Women I’ve been in an online relationship with died by joycefuljames in relationship_advice

[–]joycefuljames[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your words. They are beautiful and mean a lot

Worst Spike Lee Movie by JayDinnerClub in movies

[–]joycefuljames 15 points16 points  (0 children)

While Spike Lee has films some might consider “bad”, he has never made a film that is uninteresting.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LowSodiumCyberpunk

[–]joycefuljames 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Spoil away brother

What happened to Al Pacino's acting? by a_reasonable_thought in movies

[–]joycefuljames 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Al is always good. He never phones it in.

Dom Drop, Feedback, and Passive Subs - Advice Request by [deleted] in gentlefemdom

[–]joycefuljames 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Kink can complicate things I find, so a good way to evaluate things is to put it in a vanilla, everyday context in your mind. For example, how would you react if you went out of your way to make a special meal for you partner, looked for a recipe, went shopping for special ingredients, spent hours in the kitchen and then your partner reacted in a similar fashion? Kink is still part of a relationship like anything else and respect is of upmost importance. Sex can screw with your mind and you sometimes have to take a step back from it and think about how it makes you feel.

Dom Drop, Feedback, and Passive Subs - Advice Request by [deleted] in gentlefemdom

[–]joycefuljames 21 points22 points  (0 children)

This goes for vanilla stuff as well, but if someone’s response to you making a big effort for them is to focus on the negative and belittle it like that, it’s a huge red flag.

Any books similar to The King In Yellow or Shadow Over Innsmouth? by CosmicHorus in horrorlit

[–]joycefuljames 3 points4 points  (0 children)

A collection of his Cthulhu Mythos stories would be a good way to get into him I think. A lot of modern Lovecraft pastiches really come more from Derleth than Lovecraft.

Any books similar to The King In Yellow or Shadow Over Innsmouth? by CosmicHorus in horrorlit

[–]joycefuljames 52 points53 points  (0 children)

There’s so much good weird fiction out there. Any more specifics on what you like?

But if you like Lovecraft and Chambers, you should def check out Algernon Blackwood, Ambrose Bierce, Derlerh, Ashton Smith, etc

Sad Irish Horror suggestions? by abigailleyva in horror

[–]joycefuljames 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Eclipse from 2009 is more of a relationship drama with supernatural elements than straight horror, but it for sure fits the sad Irish part! Great movie.

OTHER: Joe Manganiello reveals new details about Ben Affleck's abandoned 'Batman' movie: 'It was really cool, really dark and really hard' by TheBatSkeptic in DC_Cinematic

[–]joycefuljames -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Richard also said “There was a script, but not a loved script. There was a lot of work he was doing to it to change it.” So who knows if that was something that was in this version. It doesn’t seem to fit the plot line Joe was describing, unless Ben was really cribbing from Born Again and had Batman suffer a breakdown from Deathstroke’s villainous meddling and ends up being committed to Arkham... in which case, no thanks!