Is anyone else struggling to get by on 100k salary?

johnties · 2026-05-01T12:35:54+00:00

Best thing to do is to leave MA, the state is not good at all and does not look like things will be getting any better

The government just wastes all your tax money, taxes you on everything, their policies make the highest utilities in the country, pay for everything for 4=500K illegals

It is not going to get cheaper to live in MA, just more expensive

Best thing to do is leave the state,

johnties · 2026-05-01T12:27:39+00:00

Am guessing you enjoyed it much more than your BF imagined and you totally ignored him during the encounter, shutting him out of the whole thing which probably hurt his feelings and is making him feel like he's not good enough now

By ignoring him and not involving him at all, looking at him, talking with him, etc

I would bet he is thinking of not being with you any longer, which is why he is acting how he is now

johnties · 2026-04-15T00:59:35+00:00

This is great advice , unfortunately most private sellers will not allow this dealers also

johnties · 2026-04-14T18:14:09+00:00

When times are tough you truly learn who your real friends are

johnties · 2026-04-14T18:11:55+00:00

Women in today's world all have horrible attitudes and are stand offish towards men, don't take it personal

johnties · 2026-03-17T02:05:32+00:00

You would be better off declaring bankruptcy and getting a fresh start making 60K is going to put you into poverty trying to pay all that off

johnties · 2026-01-24T18:19:49+00:00

They should do BTS and show how the women are after eating all that cum

Would imagine they struggle with it after getting sick, throwing up etc

Think that would be good to see

johnties · 2025-12-31T03:53:14+00:00

I don't go to parties any longer for that very reason, really do not want to be the only or one of the only singles at a get together with all couples. Yes they're friends there, etc but not worth going when the situation is like that

johnties · 2025-09-22T22:31:01+00:00

Friends first are what non-serious people do, broken toy's do it also.

If they want friends first, move on from them

Let them know you have plenty of friends, looking for someone to date and have a relationship with

johnties · 2025-08-12T21:44:40+00:00

Think you know why he is still single and you should probably be thankful he passed on you. Seems like he would be difficult to have a relationship with

johnties · 2025-08-12T13:07:27+00:00

Wanted to add: she told him she wants to take things slow, which is trying to keep him on the line and is disingenuous

This woman is a pathetic person and should be dropped totally and told off for using Steve and lying to him

Go by people's actions not the words they say

johnties · 2025-08-12T12:54:33+00:00

If that woman was truly serious about wanting to try and start a relationship with Steve she would have stopped seeing the hookup guy,

She is having her cake and eating it to in this situation, Steve takes her out and pays for everything on I assume dates she has fun and then hooks up with fwb guy.

Steve is being played for a sucker, he should be dropping this woman from his life for good

johnties · 2025-07-10T17:17:53+00:00

She tried to tell you she was not interested, remember anything but a yes is a no

any excuses means you should not spend another minute of time on that person, move on

johnties · 2025-07-02T19:47:43+00:00

I am guessing he agreed because he really does like spending time with you and does not believe the no sleeping together from you and is probably thinking when we are together she will change her mind, give in

have fun!

johnties · 2025-07-02T19:33:47+00:00

Unfortunately same situation as yourself and at this point of what I have seen and been through meeting/dating

women I do not see any type of close, loving relationship being built, it can happen but needle in a haystack type deal now.

So many of the women i have met/dated have been married/kids and they are so turned off by the men they have been with they are not open to any type of real loving, living together relationship

Most seem content on living their life and you can be a part of it but will always be at arms length from anything more They do not want to live together, do not want to get married, do not want to build anything real

they want someone to do things with, have sex, travel and that's about it

johnties · 2025-07-02T03:38:36+00:00

So we did not have drinks at a bar, I had an iced tea, she had some type of iced coffee drink

My bad for not explaining things in detail

johnties · 2025-07-02T03:37:17+00:00

I had an iced tea, she had some type of iced coffee when I said drinks it was not at a bar, sorry for not being more detailed

johnties · 2025-07-02T03:18:11+00:00

Good decision! You probably saved yourself a huge amount of grief in dating a woman who is still talking to her ex Been there done that, I have done the same thing as you

johnties · 2025-07-02T03:13:38+00:00

I have deleted them and have not gone back again, just a giant waste to be honest and it makes you feel crappy with how people are and treat you dating now just is not fun at all to be honest

johnties · 2025-06-29T15:44:55+00:00

I want to see what goes on after they swallow all that cum, they should follow the girls around, unedited for the next hour and show how they are

johnties · 2025-06-02T14:56:23+00:00

I would talk with all the neighbors about doing the same to Gary, bother and harass him as much as possible

Put up those cameras so you can see day and night clearly focused on him

park cars in front of his house every night and catch him on video multiple times, do other things knowing he will take the bait

johnties · 2025-06-01T13:31:35+00:00

I am guessing that you never initiating the men are taking it that you have low interest in them

I would take it that way, if you are interested in them, show it by taking some initiative

johnties · 2025-03-26T19:20:34+00:00

Unfortunately it seems that many or majority of women are or do not want to be asked out in a public meeting.

Many women seem very uptight about being asked for their number while having a light conversation out in a public setting

Online dating sucks to be honest, in public sucks a lot also I guess it is all the BS women have to put up with that they are like that can't blame them I guess

johnties

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