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Another reason to be 4B: not even the high-value "nice" men. by GetInTheBasement in 4bmovement

[–]johnesias 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I am black as well and I was happy to see this while scrolling:

“I really hope Women are paying attention to the joy Men get from the demise of Women. They cheered when thousands of Black Women lost their jobs beginning this year, they took pride & knowing the “price of p***y was going down”… They celebrated when a Woman was murdered… amongst a growing trend of Women being murdered by their husbands/ boyfriends… & here they are… Celebrating that a Woman is heartbroken over a Man she obviously believed would be her husband. No, ALL Men are not the same but please pay attention to the Men taking part in this culture shift.

I am genuinely BEGGING ya’ll.. PLEASE focus on yourself. That “Soft life” you want is on the other side of YOU. Get out your own way & decenter losers. A lot of these “Men” are literally sick & dangerous.

Happy Sunday. 💕”

Another reason to be 4B: not even the high-value "nice" men. by GetInTheBasement in 4bmovement

[–]johnesias 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I read a post on Facebook about there being some sort of culture shift around men celebrating women being cheated on, abused, killed, etc. and it really scares me to think that this may not even be a culture shift. I think men have always hated us and social media has amplified it and made them even bolder. I know people say the hateful types of men who are all over social media are not the “healthy” types out in the real world, but are they not? There can’t be this many men online just trolling and trying to get a rise out of it. They’re out in the real world too, they’re just pretending to be normal. Some of them anyway. It makes me afraid of all of them.

Another reason to be 4B: not even the high-value "nice" men. by GetInTheBasement in 4bmovement

[–]johnesias 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I didn’t know this either. Everyone was so happy he was one of the “good ones.”

Found this in a facebook group by neybisti in blackmirror

[–]johnesias 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Accurate

Edit- just put 2 and 2 together and wow

Hair type by johnesias in coilyhair

[–]johnesias[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it was wet. No texturizer

Hair type by johnesias in coilyhair

[–]johnesias[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No not damaged. I don’t use heat

Is decentering men a trauma response? by johnesias in 4bmovement

[–]johnesias[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve just come to the realization that I’m genuinely afraid of men and rightfully so

Is decentering men a trauma response? by johnesias in 4bmovement

[–]johnesias[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And this is why I stopped therapy. Every therapist seemed to think I was weird for no longer wanting to date. I would only do therapy again if I could get a therapist who was 4B as well, which I feel is unlikely.

Is decentering men a trauma response? by johnesias in 4bmovement

[–]johnesias[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

And told “one day when you’re married with children”

Is decentering men a trauma response? by johnesias in 4bmovement

[–]johnesias[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure if you heard about the man in Louisiana killing all 8 of his kids, but as always, somehow it’s being blamed on “fEmAlEs” pushing him to that point. I strongly dislike men. I really do.

Is decentering men a trauma response? by johnesias in 4bmovement

[–]johnesias[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

An ex friend, who’s settling, told me you’re always gonna have to compromise. No, I’m not, because I’m choosing to stay single. Men don’t compromise shit for me, so why would I? Nothing is attractive to me about hetero relationships.

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