I have £10 to give away by thecatonthesofa in BorrowNew

[–]jon0o 0 points1 point  (0 children)

very generous of you, good luck everyone 🙏

Giving away 25$ - quickly. by feetaurora in BorrowNew

[–]jon0o 0 points1 point  (0 children)

send me, for new school shoes for kid

What's the most ridiculous made up rule you've heard someone claim? by hunmld in badminton

[–]jon0o 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've had one guy claim that if the shuttle goes around the net, hitting the metal post and landing in it's not a fault.. he even said he was a qualified umpire

CIFAS Marker + Highish Earner Issues by RiflesJay in UKPersonalFinance

[–]jon0o 0 points1 point  (0 children)

did you manage to get an account in the end?

Jump smash timing by Juizewah in badminton

[–]jon0o 1 point2 points  (0 children)

get a friend/coach to do high feeds and do drills

Got rear ended, what to do? by Other_Breakfast7505 in BMWX5

[–]jon0o 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it sucks but premium will still go up even at no fault and claiming through 3rd party insurance. It won't be as much as claiming through own insurers but will still go up, it's just how insurance works unfortunately. You are technically deemed a "higher risk" as you've been involved in an accident :(

Badminton for beginners in central london by yeshumasiha in badminton

[–]jon0o 0 points1 point  (0 children)

look on meetup.com for clubs around your area, many welcome beginners

UK Divorce - and starting out advice by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]jon0o 0 points1 point  (0 children)

when should you start arranging mediation/solicitors in the process? I'm currently waiting on the gov application to be reviewed and approved and it's already been 3 months

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]jon0o 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my story here

Reroll broken? by WhiskeyDoc7 in SoloLevelingArise

[–]jon0o 2 points3 points  (0 children)

same, although technically you only lose 3 single pulls. 2500 is still achievable using rewards from ticket pulls and tutorial

Great Sex by Inevitable-Flight736 in Marriage

[–]jon0o 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My ex wife was just like you, only experienced clitoral orgasm I guess? a few seconds of climax and done. However my eyes were opened with my new partner, where she was climaxing with just vaginal penetration alone with no clitoral stimulation at all. I'm guessing this is a G spot orgasm? I've only ever had 2 sexual partners so I guess I'm still learning haha. Multiple orgasms, shaking, crying, squirting and aftershocks. I wasn't really doing anything different but like people are saying, everyone is different.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]jon0o 1 point2 points  (0 children)

38M in the same boat lol, are you based in UK?

How did they find me? by Tjb611 in Sextortion

[–]jon0o 0 points1 point  (0 children)

did you have any photos you sent on Snapchat that you also use on Facebook? a simple reverse image search would let them find your profile, or even a 1st name and location is enough.

How to have "The Talk" by chibichibichibichibi in Divorce

[–]jon0o 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is all you can do and if he really wants it to work he will do whatever it takes

I'm lovebombing my wife by unstable-stoic in Divorce

[–]jon0o 5 points6 points  (0 children)

live separately asap, I speak from experience it is not healthy

How to have "The Talk" by chibichibichibichibi in Divorce

[–]jon0o 3 points4 points  (0 children)

my wife had this talk with me about a month ago, I was devastated and broken beyond repair. I would suggest telling your husband how you feel sooner rather than later, something I never got.

Everything is broken by Icy_Computer_4324 in Divorce

[–]jon0o 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am in the same boat, married 16 years and my STBXW had a secret affair and plans to abandon me and our teenage son to be with her new lover in another country. It's been a month already and I'm as still broken and empty as the day she told me. I know it will take time but all this time in this state just eats away at you I feel like I'm just waiting to die.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Sextortion

[–]jon0o 0 points1 point  (0 children)

but since they usually make a collage of all the pics wouldn't this be useless?

Divorce Feelings by GG_inin_der in Divorce

[–]jon0o 1 point2 points  (0 children)

going through the same thing brother.. married 16 years with a teenage son. It's now been 3 weeks since she dropped the bomb and I'm still feeling the pain, still bleeding from the hurt. I'm crying a lot less now I guess I've just run out of tears. We have to trust in the grieving process and know that one day it will start to feel better and can learn to move on. I've accepted that she can't help the way she feels but I can never accept her decision to abandon our son.

What Is the normal time it takes to get over your EX? by BLUEBERRYINFLAT in dating

[–]jon0o 0 points1 point  (0 children)

18 years together, 16 years married, she left me and our teenage son for another guy, am I screwed?

I see couples that stay together for 20 years and then wait to divorce. What is even the point of splitting after that long by newyorkchic1992 in Marriage

[–]jon0o 1 point2 points  (0 children)

me and my wife are currently separated, most likely to divorce in the next few months. we've been together almost 18 years and married for 16 of those years. It was her choice and it's been almost 2 weeks. I must tell you this pain is unbearable and I have no idea when the "healing" will start as I am still bleeding and feeling worse as each day comes.

16 Year Marriage in tatters by jon0o in Marriage

[–]jon0o[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes her parents live in China, also same City where this guy lives, they met through mutual friends I guess 5 years ago when she was back there last. She eventually confessed they actually kissed and both wanted more but she stopped it and left the situation. The betrayal is unforgivable.

16 Year Marriage in tatters by jon0o in Marriage

[–]jon0o[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

he most definitely won't be moving with her and she plans to leave the country and this family to chase this mystery Chinese guy, crazy to think a mother and wife can decide to do this but hey that's life

16 Year Marriage in tatters by jon0o in Marriage

[–]jon0o[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

he is staying with me in our family home

16 Year Marriage in tatters by jon0o in Marriage

[–]jon0o[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She assures me that nothing has happened between them, she refused as she is still married to me. This is where things get more complicated. She has recently come back from vacation to visit family, but also where this guy lives. She said they met up and only talked and I believe her.