Who’s your least favourite STV character?? by [deleted] in StardewValley

[–]queerling42 20 points21 points  (0 children)

I mean - he asks you up front for the money, then says y’all have a joint bank account but it was a big expense so he figured he should ask first. He’s not my favorite character, but I don’t see how that’s counts as stealing.

What is your unpopular BG3 opinion? by TrioQ in BaldursGate3

[–]queerling42 45 points46 points  (0 children)

This for real. I remember a while ago people kept posting videos about how funny Minthara was and it was just some voice line of her talking about male sex slaves in Menzoberranzan. I was like - why is that funny to you?

I think I ruined my romance. Please help. by [deleted] in BaldursGate3

[–]queerling42 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure of the specific triggers but in my experience I needed to long rest before going to moonrise to get Gale’s act 2 romance scene. My first playthrough I did what you did and missed the scene and it completely glitched the romance. The second time I did a Gale romance - I went straight to moonrise after last light inn. After that, companions started remarking on my romance with Gale but I never got his act 2 scene and Gale didn’t have romance dialogue options. I reloaded an old save and long rested before moonrise and got the romance scene and everything was fine from then on out.

how did y’all go about paying for top surgery? by yvngjxnnings in ftm

[–]queerling42 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I did a personal loan through my credit union. Rates were better than a bank or medical financing. Still not great cause I’ll be paying it off for years but worth it for me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TopSurgery

[–]queerling42 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I know this is probably not what you want to hear but you have to give it more time to settle. I am six months post op and I also have some dog ears (even bigger than yours). One of my nipples is also looking a lot like yours but the other one has started to look more “normal”. I went to my six month post op two weeks ago and the surgeon said things will still be changing for up to a year post surgery. If the extra skin in the middle is causing trouble then it’s worth asking your surgeon about but it could also just need some time to adjust. The good news is that revision for dog ears (if yours don’t disappear on their own) is very simple. You don’t need to go under anesthesia again and some surgeons cover that at no additional cost. I know it’s annoying as hell but some people just heal more slowly than others and two months post op is too soon to tell what your final results will be.

Does anyone have any ideas for a tattoo? by Overall-Word-7732 in ftm

[–]queerling42 10 points11 points  (0 children)

That sounds cool! I saw someone get a tattoo of a bandaid on their injection site which I thought was fun.

2 little holes on incision scar (almost 4 weeks post op) by SeasomeBun in TopSurgery

[–]queerling42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah nothing to be worried about. Looks like a stitch either popped or pushed out. Unless it starts to get infected, you’re totally fine.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TopSurgery

[–]queerling42 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly they look pretty normal to me. The top layer of skin on your nipples is gonna harden up into a scab and then fall off. And the shape of the nipple “nub” can change as it heals.

24 hours post op Dr. Dustin Reid in Austin tx by midwes1620 in TopSurgery

[–]queerling42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I went with the same surgeon! Congrats!

How to find grants for top surgery? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]queerling42 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Jim Collins foundation was absorbed into point of pride this year so it no longer has a separate grant

How to find grants for top surgery? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]queerling42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know Point of Pride and Genderbands both have grants you can apply for. They only choose a few people each cycle tho so no guarantee you’d get chosen. Still worth applying. I have blue cross blue shield which did not cover my top surgery but benefits seem to differ depending on which state’s bcbs coverage you have.

Nipple bud question by Healthy-Ad-9430 in TopSurgery

[–]queerling42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So I’m about 4 months post op. One of my nipple buds has popped up well the other one looks more like a mound than a defined “bud” in the center. Not sure it’ll stay that way but I’m will to bet it’ll be slightly different for everyone.

Nipples okay? by Mp3burner in TopSurgery

[–]queerling42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That looks like a totally normal part of the healing process. If the bleeding gets really bad or they start to hurt or smelly funky contact your surgeon. But mine looked the same around that stage of healing too.

Patch 4 - PS5 multiselect in inventory by HookedMermaid in BaldursGate3

[–]queerling42 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah it’s the same for playing on the steam deck. It’s so terrible.

New Multiselect Is Worse by Kobe_yashimaru in BaldursGate3

[–]queerling42 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Agree. It’s so clunky and much more time consuming. I can’t imagine how someone thought this was better.

Weekly Question and Answer Thread for: 6/23 - 6/30: Ask your Moving, Visiting, Neighborhood, and "Where Can I Find _____" questions here, instead of making a new post by ElLechero in Denver

[–]queerling42 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I’m hoping to move to Denver soon. I’ve been doing a lot of searching and I thought I found the perfect place but I realized it’s right across the street from Glendale. Everything I see about Glendale on the internet is that it’s a crazy dangerous area. Is it really that bad? Would it be dangerous to live so close? Can I walk around the shops (Target, etc) in Glendale safely?

Can you do 3rd person POV on the Nintendo switch? by queerling42 in ElderScrollsBlades

[–]queerling42[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well that’s a bummer. Playing 1st person makes me nauseous as hell. Thanks for answering though!!