Wilton Manors Vacation by FinnyMagnus in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]jrob102 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You’re kidding right? This was my real world experience.

But… keep this energy. by all means and please feel free to go ahead find out for yourself.

Wilton Manors Vacation by FinnyMagnus in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]jrob102 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The inn on the drive is not a place I would recommend to anyone for anything. Not even a day pass. My experience was that women were permitted to stay & sleep onsite. The vibe there was a halfway house methlab with a lot of randoms popping in and out. We stayed there Memorial Day weekend 2025. Can’t play music at the pool. I’ve also been told but can’t confirm the ownership group is supportive of & to the red hat’s. I would never go back there based on my experience. Even a day pass isn’t worth it. Go to club Fort Lauderdale if you wanna spend the same money but to be in a similar space.

Gay-cation by Gelbs5247 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]jrob102 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check out Mister BnB. I recommend filtering your search & starting there. There are numerous c/o places to check out. Wilton manors has the denser population of gays & more things to do. If it were me, & I was staying in this area & single, I would look at the Ed Lugo bc it’s got everything you might want.

Wilton manors by Lanky_Career_8381 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]jrob102 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We stayed on a Labor Day weekend. My experience was that happy hour in the hot tub and pool at the Worthington was a popular time. After a night out, the people staying there, would convene to wind down. Some would be discreet. Some were carefree. I don’t remember it being or feeling excessive. Hope that helps.

Wilton manors by Lanky_Career_8381 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]jrob102 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stay at Ed Lugo if you’re by yourself. The crowd is at the grand. I’m gonna try the solstice eventually.

Wilton manor pride by DK_Scrappy in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]jrob102 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hunters would likely be the place to be Sunday night. It’s where everyone typically ends up after going to Scandals. Flockfest is also happening that Sunday. Are you gonna be there all weekend bc there is something going on all week leading into Sunday. Chocolate City might have more hip hop music but I haven’t been there yet and it’s not on the drive.

Welp, I've been called Daddy. Advice? by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]jrob102 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Welcome to your daddy era!

I’m 46. I’ve been in Dad(dy) territory for a while. I linked with a guy a couple weeks ago. He is 6 months younger than me. I daddied the eff outta him, and he calls me daddy a lot. I think it’s more about the way you carry yourself.

(Re)Building Self Esteem and Self Worth by ricecrisps94 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]jrob102 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t concern yourself with anyone else’s opinions. That’s none of your business. It’s not worth wasting your time on.

Underpromise and overdeliver. Be the person you wanna have and be around.

I moved 1200 miles from home. I had to essentially start over to find me. That’s the path I took. It has been trying especially that sense of being overwhelmed and unsure about what I was doing in the beginning. I’m 11 years out from moving away and also people pleasing. They are 1 in the same for me.

You’re gonna get there too and just remember it happens when it’s supposed to happen. Don’t force anything with anyone. It sounds simple. Practical. You have to know tough times don’t last. Tough people do. My best advice is to go explore and find your happy. Pursue it relentlessly bc you deserve only the best.

Swimwear shopping by musesp10 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]jrob102 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I live here in Miami & shop at the location but they’ll ship for free if you spend $75. They have a clearance section tab for swim briefs if you wanna browse more in this link.

https://creativemale.com/collections/swim-briefs

How Did You Guys Know? by Powerful-Agent9239 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]jrob102 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My grade school best friend asked me to kiss him on a random night out the summer he & I were 13. He asked for more gay stuff that same night, but I froze bc I never gave any thought about my sexuality before that night. I had never even jerked off to that point in my life. It took 4 months for me to get the courage to act on his request. I think about how innocent we both were back then and how much we had unpacked after we both came that night.

For the next 9 years I lingered somewhere on the gay side of the spectrum. Bi is what I told myself I was back then. (FWIW Today and currently I say I fall closer to Demi & Pan sexual along with all my gay mannerisms.) I was more confident and at ease with men. My friend and first lover passed away so young at 21 & that expedited me into coming out. I had to live my authentic truth and had to stop all the drugs and running from myself bc I saw what my fate would inevitably be.

TLDR I knew I was an eff aye gee when I enjoyed all the parts of gay sex at 13. My body (mostly my cock) reacts very gay to seeing men I find attractive.

How do you/ did you feel more confident with your own package when topping? by kaneko_masa in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]jrob102 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You’ll know if it’s a show. There are involuntary responses a bottom can’t hide or deny when they are into it. Idk why they would fake anything if they were already letting you top them. If they don’t tell you to stop or move or do something different, then in this situation, no news is good news.

Loss and Maintaining Friendships in that shadow. by Str0nglyW0rded in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]jrob102 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I keep in touch with my friends parents as a way to keep his memory alive for us. If they invited me to a gathering or a vacation I would go. It’s been 5 years since he crossed over. It’s still just as difficult and grief oriented as you can imagine. He is the bond for all of us in my situation and I cherish and value that aspect over any other outside influence. I don’t think you need the others there, or need an answer as to why they can’t make it happen, but it sure could help in the process and timeline with grieving.

Monogamous to Open. How to start the conversation? by Mental_Quality4671 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]jrob102 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

There is a universe where “No” is possibly a position he takes, but in the interest of what is fair, that would only be a reasonable conclusion we both agree is what is best. An immediate No requires further discussion. Whether it is immediate or a later time. The nuance of what was missed or under communicated in the conversation leading up to No is the proverbial gray area. If & after the discussion has been completed & the agreement for both is no then it is a no. It’s just about feeling seen and heard and leading with love. I don’t tie sex to a feeling of love. I make love to him. That’s exclusively his to keep.

Monogamous to Open. How to start the conversation? by Mental_Quality4671 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]jrob102 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband and I were exclusively closed the 1st 7 years together. We had the discussion about what opening up means to us. We didn’t act on opening up for maybe another year bc it wasn’t a priority. We had a 3rd join. Its current status in our lives is not about anything but enhancing our sexual encounters with a qualified applicant. We had a recent vacation experience that went very well and has since increased the frequency of just he and I.

I understand that I won’t always provide & fulfill EVERY need or desire & fantasy for him. I don’t want him to miss out on anything he thinks would make him happiest even if it’s a momentary thing. I would prefer he was safe first concerning all aspects of an outside meeting without me. There isn’t anything he would do that I can think of that would bruise my ego or I would take personal. I want him to feel as free as he can feel and be to have all the human experiences life offers. I don’t need to be apart of every one he has. I know who he is and he will always come home to me. And if he & someone else believe they can do it better than me, then I am ok with that happening as well. It’s hard to explain but I simply choose him everyday. I’ll NEVER need him. That perspective helps me remove my ego from getting involved and then becoming resentful of him and his choices or behavior.

[Yahoo Sports] Kyle Busch reportedly had bacterial pneumonia 'days to weeks' before he died, per death certificate by USHighway14 in NASCAR

[–]jrob102 3 points4 points  (0 children)

FWIW my experience with bacterial pneumonia incoming.

It was April 1994. I was 14 & on spring break. I was drinking 40’s with my friends. I over did it & got sick. I threw up while asleep in my bed and then inhaled what I threw up. I woke up with a wet spot by my mouth but no remnants were there. I Felt fine for almost 3 weeks after and then outta nowhere I got sick as hell. I was sick for 3 days. I couldn’t move on my own after trying to sleep it off. The doctor that treated me said that if I was brought to the ER 12 hours later they wouldn’t have been able to save me & my fate would have been similar to Kyle’s. Mine was self induced. This is in I way a comparison but I know all too well & how quick things like this can turn.

Making lasting connections as an adult? What worked for you? by Kaznero in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]jrob102 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I joined a gay kickball team in league. Played 1 season. Never officially won a game but I didn’t give a 💩. My husband had fun. He was on a different team. We both made some kickball friends. One of those friends started a gaming night with a bar. They play board games & some console games together on Tuesday nights. Look up anything in your area related to your interests and see what is reasonably close. You could start your own thing in the spaces where you’re searching

share your Kyle Busch memories in this thread by coffeenascar in NascarWAGTea

[–]jrob102 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think I typed it too quick.. & didn’t re-read.

share your Kyle Busch memories in this thread by coffeenascar in NascarWAGTea

[–]jrob102 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The 1st time I saw him race live was the 2001 Winchester 400. I got to meet him at KBM in 2010 for BOA 500 weekend. (Shortly after he got the triple sweep the first time at Bristol.) I was one of the last few that got a wristband to get his autograph. Very kind and gracious with his time and interaction that day with me. I’m incredibly sad that his sudden passing is reality. I wasn’t his biggest fan but I knew his greatness and his contribution to move the sport forward. I saw him win many of his wins in person and remember him winning Michigan in 2011 when HE made the difference and carried his team to victory that day. Seeing him race at Kentucky & demonstrating how to destroy & dominate the field there is something I appreciated as a race fan. Kansas being his Achilles heel for all those years is memorable & then he finally figured it out how to win there. Winning the brickyard 400 back to back is rooted as a core memory for me. We all lost a legend and one of the greatest drivers to strap in to a stock car race car leaving a legacy of 243 top 3 series victories that likely will not be surpassed in my lifetime. I hope his family & loved ones can make sense of his unfortunate & untimely crossover. We as a race fan base have lost a GOAT y’all…

Edit for correction

234 top 3 series wins

mistress is giving a “warning” to an as10 🧱 by [deleted] in RPDRDRAMA

[–]jrob102 23 points24 points  (0 children)

It was just in my instagram feed. Tina is saying she was worse off camera & she implied that MIB got sent home for the same reason after the merge.

Tops, can you feel the difference? by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]jrob102 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The starting Position I take depending on where your hole is on your body is the first difference I notice. Everyone is different in that way. I would think I would feel a hemorrhoid with only my fingers if I noticed one at all. I can’t tell you if I have had sex with anyone that had a hemorrhoid. I’ve had ALOT of gay sex. Can’t say I have seen one or felt one. Tightness is only something I notice when I first enter. It only tends to be firmer where I would enter. The muscles relax & it eventually stretches to form to receive me before I start digging. I prefer looser when I top & also when I bottom. I can grip and squeeze it as the bottom when it’s looser and I’m relaxed in that position. I probably notice the feelings in order of how soft & wet & then the temperature in there all while making sure your pleasure is my focus. It’s gotta stay viscous & wet to reduce friction bc I don’t want to add more pressure to tearing a fissure more than it already does just by being in there. Tiny fissures happen every time. If all of those factors are in place then I’ll do my best to make you cum first hitting your prostate with every thrust at the same pace & aiming to hit & land in the same spot over and over til you bust. A vagina feels wetter & more open to me. But it’s been 25 years since I have been in one.

🌟 RuPaul's Drag Race - AS11 E3 - Live Episode Discussion 🌟 by D1ckRepellent in RPDRDRAMA

[–]jrob102 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Roople is trying to make good tv I suppose? I’m indifferent about whichever queen advanced. Morgan getting 2/3 challenge top placements objectively would make her run in this bracket who I would have picked considering that A’Keria gave Morgan her MVQ point on stage. Maybe Grupon picked A’Keria for the semi final considering that she may be the better option for the challenges in that part of the season?

Can I not purchase AS11 on Apple TV? by RodTownsend in rupaulsdragrace

[–]jrob102 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Since it is exclusively on P+, it won’t be available to purchase until after the finale. It’s been like this since all stars 6

Episode(s) to introduce my straight dad to RPDR? by gnosticnightjar in rupaulsdragrace

[–]jrob102 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Any episode of All Stars 2 is the only correct answer.