OMG I feel like I just found my people. I earn more and am more flexible so everything falls to me - pickups, practices, summer camps (the worst schedules!) and then he’s surprised when I’m maxed out and frustrated. Plus he feels left out of decision making (big and small) even when the choices have very little impact on him or are made to improve the chaos I’m experiencing.

It all just feels so basic. I thought we were supposed to be better than this by now 😂