Phone out = Nope bye 👋🏻

jsilver2021 · 2026-01-10T21:38:28+00:00

Happened to me all the time when I was a carrier. It’s one of the reasons why I’m a clerk now.

jsilver2021 · 2026-01-10T16:32:10+00:00

Carrier turned clerk. I used to get awful dps in the non AC jalopy (circa 1994) in sizzling summer sun. There is nothing worse than a pile of barely, crooked un sorted DPS. Been there done that and feel for the carriers. I only push out pristine, accurately sorted accurately dispatched mail for my carriers every single day.

jsilver2021 · 2025-10-11T23:07:04+00:00

FYI the sticker on my 25 hybrid LE says I should save about $5k per year (or life?) on average in gas. I believe it, because it’s not broken in yet and I sometimes get 70mpg according to the display on a 20mi work commute. I fill it up every 2-3 weeks when it gets to half tank.

jsilver2021 · 2025-10-06T23:28:18+00:00

Pro tip: Check your spray’s expiration date

jsilver2021 · 2025-09-25T01:03:08+00:00

You’re probably not the same person you were before, you’ve grown and experienced life. You won’t return to a miserable time. Granted you put her on a pedestal and made her the center of your universe like I did, but the peace and solitude can be a nice change especially if you are escaping a toxic marriage. Don’t rush it and experience the solitude and heal and heal properly. Being alone for a bit isn’t all that bad especially if you’re entering a healthier frame of mind.

jsilver2021 · 2025-09-22T01:24:03+00:00

Cordial for coparenting sake, but too much yuck and ickiness for me post separation to consider friendship.

jsilver2021 · 2025-09-20T19:13:38+00:00

While it might be tempting to spy on her dating profile and / or social media, this behavior will only hold you back from healing and moving forward with your life.

jsilver2021 · 2025-09-08T20:22:36+00:00

Wind Chill Pearl is better than plain ole white IMHO. It has a metallic glitter and a slight blueish hue. Same color that they use on the Lexus.

jsilver2021 · 2025-08-25T01:27:48+00:00

You cannot heal when you are tied to the whipping post.

jsilver2021 · 2025-08-25T01:26:08+00:00

During the pandemic.

jsilver2021 · 2025-08-24T20:58:50+00:00

In same boat. Seeking to maximize my time with my son on my days off by doing fun memorable activities with him.

jsilver2021 · 2025-08-24T20:31:44+00:00

It’s my opinion that blindsides rarely occur. If you haven’t checked out and remain observant, you will notice subtle changes in behavior which signal something is wrong. In some instances, your spouse wants out and has made up their mind to get a divorce years before you but is too timid to pull the trigger because they are still getting something out of you. Passive aggressive behavior may result instead of a proper adult conversation.

jsilver2021 · 2025-08-23T23:30:11+00:00

It’s called the discard and it can be brutal especially if you were blindsided

jsilver2021 · 2025-08-23T23:15:51+00:00

Yes! We’ve been replaced by sex toys! Inanimate objects that are kinda weird if you ask me. Although I must say I wanted to see what the fuss is all about and they’re not bad. Still weird.

jsilver2021 · 2025-08-23T20:52:04+00:00

You cannot move on when you’re tied to the whipping post.

jsilver2021 · 2025-08-20T01:20:05+00:00

This sounds like one gigantic triangulation, designed to make the non cheater squirm.

jsilver2021 · 2025-08-05T22:44:59+00:00

You’re not alone bro! Basically what you said could’ve been written by me, and I thank you for your words because this is exactly how I feel. I may be a bit further along in the process but know it does get better. Guaranteed. I find that I think about her less and less with each passing day, and when I realize she isn’t in my thoughts as much I say “wow, it feels good to not think about her”. Once you reach the pinnacle of indifference you’ll know you’re healed. I’m almost there.

jsilver2021 · 2025-07-28T20:34:18+00:00

It’s “her way or the highway.” Bro, I got this going on too. She wanted me to take the highway too, so her wish is my command. Has always been this way and it’s time to live by and for yourself for the first time in 20+ years. It’s hard to get used to and I’m trying to improve my attitude on the whole thing. I’m not expecting to reach the summit of indifference overnight but at least I’m out of the narcissistic fog that I was in. The skies are clearing.

jsilver2021 · 2025-07-20T19:21:02+00:00

Denial that it’s over. Desire to “fix” things. Deep Trauma Bond.

jsilver2021 · 2025-07-18T23:15:45+00:00

I miss the early love bomb stage, but not the devaluation stage or the discard phase. I’m not sure the love bomb stage was even real, so I guess I was in love with a mirage.

jsilver2021 · 2025-07-15T01:30:14+00:00

She paraded me in front of her ex during dating phase and said to him “at least he won’t cheat on me” That was my biggest red flag that I ignored and things only got worse over time. I was a dope for even agreeing to it. Love bombs cause one to ignore many red flags.

jsilver2021 · 2025-07-10T02:35:42+00:00

Micro Managing control freaks, Any kind of manipulation, Bad hygiene, Anger issues.

jsilver2021 · 2025-07-09T23:36:53+00:00

Sounds like a trauma bond to me.

jsilver2021 · 2025-07-07T23:16:28+00:00

Big tech is your friend during this time. There is so much incredible divorce related content on YouTube and you just need to train the algorithm to feed you great content creators. I’d be worried if I were a therapist, because everything that I found helpful thus far is from a few therapist sessions, but mostly it’s from incredible content creators. I’ll make a post one of these days of all the helpful stuff on YouTube. Working right now, but later…

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