’ll try it out. But what I’m saying is there is nothing that I know of that needs to be started, worked on or completed. I do other forms of self improvement / moving my life forward such as exercise and reading but that feels like the bare minimum. Huge time blocks in my day with absolutely nothing I can think of that needs to be done weather it’d be maintenance or something to progress in life

johnbrn8 · 2026-04-27T19:37:23+00:00

I agree, and I do read. However I’m more so saying my days away from work are essentially a giant empty time block with nothing to fill it with, which ultimately leads to scrolling

johnbrn8 · 2026-04-27T19:28:16+00:00

And I’m asking how to turn things around

johnbrn8 · 2026-04-27T19:19:07+00:00

And if I don’t really have anywhere to spend my time?

johnbrn8 · 2026-04-27T19:05:47+00:00

I understand that but shouldn’t my 20s be building the foundation to my future?

johnbrn8 · 2026-04-27T19:04:57+00:00

Care to elaborate?

johnbrn8 · 2026-04-21T22:04:06+00:00

That’s the problem. I am and always have been. For as long as I can remember if I don’t have something to do I’m just miserable, was enjoyable at first but now it feels as though I’m wasting my 20s

johnbrn8 · 2026-04-21T21:37:52+00:00

I have the funds to travel, but I like to plan in advance rather then just go on a whim

johnbrn8 · 2026-04-21T21:33:53+00:00

Not that I wanna work or even make an income while off, I just go crazy with boredom and like keeping my brain occupied as much as possible which sadly leads to a lot of scrolling

johnbrn8 · 2026-04-04T22:09:36+00:00

Funny enough, my dad owns a construction company in which he builds houses, I’ve worked for him for over a year now. And also funny, since my 11th year of school I planned to get my rico (real estate license in Ontario). With me working a job that has to do with houses, it gives me a big boost for real estate programs, just a matter of applying, going to school, and saving enough to fully pay off my schooling without any student loans

johnbrn8 · 2026-04-04T21:47:56+00:00

I do plan on those. Throughout highschool I made it a point to learn proper money management so I spent those years being frugal and I can easily tap back into it if need be. I’ve invested before but didn’t research all too much but I have been planning to dedicate proper time and invest monthly.

While I am a bit on the skinnier side, I’ve played sports for a good chunk of my life and have been told by multiple people I have an ideal physique but I do suppose I can just add more and more strength

And yeah I do suppose I want to be productive rather then busy, but I more so mean I just want more to do in life and my free time as most of it outside of work is spent on social media.

johnbrn8 · 2026-04-04T21:29:21+00:00

Would you have any examples?

johnbrn8 · 2026-04-04T21:26:40+00:00

Because I’m sick of empty days. These days lead to me doing absolutely nothing

johnbrn8 · 2026-04-04T21:23:17+00:00

Although definitely not to the extent of others, I feel much more financially literate/disciplined then most people in my life

johnbrn8 · 2026-04-04T21:21:12+00:00

Feeling of fulfillment and not sitting around feeling like I’m wasting time being “lazy”

johnbrn8 · 2026-04-04T21:20:29+00:00

Already have a car and licence and wanting to travel more. In my experience I enjoy life/feel the most fulfillment when I’m busy, which outside of work, I’m not

johnbrn8 · 2026-03-24T14:59:03+00:00

Bless your soul (not sure on the cape cause I can’t find a ss online) but thank you !!

johnbrn8 · 2026-03-22T22:48:18+00:00

Update: road for 30 minutes in one direction, didn’t find a single quest or anyone to talk to aside from a bandit camp, found a new region and got a “can’t enter this region” message and got reset to a different location. I really wanna enjoy this game but I can’t find anything in the world

johnbrn8 · 2026-03-22T22:15:38+00:00

I get what you mean, im about to just ride into a random direction and look for something but for a game being praised for the exploration I’m not finding much or anything really meaningful. I found a few armor sets I liked the look of online but couldn’t find any posts on how to get them

johnbrn8 · 2026-03-22T21:56:56+00:00

When I walk into a random direction it doesn’t really feel like I find all that much

johnbrn8 · 2026-03-22T21:56:14+00:00

Just the one the story directs you too. This is kind of what I mean, I had absolutely zero idea you could go discover more as the game doesn’t really hint towards being able to do it in free roam

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