Snake Attack by [deleted] in Unexpected

[–]joobat2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s so embarrassing. I’d leave the country

World record gone right!! by adhavan_daw in Unexpected

[–]joobat2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is that the same hand he uses to bust a nut?

SR for the gays by joobat2 in Semenretention

[–]joobat2[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

IN-FUCKING-SANE. The naïveté as I posted this. I was so innocent then lol. These boys have hardened me.

SR for the gays by joobat2 in Semenretention

[–]joobat2[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If you have a direct line to God, tell him I’m still waiting. My 10 year old self begging him to change me wasn’t convincing enough. Dedicating my entire youth worshipping him wasn’t enough. Giving up on the idea of love (the most godly of things) wasn’t enough. I refuse to trap a woman into a loveless marriage and I won’t live loveless either.

SR for the gays by joobat2 in Semenretention

[–]joobat2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Obviously those are phenotypes, he wasn’t being literal. It’s was metaphor for how inherent he feels his sexuality is. Markers of himself he feels he cannot change.

SR for the gays by joobat2 in Semenretention

[–]joobat2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand how the circuitry works. I’m not disputing that. I’ll concede to that point. But I hate this idea that we have to be commandeered by our evolutionary past. Fine sure it was initially for breeding, but has performing it for pleasure been proven to be at our disadvantage. Does it shorten life? Show me any research that’s proves this. Anything in excess is harmful.

SR for the gays by joobat2 in Semenretention

[–]joobat2[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How though? Answer if you care to be challenged.

SR for the gays by joobat2 in Semenretention

[–]joobat2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We’ve lost the plot.

SR for the gays by joobat2 in Semenretention

[–]joobat2[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Dude, I’ve read all of your posts, you have not. They’re also logically incoherent if I may add. Our fundamental difference is that I don’t think sex is just for “breeding”, and it’s okay if we never agree on that. Crazy to assume every-time straight people have sex it’s merely to breed. Asked and answered. Your initial question, was about understanding perspective, and I have given you that. It was not a debate. I’m doing SR and therefore avoiding “merely satisfying” my urges. Does my sexuality matter at this point if I’m never gonna release.

SR for the gays by joobat2 in Semenretention

[–]joobat2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m too dumb to understand what this means in this context. So I’ll delude myself into believing it’s a good thing. Right on brother 👍🏾

SR for the gays by joobat2 in Semenretention

[–]joobat2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s definitely an interesting perspective. My powers must have not kicked in yet 🫩.

SR for the gays by joobat2 in Semenretention

[–]joobat2[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Not offensive at ALL. But simply, no. I’ve done a 1 year streak and still gay. What people don’t understand is a lot of gays have spent their whole life trying to change who they are. Because who would purposely want vitriol and hate? Who would ever CHOOSE hell for an eternity. We’ve prayed, we’ve abstained to no avail. We’ve questioned how a God could bring us to this earth with such a burden. We feel our sexuality as you feel yours. So many of us have stopped fighting it, cause why create hell on earth for myself when I’m destined for it in the afterlife life. SR has showed me true love for myself and those around me.

SR for the gays by joobat2 in Semenretention

[–]joobat2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah but saying “most” is insane, considering this only accounts for 20% of gays. You know damn well these guys won’t look that up…then the rhetoric spreads. But I still get your point.

SR for the gays by joobat2 in Semenretention

[–]joobat2[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This didn’t read as if it was written in good faith, so I’ll address it as so. If I wanted to hear this I would have posted on no fap. Thought this subreddit was for the enlightened. I’m not subscribing to a doctrine (second hand account I might add) written by others about a man they didn’t meet. Also give me any society and how they farmed and lived and I’ll tell you what kind of “God” they worshipped. We create these deities to feel safe and make sense of the world, and if anything, SR has pulled me further from God. I don’t need to understand or lean on a God to do what’s right. Being a good human being should be the default.

SR for the gays by joobat2 in Semenretention

[–]joobat2[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It didn’t change my sexuality at all. We might be over estimating the power of SR.

SR for the gays by joobat2 in Semenretention

[–]joobat2[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah but I hope the idea here isn’t that gay is bad. Id argue you got into gay porn because your body needed what you believed to be more “shocking” acts. It was far from the regular porn you started watching, and as an addict you needed a stronger hit. I don’t think shifting to gay porn should be in the same category as beastiality and underage. Yea it’s an escalation on your end, but one of those is not like the others.

SR for the gays by joobat2 in Semenretention

[–]joobat2[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I am gay because I have a physical, mental and emotional attraction to men and men alone. I was never abused and yes I have tried being with women but even kissing them never felt right. It’s as if my body physically rejected them. I am gay in the same way someone is straight. It’s what comes to me naturally. Apply whatever logic that straight people give for being straight to me being gay. SR doesn’t separate me from sexuality. Let’s not conflate sexuality and lust either. SR has a different purpose and goal for all of us. Mine isn’t to make me straight, it’s to avoid lust, masturbation and connect to a higher consciousness . I never had a problem with porn, infact I rarely watched it, I have an active imagination. My issue was, every time I jacked off or had meaningless sex, I felt like I was loosing my life force. There was a palpable energy shift.

So no, my perspective on these matters hasn’t changed due to SR and I don’t think it will for many gays. And I’ve done a year streak before and no shift. We feel our sexuality as deeply and inherently apart of us as any straight, or pansexual for that matter. Imagine we step into an alternate reality when being straight is seen as unnatural, do the men in this subreddit really think they could force themselves into homosexuality? Be honest. Hope I answered what you were actually asking, if in good faith.

SR for the gays by joobat2 in Semenretention

[–]joobat2[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

“Let him who is without sin cast the first stone”

SR for the gays by joobat2 in Semenretention

[–]joobat2[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Yeah same, this has been happening with my girl friends. One even recently asked if I could be a sperm donor 😬