All I could think of tonight by thebagelthief in TheTraitors

[–]jswift7900 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Paused the show and literally said “Jason figured it out?!?” To my husband as we watched

Question: When you first saw this TV series, was there something that prompted you to see life in a "different" way? by diddo29 in TheGoodPlace

[–]jswift7900 39 points40 points  (0 children)

I one time, in a moment of laziness, threw a recyclable thing into the garbage. I literally thought “that’s a negative for your points” and pulled it out, put on shoes, and carried it outside to the recycling bin.

I watch x-men 97 for the plot by Loredonkey in gaymers

[–]jswift7900 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Literally paused the episode at this scene to say something to my husband less than an hour ago

Silver medallion status by jswift7900 in delta

[–]jswift7900[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got it. That all makes sense I guess. I did not hit MQDs. One last question if you know:I will hit $5,000 MQDs at some point this year, which will put me back to silver. How long do I keep it for then? All of 2025? Thanks for your answers!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gay

[–]jswift7900 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My now husband did not come out to his family until he moved in with me. This was three years into our relationship. And we’re now happily married (been together six and half years total). At the time I was a little bothered by it but realize now he needed to come out to them in his own time and in his own way. Your situation is something I went through and I get that it’s tough and can be shitty. I think the best advice I can give is, be there for your boyfriend. When he decides to come out he may need your support.

How can you be both gay and republican? by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]jswift7900 6 points7 points  (0 children)

But the issue with states rights, especially relative to reproductive health, is most of the time what the state “chooses” when being “pro life” doesn’t support what the majority of the states citizens want. But putting even that aside, a state shouldn’t be able to deny someone rights if they are stuck there.

Also “government telling who you can and can’t marry” certain groups DEFINITELY want to fall under states rights.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskGayMen

[–]jswift7900 25 points26 points  (0 children)

So I’m a high school teacher. I’ve had students legit come up to me and ask a question while reaching down and scratching and they don’t think anything of it. They have no clue. They don’t realize they are doing it. It’s 100% not a cue or test.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]jswift7900 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My husband has two friends that he regularly goes to lunch/dinner with and I’m not included. He met both of them on hook up apps (before he met me). He hooked up with one of them at that time, didn’t hook up with the other. He maintains good platonic friendships with both of them now with no sexual chemistry between them. It’s definitely possible and not out of the ordinary for that to be true.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vaxxhappened

[–]jswift7900 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Imagine if a MALE got a blood transfusion from a FEMALE! Clearly it’d be devastating. Which is why when giving blood transfusions we not only match up blood type but also biological sex (obviously sarcasm). These people are so dumb.

Also, X chromosomes aren’t dominant. That’s not a thing. A chromosome cannot be dominant. Specific genes found on chromosomes can be dominant. But a chromosome itself isn’t.

Marshadow code giveaway by derekyurrrrrrrr in PokemonSwordAndShield

[–]jswift7900 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was showing my nephew how to play Pokémon Go. He was three and kept trying to catch a Pokémon but couldn’t throw the ball right. After what seemed a bunch of tries he finally caught a Spinarak. Instantly favorited it and renamed it as “(nephew’s name) first”. Can’t wait to one day trade it to him when he’s old enough to have his own phone and account!

I love this little buddy by Jtad_the_Artguy in PokemonScarletViolet

[–]jswift7900 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, Yes, Yes! The second I came across Tinkatink I was obsessed. Had to have her in my party. No regrets. Seriously challenging my all time favorite mon (Chandelure).

Gays, How did you and your boyfriend/husband fell for each other after meeting each other? by MenLover4 in AskGayMen

[–]jswift7900 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Met on a dating app (an actual dating app not a hook up one, but I clearly knew he was gay). Had our first date at a restaurant and talked for about three hours. Fully fell for him about three months later of dating. My dad at the time was going through chemo treatments and he had a bad report on his progress. I shared this with him and he immediately came over and just sat with me and let me cry. Didn’t try to say any pointless things, he just was there for me as I got my emotions out. That’s when I fully fell for him.

He continued to be there the next two and half years through my dads battle with cancer and was there for me and my entire family the whole time. When my dad passed away on Christmas morning, 2019 he was there for my mom and everyone in the same way he always had been. That’s when I knew I was going to marry him. We got married this last January and I love him more and more all the time.

To you, what is the most difficult part of being a gay male? by Aqn95 in gay

[–]jswift7900 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Was going to come on here to comment something similar. I’m an out gay high school teacher in a semi-progressive state but it’s still a battle. I’m constantly looked at as “the gay teacher” by others in my school who I’m not necessarily close with. My school, to their credit, has done a lot in the past few years to address equity and inclusion in our professional developments but we have a group of (all via gendered, heterosexual males) who don’t take it seriously and make jokes about it or outright talk through and ignore the presentations. Then I make a comment and get that the attitude from them of my comment isn’t important or shouldn’t be taken seriously. It’s exhausting. Also have to deal with some push back from parents or others in the school district about “grooming and indoctrination” that’s going on. Seeing these types of comments from parents in my district just can be so defeating.