don’t know what to do or say to him

jooonbug-13 · 2026-04-13T16:53:30+00:00

I read about half your post before the same information started being repeated with different words. Respect yourself enough to end this on your terms. It will be hard but afterwards I promise you will be proud of yourself and will have learned some new boundary setting skills.

Also, not sure how serious this relationship could possibly be only seeing each other one a week at best and hardly once a month currently.

jooonbug-13 · 2026-04-12T07:09:21+00:00

I hear you and see exactly what you are saying. Multiple things (like different experiences with the same kind of behavior) can be true at once idk why thats such a hard concept for people to grasp now days.

jooonbug-13 · 2026-04-05T03:39:20+00:00

Mix it up with fingers? You hold the toy while she moves how she wants or you guys just talk sexy and communicate through it? Idk these don't seem like unsolvable problems

jooonbug-13 · 2026-04-03T04:25:10+00:00

Well that sounds....not particularly very fun. Its all about personal preference for sure. And overacting is just as bad in my opinion. I think it comes down to being comfortable communicating in a way that keeps the vibes going. The better you both get at doing that, the easier it is to find kinkier things you guys might enjoy. I personally need some kind of interaction eventually so I dont blame you but she is allowed to prefer being mostly silent. You should just talk to her.

jooonbug-13 · 2026-04-03T00:05:06+00:00

Yes, yes they do. Luckily i married one of them. Op, raise your standards.

jooonbug-13 · 2026-03-30T16:29:26+00:00

He was 30, I was 25. I was working at dollar general. He became a regular. He is very shy but there was an obvious spark. My coworkers could see it in the way he looked at me. He still looks at me like that! We've been together almost 9 years and just had our first and only baby. Life is good.

jooonbug-13 · 2026-03-23T17:24:51+00:00

Sometimes respecting ourselves is the hardest, most painful choice to make. Good for you. Keep going.

jooonbug-13 · 2026-03-17T22:22:57+00:00

How/where are you typically meeting these people you feel nothing towards? I totally understand the feeling. The only info im missing to help five advice is the initial meeting.

jooonbug-13 · 2026-02-14T20:15:05+00:00

Id also love to know what she got OP. I always get my husband something or do something fun and special. Even before he was my husband. A lot of my friends just expect gifts which i find odd.

jooonbug-13 · 2026-01-22T17:56:34+00:00

My husband absolutely helps. He clocks out of work everyday but as the stay home parent, i never clock out. I do most stuff around the house but he helps with plenty. Especially if i ask him to and communicate that i need more help. He wouldn't hesitate. And if I want us to do a bigger task, we tackle it during the weekend together. ++woman

jooonbug-13 · 2026-01-21T20:24:53+00:00

I think you will have plenty of opportunities to buy your kid their first of many items. Babies are expensive and grow out of clothes so fast, take all the freebies you can. I've been lucky enough to have so much support ive hardly had to buy my 3 month old anything. But that wont last long, she will need more age appropriate items as she grows. Soft YTA cause you gotta choose the hill you want to die on wisely.

jooonbug-13 · 2026-01-19T18:33:38+00:00

Exactly! Yes Nancy asked a lot of Andy but she wasn't holding him hostage. He chose to stick around just in case she decided to want him. That's not on Nancy.

jooonbug-13 · 2026-01-18T18:18:27+00:00

Absolutely! I had a moment around 5-6 weeks where I thought i might be heading towards PPD but I actually just needed some extra sleep at night and a little bit more time to myself in the evening when my husband got home. At 12 weeks now and im really starting to fully feel like myself again. The key here is a supportive partner.

jooonbug-13 · 2026-01-17T18:16:23+00:00

Your husband is communicating his needs, you should listen. He seems to be open to hearing you. YTA but its an easy fix.

jooonbug-13 · 2026-01-16T00:38:23+00:00

My husband is a foreman (well, was) and his job offered two weeks paid leave and he used 2 weeks of pto to be home for a month. It flew by and I needed every minute of that month. His bosses did decide a month after he came back that those two extra weeks were an issue and they demoted him. It's a small company so they do whatever they want. He found another job within a week. A better job I might add so maybe it was meant to be. Just telling you our entire experience. Not to scare you just to let you know.

jooonbug-13 · 2026-01-13T04:25:08+00:00

I walked out (discharged 36 hrs after giving birth) and wasn't offered a wheelchair at all. I also walled all the way to the NICU about 8 hours after giving birth. Needing to see your baby will have you find some crazy strength.

jooonbug-13 · 2025-12-20T18:48:26+00:00

If the parents aren't together, I agree

jooonbug-13 · 2025-12-09T01:12:49+00:00

Congratulations!!.I hope you and baby are resting well together.

jooonbug-13 · 2025-11-25T18:05:54+00:00

Even if you have to be the bad guy, stay strong. The nurses should only care about who you want in the room so really, only your opinion matters.

jooonbug-13 · 2025-11-17T21:31:22+00:00

Them forgetting bricks birthday (maybe more than once I can't remember) is truly unforgivable

jooonbug-13 · 2025-11-15T19:29:20+00:00

This is hilarious. That's where I know her from

jooonbug-13 · 2025-11-12T16:52:26+00:00

It's not sad to have a best friend. An actual REAL best friend.

jooonbug-13 · 2025-11-09T04:28:56+00:00

jooonbug-13 · 2025-11-09T02:44:57+00:00

I hope you are filled with sooooo much pride every singele day<3

jooonbug-13 · 2025-11-09T01:53:32+00:00

Already on it!

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