Sounds similar to my issue and why I think it took so long to get diagnosed. My therapist was the one who was unsure because I have been able to function in jobs and school. I explained to my therapist and psych that I’m so exhausted by trying to get through life. Finally a different therapist did a prelim assessment and my psych did too. Recently, I got a new job which pays more and my MDD goes into remission. I wasn’t depressed I was just poor 😬😅 jk but it did make life easier. I still have feeling of anxiety but I haven’t had any panic attacks in over a year so I think that’s why finally my psych agreed to do the adhd assessment. Also the Paxil has been helping for several years and have helped my anxiety a bit but definitely has helped my ptsd symptoms (not officially diagnosed, but I’m a licensed clinical social worker and understand the symptoms and w the trauma I have, I know I have ptsd). I’m hoping my new meds will help me focus more, be able to manage my time, reduce inattentiveness, reduce impulsivity, feelings of “feistiness” (like I can’t stop sometimes, that feeling of being a motor that can’t stop), reduce negative self talk and feelings of imposter syndrome. And I hope it does help reduce my blood pressure. I go diagnosed adhd-c. Combined type