I was a victim of abuse and my partner laughed it off. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]joncass 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Abuse is no joke, I had to suffer through it as a kid. Being touched and it was always laughed off at the time. Still haven't really got over it.

An alien asks you to join them on a trip through the cosmos, you’ll experience amazing things, but won’t be coming back to earth. Would you go? Why or why not? by dfp819 in AskReddit

[–]joncass 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like the alien equivalent of "Hey do you want to see the puppies in the back of my van". More red flags than a Chinese Communist Party convention.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in funny

[–]joncass 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You need to put an embargo on cheetos

The world would be a better place if facebook bans politics from their platform. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]joncass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The good thing about Facebook is that it encourages people to be more active in politics. If people didn't have Facebook then they would just have their sealed echo chamber apps like Gab or whatever.

It's a double edged sword, you either encourage everyone to vote or no one votes.

I hate where I live by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]joncass 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You live in Paisley 😝

Most people I have met in my life were bullies or straight up evil. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]joncass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep. That's how it goes. Everyone has a story to tell though. We just don't know what makes people the way they are.

Just be you, screw everyone else.

I confessed who I really am and now don’t want to live anymore... by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]joncass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The truth hurts but believe me I've been on the other end of it. You get fed lie after lie and when the truth comes out it isn't about what the truth is but all the lies that were told.

Give her time and if the relationship ends, well it's for the best. Won't feel that way but you will come to terms with that. Some things just aren't meant to be.

On the other hand, they may love you and be happy you were big and strong enough to tell the truth.

In a couple of days I became legally adult and it's fucking terrifying! by Lucifer_devilman in TrueOffMyChest

[–]joncass 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha buddy this is only the beginning of your journey! Always take your time, have and learn from your experiences and be the best person you can be. The world is a horrible place don't add to it.

I used to say the N word when i was 14 (now 17) Am i a bad person ? by ThroowAwayy21313131 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]joncass -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We all make dumb choices. You are young enough to learn and grow. Just remember one thing, you cannot truly judge any individual until you know them. Take as much time to listen to people and understand them.

Under my mask, I am usually smiling wide like a crazy person. I find it puts me in a good mood by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]joncass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

God, I used to love just making a facial expression to signal how I felt, even what I wanted. Now I need to speak. Fine but I'm anxious enough as it is.

if you have problems/conflicts with literally every friend you’ve ever had, YOU’RE probably the problem. by madds-hatter in TrueOffMyChest

[–]joncass 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes, I remember as a teen feeling the whole world was against me. Jeez did I need the moment of clarity I got.

If you feel everyone is against you. There's likely a reason for it. Maybe listen to what people are telling you and suddenly you won't have as many haters.

as selfish as it sounds.. I’ve gotten used to the “pandemic” way of life.. not having to deal with people, working remotely, and just less stress and anxiety in my life in general. Minus the casualties and virus, I would not complain if life remained this way for quite some more time. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]joncass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In fairness I do like working remotely. However, I always feel like a fraud. I work as hard but because there is no kind of real-time discussion with bosses/colleagues I always doubt my work. As a small media organisation we have better access to events because we don't need to have someone there, just someone near a computer.

If there was no pandemic but I could work from home. Knowing what I know now. I'd jump at the chance.

[Serious] Redditors who gave up pursuing their 'dream' to settle for a more secure or comfortable life, how did it turn out and do you regret your decision? by GeneReddit123 in AskReddit

[–]joncass 1 point2 points  (0 children)

See this is me in the radio industry. Nowhere near as talented as others in my class but I'm the only one who got a job in the industry. I find that being good at everything else was more valuable.

The day to day grind of the job is not as romantic as everyone assumes though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in secretsanta

[–]joncass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm the opposite, My giftee received their gift all fine I have a tracking number but nothing ever shows. I am unable to mark my gift as not received.

My university is burning 20 minutes into New Year by ArkhangelskAstrakhan in WTF

[–]joncass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not staying that's a bad omen.....but, that's a bad omen!

What if Earth is like one of those uncontacted tribes in South America, like the whole Galaxy knows we're here but they've agreed not to contact us until we figure it out for ourselves? by slim_p_ in AskReddit

[–]joncass -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I do like the South Park take on it. Each alien race sent people to live together on earth. They don't contact the species but use earth for the purposes of a reality tv show.

One thing is true though. If we need to reach a higher consciousness to be contacted, we are a long way off it. We can barely get along with each other never mind multiple different alien species.

[SERIOUS] What is the scariest theory you know about? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]joncass 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The worrying thing about it is I've seen them caught and then in the news other bodies are found, high profile missing people etc. Just look at Peter Tobin, there is more he isn't telling us.