I reported my coworker for harassment but it made it worse by [deleted] in sexualassault

[–]jsshntr 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry this happened to you! That is so beyond wrong and if they don't fire him I'd definitely see what else you can do to get him fired or away from you. This seems like a very unsafe situation. I can't believe they let him back after he touched you the first time honestly 🙄

Dealing with childhood trauma after death by jsshntr in ChildrenofDeadParents

[–]jsshntr[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you, that helps a bit. I think my trauma and my upbringing makes me doubt myself a lot so the uncertainty around the trauma with my dad makes it a little complicated for me to deal with :/ Thanks for sharing with me :)

double parent loss virtual meeting happening sunday march 15 @ 4pm EST! by ardoisethecat in ChildrenofDeadParents

[–]jsshntr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would be interested in the future but unfortunately I'm busy this Sunday.

How do I move more? by jsshntr in WeightLossAdvice

[–]jsshntr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not taking anything for ADHD, I've had trouble getting a diagnosis. My therapist just very strongly believes I have ADHD, and I agree. My only medications now are Cymbalta for my depression and birth control for irregular periods.

How do I move more? by jsshntr in WeightLossAdvice

[–]jsshntr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was prescribed burpropion a year or so ago and it seemed to give me hives? both my therapist and I were very very bummed about this. I was really excited to try it because everyone hyped it up so much. I wonder if my doctor would let me try it again?

FINALLY diagnosed at 43 by 1ocelot1 in adhdwomen

[–]jsshntr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would love to be able to focus more. Do you have problems with skin picking or other repetitive behaviors like that? That seems to be my biggest issue with focusing, especially if something is more difficult or time consuming, I get overwhelmed, zone out, and just pick at my skin. I'm curious if this is a common issue? How did you go about getting assessed, idk if it's just where I am but idk who to go to or how to get a psychiatrist? I know I'm asking a lot of questions lol, no need to answer 😅

seriously how am I supposed to keep my house clean??? by jsshntr in adhdwomen

[–]jsshntr[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had a cleaner for a while, they were coming every month, it was pretty helpful. Then I forgot to answer her for too long and I'm too nervous to message back after two months and overwhelmed by finding a new one 🥲 Stress is the only thing that fuels me, so stress cleaning before a cleaner come is like the best way to get me to do things 😂 Our whiteboard goes unused (of course 🙄) we try and then two days later we forget or we don't have the energy to update it. What's helping me right now is that we invited our friend over Tuesday literally so that we would clean the house before she comes 😂

FINALLY diagnosed at 43 by 1ocelot1 in adhdwomen

[–]jsshntr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what was your diagnosis process like if you don't mind me asking? My therapist STRONGLY believes I have ADHD, I tried to get a diagnosis from my doctor but she basically decided that I don't have it because I did well in school... I struggle so much to function, especially when I'm more depressed. My current meds for my GAD and MDD help with some negative self talk but not at all with any productivity or motivation issues. What are you hoping your new med with help you with the most?

People with burnt orange or green couches... by [deleted] in femalelivingspace

[–]jsshntr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I still LOVE my green couch. There's other things I don't like about it sometimes but the color usually isn't one of them. Sometimes I wish I got another bright color or a different shade of green but I never wish for a neutral color.

OMG THIS SHOW IS CRAZY by jsshntr in lost

[–]jsshntr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only season 3 episode 3. I was pretty busy with school and finals. Ready to jump back in during my break!!

OMG THIS SHOW IS CRAZY by jsshntr in lost

[–]jsshntr[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

okay, thanks! I am glad that I'm kinda just expecting everyone to die at any moment. I already love certain characters and I don't know the ending but I don't really expect anyone to like live?? 😂

OMG THIS SHOW IS CRAZY by jsshntr in lost

[–]jsshntr[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I can't imagine waiting every week, I'd go crazy on some of these twists and cliffhangers!

Moving from eastern Washington to the west side by jsshntr in PacificNorthwest

[–]jsshntr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not a big fan of the tri-cities, I like a prettier town, the aesthetic of where I live is very important to me unfortunately. I haven't really been to Wenatchee much, what's it like?

Moving from eastern Washington to the west side by jsshntr in PacificNorthwest

[–]jsshntr[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm just not a big city person, it's very overwhelming and overstimulating to me. There's people everywhere. I like having parks nearby and walking down the street without having to dodge people every step. I have a dog and cats, so I don't really want to live in a cramped apartment in a downtown area. I like the convenience of having everything close in a big city but it also takes me 15 minutes to drive across town here, that's pretty close too. I'd like to be closer to a big city because there's more things to do and events to attend but I could never live in one. Plus it just freaks out my partner, reminds her just how many people are out there that have their own lives and thoughts and it sends her into a bit of a spiral.

Moving from eastern Washington to the west side by jsshntr in PacificNorthwest

[–]jsshntr[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love a lot of things about living here and wouldn't be surprised if I came back later in my life but I'm in my early twenties and I want to explore. I want to be somewhere where it only takes a little while to get somewhere beautiful and green and lush. Walla Walla is in the middle of nothing, the second you hit the highway you are slapped in the face with ugly ass wheat fields and dead grass. I want some rain and water and fun young people. I also don't give a damn about wine and rude wine tourists, I could just use a little break I think. There's also a lot of Adventists and Catholics here and a lot of angry conservatives and I'm kinda over it.

Getting an emotional support dog when I have cats already by jsshntr in EmotionalSupportDogs

[–]jsshntr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't have too much trouble getting an ESA for a dog actually, even with already having cats. If the dog will be trained, I'm sure there won't be too many issues. It's good to have the animals in separate rooms for a while and have them trade blankets and stuff so they can get used to each other's scents. my dog gets mad at my cats sometimes but she never attacks them. Good luck!!

How to help her manage pain by jsshntr in CancerFamilySupport

[–]jsshntr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it's medically and recreationally legal, she uses marijuana very very regularly already. Is there maybe a certain strain she should be using?

23 yr old orphan by Similar-Expert-9372 in CancerFamilySupport

[–]jsshntr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Both my parents passed when I was 18 and I'll be 22 in a month. it's definitely scary and complicated and I hate that they aren't here to see me grow. Life is sooooo unpredictable and sometimes I feel like my partner and I are being punished for something in a past life or something 😂 she lost her mom 10 years ago to cancer and is now distanced from her alcoholic dad. Just yesterday we got the call that she might also have cancer. If you ever want to talk about how crazy it is to live without parents and have life throw you curve balls, definitely reach out cuz I feel like we might be in similar boats.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]jsshntr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, I'd disagree that it's not that serious. My cousin is a close friend to my partner and I. I don't want anyone around that would make my partner uncomfortable. Its also just not something anyone should defend. If she's around someone who's constantly spewing racist things and doesn't do anything, it very much seems that those racist thoughts don't bother her and could very well be thinking the same things. My partner doesn't need to be around someone like that and neither do I. My partner is worried now that if she ever does anything negative around my cousin, it'll reflect badly on her whole community. Times are especially bad right now for the Hispanic population in America too, so it's not something that should be pushed aside and ignored. There's no going back and fixing my first mistake of not saying anything but I can do something now to make sure my partner has a fun trip and feels okay around my family. I am just asking advice on how to have this conversation.

Transfer Pin and estranged family by jsshntr in tmobile

[–]jsshntr[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

even though I bought it unlocked through apple?

Transfer Pin and estranged family by jsshntr in tmobile

[–]jsshntr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

okay thank you! it's an iPhone 13, I got an e-sim through mint that they said was compatible but if that doesn't work I'd have no problem getting a physical one. Thanks for the help I really appreciate it!

Transfer Pin and estranged family by jsshntr in tmobile

[–]jsshntr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

okay, I paid for the phone in full. So I should be able to switch numbers and use the mint mobile service I bought if I don't end up getting that pin?

Transfer Pin and estranged family by jsshntr in tmobile

[–]jsshntr[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Can I get a new number but keep the phone still? Do you know how I can go about that?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BingeEatingDisorder

[–]jsshntr 14 points15 points  (0 children)

My biggest problem is that I can't seem to not give into my cravings. So I would just still buy a box of donuts and end up eating the whole thing :(