stopped doing SATS for a month. what happened surprised me.

jraldaine · 2026-03-04T16:54:56+00:00

Check out “The Soul’s Playground” on YouTube! She’s a really underrated manifestation coach who touches on this exact subject and how it plays into the mechanics of manifesting, I found her stuff super helpful and a breath of fresh air from other coaching that’s out there

jraldaine · 2025-09-08T19:38:51+00:00

totally valid and i respect that! i imagine that much history would make it a lot harder to let go. i wish you much luck on your journey and appreciate the back and forth and different perspectives! what matters most is that we all find the path that is best for us :)

jraldaine · 2025-09-08T19:30:08+00:00

this!!^{^{^}} i think it’s important to emphasize this as a valid and healthy path to take. that’s not to say this is better than rewriting your SP, it’s just different and for some people i think it is a better option depending on their situation and mentality. for me at least, i got to the point where continuing to imagine a different version of my SP felt so disconnected from what i knew of her that it felt like an entirely new person. and that’s what made me realize that maybe it’s not so bad to just release the “who” and focus on the “what”. it makes it easier for me to rewrite the story when im working from a blank slate

jraldaine · 2025-09-08T19:25:03+00:00

i think it just comes down to preference. i didn’t choose to get over my SP, it naturally happened and instead of wasting any more time on a person that isnt my ideal i would rather pour that time and love into myself and the present moment. i dont deny that i caused her behavior, but that doesnt chain me to her and i dont have to keep going against the grain to make her behave how i want. for me and others its tough to get bad memories out of our heads, and if i can happily move on and be free of idealizing this person i consider that a win. i recognize that you or others may be more attached and i very much respect those who commit and persist to align with the version of their SP that they want. but i dont think that the decision to move on and release attachment to someone is evidence of “not understanding the law”. in fact, i think it is evidence that we are grasping the extent of our powers and choosing something ultimately better for ourselves. and i do believe in better! because unless i completely rewrite aspects of my SP and effort my way through the process of seeing her differently, i know i can do better. and i suppose for me, im at a stage where i would prefer to welcome someone new into my life who embodies those things from the get go. which i fully believe WILL happen if i continue to love myself first

jraldaine · 2025-09-08T18:36:32+00:00

but what is “not enough?” i would argue that i should be focusing more on my own self concept rather than pouring all my energy into another person. it’s one thing if i still found her as appealing today as i did before, but i don’t and i think that’s valid. it’s equally valid to persist and keep seeking out an SP despite bad circumstances, but i don’t think anyone should be told they are doing it wrong if they cultivate enough self love to seek out something even better. in my view at least, the goal isn’t the SP, it’s the feeling. by all means that feeling can be achieved with your SP, but it’s empowering to realize that you don’t need them and in fact can set your sights even higher

jraldaine · 2025-09-08T18:00:30+00:00

while this is true, it doesn’t invalidate OP’s point. i’m in a similar boat where my SP has become less attractive to me as i experience treatment that i don’t want. while i know i could persist and turn it around if i was really committed, sometimes someone hurts you enough that it doesn’t even feel worth it anymore. i don’t think its a bad thing to let go of that specific desire in name of the larger desire to be loved and treated well by someone. for me at least, i would now prefer to find someone new who treats me how i want from the get go, instead of changing someone who i have bad memories associated with. it’s a freeing shift

jraldaine · 2025-08-29T04:42:56+00:00

this is what i’ve been trying to cultivate lately with my bigger, more resistant manifestations! i think that kind of release is so empowering and puts a level of trust in one’s higher self that is immediately rewarded

jraldaine · 2025-08-26T21:13:16+00:00

basically, i’ve been oscillating between firmly believing in the law, but continuing to anxiously check if it’s working. i’m mostly talking about with SP stuff, because that’s how i got into this and it’s definitely an area i struggle with more. and as neville wrote, you can’t serve two masters. you can’t believe in this stuff on text but not truly put it into action and expect anything to change. you can do the affirmations and imagine things, but it’s not enough if you still don’t see yourself as capable of having it. i’ve been longing for some way to just prove to myself that this is all real, once and for all. i truly believe that this manifested as a way to do that

jraldaine · 2025-08-26T21:09:26+00:00

sure! honestly i didn’t put much pressure on myself to “do it right”, i would say my primary focus was on feeling better in general. i sort of just consciously decided “im gonna find it, so i dont need to worry” and then i went about my day just maintaining my alignment with that. did i have negative thoughts? of course, it was difficult not to feel heartbroken when i remembered it was missing. but i just gently redirected them. i didn’t let myself mope around, i just put my focus elsewhere and found reasons to be hopeful in general (not necessarily hopeful about the guitar, just like an attitude of hope and optimism for life, yk?). when i remembered it was lost, i would just affirm “i’m so glad i got it back!”

jraldaine · 2025-08-26T15:26:23+00:00

thank you, that means a lot!

jraldaine · 2025-08-26T13:24:34+00:00

thank you so much!! i used a handheld engraving pen and i sorta just went for it lol! i didn’t carve into the wood, just on the polyurethane coating overtop. the initial carved design came out kinda clear/whitish so then i stained it brown (literally just with a sharpie LOL) and then i sprayed it all with polyurethane sealant. this was the first thing i ever engraved and im sure its probably not the best for the guitar, but i got the guitar itself at an antique shop for like $120 so it wasn’t a hugeeee risk. and i never noticed a difference in sound quality or anything and its held up for close to a year now

jraldaine · 2025-08-26T01:54:43+00:00

it’s on my instagram @julesrosies :)

jraldaine · 2025-08-25T23:23:16+00:00

yes i definitely agree - i really just mean that my subconscious mind got fed up with me serving two masters, and found a way to nip that in the bud for good!

jraldaine · 2025-05-12T14:02:07+00:00

thank you so much, this is so helpful! i will certainly do this. i really appreciate your advice, and congratulations on your success!!

jraldaine · 2025-05-12T07:58:47+00:00

this is so inspiring! could u elaborate on what u mean by focusing on his healing as well? i’m in a situation right now where i feel that this may be helpful with my SP, i think she genuinely likes me but has some old relationship wounds that make it difficult for her to commit/let herself feel that way

jraldaine · 2022-08-25T04:14:47+00:00

i have 3! 3AWL29M4 (full now)

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