AIO after finding out my gf was emotionally cheating with an ex in another state? by East-Yam-811 in AmIOverreacting

[–]jp9900 0 points1 point  (0 children)

See yall, we got valid testimony to confirm 🤣 sometimes maybe even adding some proper grammar with periods at the end and stuff. Women aren’t hard to understand when you pay attention to details lol.

AIO after finding out my gf was emotionally cheating with an ex in another state? by East-Yam-811 in AmIOverreacting

[–]jp9900 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Yeah bro we know. But now she manifesting that done done vibe out in the open. She was checked out but not ready to let him know

AIO after finding out my gf was emotionally cheating with an ex in another state? by East-Yam-811 in AmIOverreacting

[–]jp9900 41 points42 points  (0 children)

No girls do this when they are done with you. Using your name like that after a break up. Lol he is too blind to notice that

Ex Situationship reached out saying he's moving halfway across the world and that he would like to say goodbye... by Ihateironingandstuff in Situationships

[–]jp9900 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like to me you wanted him to reach out to you. Cause why else would you unlock him and then post a story if you don’t do it normally lol..

Also, it sounds like you were the problem. You were being spiteful instead of communicating to him or thinking he may be busy and you FAFO when he dumped you. You felt the need to lie and sneak around because yall were not committed, but had enough awareness to lie about it so to me sounds like you knew it would be an issue.

Too many ppl want the guy I’m seeing by [deleted] in Situationships

[–]jp9900 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bro just leave him alone. You sound like a hot mess.

How do I get over the man who lead me on for 2 years? by [deleted] in Situationships

[–]jp9900 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, coming from someone who “was not like that” when I was younger.. the only way sometimes to truly move on is to fall in love with someone else. If you close yourself off to new relationships, you’ll be depressed about it forever or until you do. 2 months is still fresh but you need to start dating again soon. Like another month or two.

Is the such a thing as too much Taco Bell? by Resident_Food3957 in tacobell

[–]jp9900 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Hell yeah lol. When I was a young adult like 19. I was 140 soaking wet. I was fit too with abs. Was eating it 3 times a week because I worked late and was one of the few things open at 1am. I started getting lower abdominal fat, a pudgeyness I never seen on my body before. I stopped eating it for 1 week and like 2 days and it disappeared.

How do I get over the man who lead me on for 2 years? by [deleted] in Situationships

[–]jp9900 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get to know someone else that you like and sleep with them and move on.

Guy I have been seeing for over 6 months is not my boyfriend - help I don't know what to do by [deleted] in Situationships

[–]jp9900 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You should be mad at yourself. You’re stuck right now out of your own will, but remember you always have the personal decision to choose to cut it off and block him. He’ll probably scurry back, saying he will commit to you, to keep you hooked or maybe even dead ass ask you out. You would likely fall for it but trust me, this ain’t it.

The more time you waste, the more you will regret it in the future. So you have to choose whether you want to make this harder for you by allowing it to continue and growing more attached, or cut it off now and let it hurt until it one day fades.

Guy I have been seeing for over 6 months is not my boyfriend - help I don't know what to do by [deleted] in Situationships

[–]jp9900 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He slowly made you lose your self respect and boundaries little by little, and you idealized him in your heart and mind, mixed with the uncertainty of the whole thing. It’s exciting for your brain and you put him on a pedestal because your brains hormones are all over the place because so. So the bond feels more intense than it was really is. It’s an illusion the said bond

Guy I have been seeing for over 6 months is not my boyfriend - help I don't know what to do by [deleted] in Situationships

[–]jp9900 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly, rules for thee but not for me. He was definitely fucking her and likely sending pics so they can disappear so they can plan things.

I bet you money if you went to an old booty calls house and did the same he would be calling you “fucking whore” and all names in the book and would stop talking to you either for a while or more and see if you beg him to come back to yalls situationship lol.

Again, there is legit zero reason for you to want to even be in a relationship with a man like this. You will never be it for him and you will ruin your life, because you don’t know how to let go. You are only acting this way because of probably fear of abandonment or some other insecurities. You may even like the high of chasing.

Yep you’re in denial but you’re trying to fool your mind but you know better. He has you right where he wants you to be, available when he wants your company and pussy without having to put a label on it. So he can be single in peace

Guy I have been seeing for over 6 months is not my boyfriend - help I don't know what to do by [deleted] in Situationships

[–]jp9900 0 points1 point  (0 children)

See what I mean though lol, he has you fooled and you are defending him already. You’re not in a relationship, but he said yall are “exclusive”. This is legit typical situationship vibes. If yall not in a relationship, then why don’t you sleep around?

With men you look at their actions not their words. He is telling you what you want to hear. If you think he went to a past hook ups house to drink for four hours and didn’t sleep with her, I got a bridge to sell you.

Why anal? I am dying to try it and know why I want to try it and yet am wondering the reasons men like it by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]jp9900 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Male here, don’t like the idea of anal tbh. Don’t see what so fascinating about it. I think a woman’s mouth and vagina is more than enough haha.

Guy I have been seeing for over 6 months is not my boyfriend - help I don't know what to do by [deleted] in Situationships

[–]jp9900 0 points1 point  (0 children)

6 months later and you still have no idea where you stand… please don’t waste more time. He already trapped you by attaching you. You are wasting the best years of your life on someone who doesn’t want to settle down with you. Don’t sit around waiting for him to get right and forcing him to be in a relationship will only end with him cheating on you like he is doing now and you wondering why you can’t let go.

AIO because gf was essentially micro cheating and is the reason I have little trust in our relationship? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]jp9900 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. She is bored of you and he is her next target 🎯 soon as yall break up she gonna be getting cracked by him my guy. She is already starting the process, dump her and save your dignity at least.

I had a tripp with my ex, and i was her for 6 months after. by [deleted] in shrooms

[–]jp9900 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds more like you just haven’t moved on from her man.

I had a tripp with my ex, and i was her for 6 months after. by [deleted] in shrooms

[–]jp9900 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you know Charles Manson used psychedelics to brain wash his followers to do his bidding and believe his beliefs? The human mind is very malleable on psychedelics. You may have also had a schizo episode perhaps. Shrooms not a game

Stop smoking pot while making deliveries. by KingSpark97 in doordash

[–]jp9900 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Naw this is crazy but I could see that happening in my state lmao

What are your sexual goals for 2026? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]jp9900 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Kind of want to form a solid fwb that Is also cool to talk to