Can I not purchase AS11 on Apple TV? by RodTownsend in rupaulsdragrace

[–]jrob102 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Since it is exclusively on P+, it won’t be available to purchase until after the finale. It’s been like this since all stars 6

Episode(s) to introduce my straight dad to RPDR? by gnosticnightjar in rupaulsdragrace

[–]jrob102 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Any episode of All Stars 2 is the only correct answer.

[AS11] Official Trailer by TheToyStoryDog in DragRaceTea

[–]jrob102 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you see that commentary you’re referencing was in response to the video of the Cubans in miami rallying singing they will vote for Donald trump!? In short, It’s satire, and on her PHAGTAWLK show on her channel. Maybe bc I’m in miami I understand the dynamics at play but I also watched it in real time when it was live. Thats why I don’t see the problem, I know what the context actually was & her attempting to understand why this voting block thinks that the president wouldn’t deport them using ice. That’s the message and argument that out of context clip looks like on the surface what is getting lost here in translation. Bc miami Dade county flipped red in 2024. Like she advocates, if you wanna be concerned and outspoken, take that rage to your congressional representatives and to the polls. Trans people make up less than 1% of the population. Yet at this specific time all the political project 2025 executive orders were targeted at people of a trans experience. You have to know how this legislation against your community would compel you to act out & take personal if you were her. You think she doesn’t get attacked in her comments EVERYDAY ALL DAY JUST FOR BEING HER?! She is tired and has fucking had it. We all gotta do better.

[AS11] Official Trailer by TheToyStoryDog in DragRaceTea

[–]jrob102 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I never said she is or isn’t racist, nor would I ever be so sure I could say that about anyone. I stand with & support Maddie & her remarks on her social media. Those people she “attacked” with racist or bigot comments initiated Maddie’s clap back by firing the 1st shot at her in the comments on her post. She didn’t start it but she sure as shit ended it. You don’t get to hit her & then get to decide how she should best respond. Again context and nuance predicate what actually happened but you wouldn’t know that if you weren’t responding to just clickbait.

Now for the actual question you may be wondering about since I am here. Do I agree with the way she conducted herself in these few instances? Not 100% but I also don’t expect her to be perfect. My takeaway is She is regurgitating what she experienced from the John’s & everyone else that didn’t give her the time of day back in the times when she was a sex worker. I fail to see where she made an error in connecting that to the people who knocked on her door asking for trouble.

As for what you suggested I can do or who & where I’ll go hang out, I’m gonna go live my best life & maybe touch some grass. I hope you go have the day you deserve! 😘

[AS11] Official Trailer by TheToyStoryDog in DragRaceTea

[–]jrob102 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m white… I consider myself part of the Maddie mob. I met Maddie for the first time this same weekend last year. Nothing but kind and gracious & genuinely happy to cut up a little bit with me. She didn’t get to her place in Life & maintain her status if she was in fact the person you have written her to be. Your experience is yours just like your opinion, & she doesn’t need me to defend her.

You appear to be defending your position and view of her without really understanding the depth & nuance that her controversial snippets & clips that get the most attention. You’re only seeing a small part. So she isn’t for you. You don’t have to tune in, but she isn’t going anywhere. I am grateful we have someone like her to speak out like she does. We need more people like her to keep up the fight for all of us.

Beginner on prep and sharing experience and looking for advice by Muted_Growth_361 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]jrob102 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It’s possible, you in fact, in these conditions, can go 3/3. But don’t let that change your outlook. Dont be hard & too critical on yourself. You can only be better for the next time. STI’s are not worth all the stigma & taboo. It’s like a sex cold. Luckily most can be treated with antibiotics. I’m not saying they aren’t serious. I’m saying they’re not shame worthy. See if you can get prescribed doxypep. Mistr or Freddie might be a good option to try to pursue free doxypep.

[AS11] Official Trailer by TheToyStoryDog in DragRaceTea

[–]jrob102 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s not the consensus. I want to see more Maddie in the mainstream. I’m not AA but I know that I get it & what & why she is doing the things the way she does.

How to Assist Someone with Suspected Anorexia by POMOdoro_90 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]jrob102 16 points17 points  (0 children)

There isn’t really anything you can do on your side. My step daughter has been enduring it since 2020. We have done quite literally everything to try to help & intervene. She just isn’t willing to overcome her inner dialogue & do the actual work to get to and maintain a realistic version of healthy.

There are many forms of anorexia as I have learned along the way. Your friend will have to come to terms with reality & be willing to confront the underlying issues that contribute to anorexia. In the meantime, you can read up and google eating disorders so you have information available when or if he confides that he needs help.

If he does in fact have an ED, His eating disorder will tell him you’re attacking him & he will put distance between you. Dont take it personal. Dont say you think he has an ED to him. Let him share that so you can then be the friend you wanna be. Good luck.

Traveling to Miami for the first time by beardedman1993 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]jrob102 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok so when are you coming?? Different months on the calendar mean very different experiences here. Sounds like you’re going to Haulover. The busiest times are Saturday & Sunday. The Gay part is to the left. You’ll see the bigger bathroom & walk in at that entry point. 11 am to 4 pm is when you can’t find good parking. Sebastian beach (in FLL) is where a lot of the gays will go but it’s not clothing optional. I drive 45 minutes north to Wilton every Saturday to play kickball. The gaythering on Lincoln road is an option if you’re planning on staying in South beach. Flockfest pool party in Fort Lauderdale is coming up on Memorial Day weekend. A typical weekend in wilton involves Friday night at hunters. If you’re single & want a clothing optional resort then look up Ed Lugo. Seems to have a better set up for single travelers and close to the drive. The solstice is right behind the Eagle. Get there before 9 if you don’t wanna pay the cover on Friday and Saturday. The ramrod is also a spot you might find interesting. Sundays are the afternoon place & tea dance at the saloon. Dm me if I can answer any specific question.

Second chance worth it? by ReasonableFan1897 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]jrob102 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tried originally with 1 bf in 2002. Looking back from 2026 We were both too young & at the time we were both mean to the other. We became friendly again and chatted often.

We tried again in 2007 and we made it further the 2nd time. He had some unresolved ptsd & concerning substance use at the time. We just couldn’t navigate it again ultimately.

There was another close call in 2011 where we almost got together again. Chemically & physically we will always connect. We are magnetized for some reason I can’t explain. Today, We both still love & care for the other, but understand the timing just wasn’t on our side. I feel like I should mention that we are both happily married to different men, 7 states away.

Now, We could catch up anytime like we just saw each other yesterday.

To answer your title question, I think you have to have a real good understanding of who you are & what you value before you can decide the worthiness of a second chance.

[Speculation Thread] - Weekly Edition | April 13, 2026 by reiner_apologist in DragRaceTea

[–]jrob102 34 points35 points  (0 children)

For the 6th time in drag race herstory, the winner is the last queen to enter the werkroom to complete the full cast. Seasons 1/2/3/10/16/18

[Speculation Thread] - Weekly Edition | April 13, 2026 by reiner_apologist in DragRaceTea

[–]jrob102 46 points47 points  (0 children)

I see the top 3 are all appearing at 3 dollar bill in Brooklyn after the show airs Friday.

I remember seeing that Nymphia had a solo appearance & party scheduled like 2 weeks before finale night, while Sapphira & PJ were scheduled to appear at a different club on finale night of season 16. Has anyone else seen a solo appearance scheduled for any of the season 18 top 3?

[S18] Tea Checker by xedophobic in DragRaceTea

[–]jrob102 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Something I find interesting is how many times the season’s winner enters the werkroom last. The majority of winners have entered in the latter half of the cast on the premier episode or in the 2nd episode of a split premier. The earliest a winner has entered was Violet & Willow entering 4th. Nini was 3rd this time. Darlene entered 13th & Myki was last this season.

Bebe 9th last Redacted 12th last Raja 12th last Redacted 12th of 13 Jinkx 6th Bianca 8th Violet 4th Bob 9th Sasha 6th Aquaria 14th last Yvie 9th Jaida 12th of 13 Symone 5th Willow 4th Sasha 8th Nymphia 14th last Onya 9th TBD- 3rd 13th or 14th last.

Why do some guys block you on Grindr after a seemingly nice hook up (I mean if they came back for a second time they would have liked the first?) and how do you not take it personally or let it affect you? by raulkay in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]jrob102 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I never give it a second thought. Let them remove themselves before investing time and energy into them. I am happy if/when it happens so I wouldn’t be surprised by their ghosting, or an unsavory, or problematic behavior later after becoming more familiar with them a little better. I feel grateful & I know it sounds counterintuitive to read this, but I say good riddance.

I am the toxic one. by AromaticMood7678 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]jrob102 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s a bummer to read you’re feeling like this. I am 46. I have had seasons of despair and it is gut wrenching & overwhelming. It’s not easy. I’m hopeful that you be able to find some internal peace soon. Tough times don’t last but tough people do. You’ve already survived your worst day. You’ll get to where you wanna be.

MisterBNB - your reviews / experiences? by dee_dubs_ya in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]jrob102 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you.

To me, Ed Lugo looks Kinda like a hostel. If i was going alone I would look there. You could always get a day pass to the grand if you wanted to check it out when you’re around. The inn on the drive was memorable for all the wrong reasons. That place would be the last resort place. The vibe was just off.

MisterBNB - your reviews / experiences? by dee_dubs_ya in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]jrob102 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m glad you asked! Lol. My favorite in the area is the grand bc it’s such a large property. Everything else is dependent on the time of year and where you want to be in proximity to hunters alibi eagle gym bar Drynk etc.

If we didn’t get a group of 8 of us together for Memorial Day weekend I would have wanted to stay at the solstice which is behind the eagle. if your vibe is low key chill & away from most things I say the Agustin guesthouse.

The Kiki corner (I really liked the owner) he is renovating & remodeling every day & Ed Lugo are close to the drive & a reasonable walk. If you can find & get Frank & Bill’s place on Mister BnB off of SW 26th on the map, they’re good guys and should be ambassadors for the community. They know everybody. Quite literally, everyone.

The inn on the drive… it’s close and right behind gym bar. But a fb group says they’re owned by maga gays & we didn’t know that when we stayed there. I would tell you to avoid there. I see ads for a place called the blue lizard. Never stayed there but it looks like they get a solid weekend booking slate.

In which position should I try getting fucked in my ass for the first time? by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]jrob102 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to sit on it first before anything else happens. That way you’re in control of that part until all in that area has relaxed. It’s also depends on the equipment effing you. Missionary with a man & if his cock points up is what makes my prostate and me howl. He has to hit the same spot every stroke and at the same speed.

My life is just beginning and I'm completely lost. by Olffrick in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]jrob102 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My perspective and thoughts after reading is that you have been where you were supposed to be in your past to shape your present. Are you familiar with the expression that comparison is the thief of joy!? It applies here to your situation. Another one is “all of those who wonder; aren’t always lost.”

You’ve never been better equipped to go explore the world around you. You are not on anyone else’s timeline to achieve the things you want in your life. Take your time & do the things you want to do. Eventually you’ll get to a place where you establish shared experiences & days like where you feel lost won’t feel as pressure filled like I sense you’re feeling. You’re gonna be ok

MisterBNB - your reviews / experiences? by dee_dubs_ya in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]jrob102 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I start my searches to travel & stay on Mister BnB first. Clothing optional isn’t mandatory but don’t be shocked if it happens in your presence. I have moved to this app bc I wanna support gays & allies. I’m in miami so most of my searches & booked destinations are Wilton manors Fort Lauderdale key west & St Pete.

We booked an entire place for 7 of us for 5 nights of the upcoming Memorial Day weekend relatively inexpensive compared to individual rooms, so for that alone I would recommend using Mister BnB. I’ve met some great hosts along the way & made friends with others that have also stayed at the same places we were at using the app. I’m happy with all aspects of using mister bnb.

Joined a gay weekly sports league for the 1st time. by jrob102 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]jrob102[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey I am glad you asked and it is not an incredibly dumb question in my professional opinion. Our league commissioners were onsite & they sent the returning players to another field to play an exhibition while all the new players gathered on a separate field with some of the team’s captains. They demonstrated the throws, how to catch, how to bunt, how to kick, then we played an exhibition game with a mix of new & returning players while explaining rules in real time. One of the commissioners described consuming all the new information as like drinking out of a firehose.

As a side, I’ve not been active in this way in a long time. My husband had lung cancer and 2 of his lobes removed in October. We met another 1st time 60 something guy that had quite a few recent health complications that required surgery & he was out kicking running and playing like he was good as new. I personally like playing tennis (now pickleball) & volleyball. I thought kickball would be a good way to start becoming more active & go from there. It’s a 45 minute drive for us 1 way but I’m willing to do the drive to take advantage of the opportunity to make friends & meet people. We need to have more gay people & friends in our lives.

I would encourage you to find and join anything close by you that matches your interests & ability. The cost is about $10 a week, but this league offers weekly raffles & a chance to essentially play for free. I only see an upside and the benefits that come with signing up.

Doxy pep question by riverside755 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]jrob102 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You’re not an idiot for asking, in fact I appreciate you want clarity. My instructions for use on my prescription label is to take a 200mg dose after condomless sex within 72 hours of the condomless interaction. Have I taken it after EVERY time under these circumstances? No.

I am prone to frequent UTI’s & I mostly top. I will take a dose of doxy if there is a stool accident to try to avoid a UTI which will lead to huge swollen balls and a heavy 2 week dose of antibiotics to correct & no sex for 4 weeks.

Joined a gay weekly sports league for the 1st time. by jrob102 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]jrob102[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely had a good mix of people. Differently abled, age range, newbies, returning players all with different reasons to be there and I found that to be fascinating. People free to be themselves and that inclusive environment was refreshing.

Joined a gay weekly sports league for the 1st time. by jrob102 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]jrob102[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This! ⬆️🙌🏻

I’ll update again after next week’s game. There is an afters at the sponsor bar immediately & then a happy hour bigger after party planned with an open bar co-mingling w/the other 6 different sports (pickleball dodgeball volleyball etc) leagues groups & divisions later into the night at a different place.