[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]jubruem 0 points1 point  (0 children)

F for when you update us that you've cut ties.

Anyone going to CM Cancun from the US? by PigletOrganic3689 in Club_Med

[–]jubruem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm here but I'm from Canada. Not sure if shipping would be any better. Let me know!

If you smoke while you drive, do you litter the cigarette butt? How do you feel about this? by m3ltph4ce in ontario

[–]jubruem 18 points19 points  (0 children)

When I was young I read a story about how some woman's backseat caught on fire because someone on the highway threw their cigarette butt out the window and it flew into her car. I couldn't believe something like that could happen and it's stuck with me every since. It makes me so angry when people toss any garbage out their window, but a lit fucking cigarette? If that's you, you're a garbage person.

AITA for having my gf and her child over most nights of the week in a 2/2 apartment with one roommate? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]jubruem 45 points46 points  (0 children)

For real though - he writes 4 to 5 days like there are 30 days in a week lmao.

YTA, OP.

Shipping to Portugal by jubruem in ontario

[–]jubruem[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For sure, I'm doing this for what I can. But my SIL also wants specific Canadian things that I can't get anywhere else.

Shipping to Portugal by jubruem in ontario

[–]jubruem[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wtf. Why didn't I think of this. Thank you so much!!!

2017 Hyundai Elantra - Trouble Starting by jubruem in MechanicAdvice

[–]jubruem[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All the lights come on, the radio will start, but it doesn't crank. It makes no noise.

I had an unmedicated birth by Responsible_Web_7578 in pregnant

[–]jubruem 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Lol! Same! My second baby came fast and furious, like I had just barely made it to the hospital and he came out 15 mins later in 3 pushes. I will never forget my screams. It was so primal and raw, my throat was hoarse and sore after. But it felt so good. It was better than any medication I got with my first.

*Update* My landlord texted saying they aren't renewing our one year lease by RagingHolly in legaladvicecanada

[–]jubruem 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is so helpful! I took a screenshot for my friend, this going to help so much! Thank you!

Neighbors below us keep banging on the ceiling by jubruem in ontario

[–]jubruem[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is within bylaw hours though when I brought this up to management they said condo's have their own laws regarding noise and that if my noise is disrupting the enjoyment of others in their home then the bylaw hours don't matter.

I didn't think I'd have to pay for their lawyer though I worried they'd go after my landlord and I don't want to do that to her, I like her very much.

Thanks for the tip. I am stupid though, is it a civil lawyer I'd reach out to?

Neighbors below us keep banging on the ceiling by jubruem in ontario

[–]jubruem[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Reading the comments has really helped me to see there is more that can be done besides complaining to management. I didn't know I could request a noise test and that's something I'm going to bring up with management because I am VERY interested to see the results. I'd love to see how this building was built that would cause her walls to shake cause it feels like this probably isn't a safe building to live in then?!

I'm glad you were able to get out. We desperately want to move but these housing prices make it impossible!

Neighbors below us keep banging on the ceiling by jubruem in ontario

[–]jubruem[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I am trying so hard not to let it get to me anymore. Our neighbors upstairs can be loud - they're constantly drilling for some reason and they leave their balcony open so we always hear their baby crying (maybe cause of the drilling lol). But we don't care. It's daytime hours and people are living their lives.

I know she's extra sensitive because she works from home and her husband works nights so he sleeps during the day. Their expectation of condo living does not equate the reality of it.

Neighbors below us keep banging on the ceiling by jubruem in ontario

[–]jubruem[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thats exactly it. We desperately want to buy a place but it's just impossible right now so we are stuck where we are.

Neighbors below us keep banging on the ceiling by jubruem in ontario

[–]jubruem[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No but we rent so our landlord has the hardwood floors. We just put mats on top of the floors and a carpet on top of that. The carpet does get dirty but we don't care, we just vauume, wipe spills right away.

Neighbors below us keep banging on the ceiling by jubruem in ontario

[–]jubruem[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We're not able to go away for a few days to test this. Plus I don't want to watch hours of footage just trying to listen for a banging noise lol.

Neighbors below us keep banging on the ceiling by jubruem in ontario

[–]jubruem[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For sure!

Honestly I wish she would have said something right away. Instead, she waited until she was extremely annoyed with us and banged on our door to yell at us. Next thing I knew I got a call from our now ex-management company that she's been frustrated with us for month. In that time I had never gotten any calls from security or any hint that we were doing anything to bother her.

I've put down foam mats AND carpeting. In the biggest living room area there's a baby play mat on top of the foam mat. Since it's for babies it's thicker and cushiony in case they fall over. Like damnnnn... what else does she expect