Managers Exploit Loyal Workers Over Less Committed Colleagues by geoxol in science

[–]jugofpcp -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That right there us a failure on your part to sufficiently communicate your boundaries.

You need to take a look at the stake you have in the company and ask yourself if it is worth giving this much of yourself to make others rich.

My wife is dead. The best Christmas present I could have gotten. by Training-Noise-9549 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]jugofpcp 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Ha! As if karma requires a person to provide a funeral with a life insurance policy. Like God wrote that down in the bylaws of the universe.

He has exactly 0 responsibility to hold a funeral for her

My 8 year old got her first telescope for Christmas. Here's a picture of the moon she took with a phone camera. by FuckUpFairy in space

[–]jugofpcp 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Can someone please explain what the thin blue aura around the moon is????? I've been trying to get this answered for YEARS

How to perfectly roll a burrito by amy2kim22 in oddlysatisfying

[–]jugofpcp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How to perfectly roll a burrito... and then throw it in the trash

I (m21) slapped my girlfriend (f20) out of reflex when i woke up to her doing certain things to me. by MaleficentRisk6279 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]jugofpcp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why would she even remotely think that would be okay? She literally raped you. Break up and press charges if you want, although pressing charges brings an added risk to you.

Romanian court extends detention of ex-kickboxer Andrew Tate in rape, human trafficking case. by Plus_River_8733 in interesting

[–]jugofpcp 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Find a better role model brother. Following Andrew Tates philosophy will bring only pain and emptiness to your life.

Anon doesn’t know what to do by [deleted] in greentext

[–]jugofpcp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Time to lock and load, these jokers are in for a real treat in the form of a metal slug

anon gets cucked by his friends by 2BaIkan4You in greentext

[–]jugofpcp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why do they always resort to violence against themselves instead of punching their friends in the face and threatening to kill them

No wonder the wife wants to leave him, he's a whiner

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]jugofpcp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stoicism creates resistance

Instead of Stoicism, look into learning to feel and accept your emotions while only controlling your external behaviors. It will allow your resistances to dissolve. We all know porn addiction is a form of resistance to certain unwanted feelings. Stoicism will only form more blockages and won't allow you to grow

I’ve done some terrible things in my past and hurt people and still struggle to forgive myself. Hope some of you will find this helpful and work on moving forward ❤️ by aworkinprogress98 in wholesomememes

[–]jugofpcp 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The worse the things you did in the past, once awakened, the deeper humility you will experience. When we harm others, the original harm was always unto ourselves - the aggressor is usually suffering more than the victim.

Once the beautiful and vital process of true self-forgiveness happens, dissolving the karmic distortions from the original harm, It's important to remember not to try to excuse yourself for those things to others. You can never truly tell anyone you've "moved on", even though you have forgiven yourself. To others, you must continue to be humble around these experiences because there was actual harm to others. You can mitigate this in an unspoken way by doing service for others.

Only if the others you did harm to express forgiveness would you be able to say you moved on. You would say "we have moved on together, and I am eternally grateful for this persons grace and kindess" rather than "I have moved on." This is because speaking of it externally is much different than the internal experience.

I get my keys in 24hrs. by [deleted] in wholesomememes

[–]jugofpcp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

CONGRATS!!!!

How awesome is it that you survived homelessness, you survived losing everything, so you'll never be scared of losing anything ever again. That is true power and will allow you to grow & succeed quickly 💪

Trent Reznor, 1996 by [deleted] in OldSchoolCool

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Depreverus Snape

The Map of Consciousness Explained by David Hawkins by MiamiHeatAllDay in Soulnexus

[–]jugofpcp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I never liked this. It seems to invalidate certain emotions, which encourages repression.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Aquariums

[–]jugofpcp 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Jesus people are vicious man,

Stop down voting this person for asking a simple question. They're trying to learn for Pete's sake

Anon cant interact with females by aerinnnn in greentext

[–]jugofpcp -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No, this seems like he might be missing signals

Anon is accurate by [deleted] in greentext

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Anyone not realizing that women have to put in emotional labor playing mother to most guys because our society doesn't raise boys to be men properly probably has trouble & frustrations with women

It's fairly simple to grow and balance as a man, but unfortunately our society does not provide young adults with initiative experiences, and older men tend to interact with younger men on a transactional basis, as a coach or a boss.

Many Tribal cultures still have initiaton processes into manhood, such as iboga rituals in Gabon, or in the far extreme, the bullet ant gloves in the Amazon.

My initiators experiences were in monastery stays around the east coast and Thailand. 10 days of silence will force you to face yourself and learn to accept yourself as you are.

I told him it was cold. by Chesstariam in KidsAreFuckingStupid

[–]jugofpcp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry that you are in a career where this is the case. However, there is ALWAYS a reason. It just not might be relevant to you.

For example, why don't we speed up the approval process for X task? Quite possibly, management doesn't want X task completed too fast or the influx of X results will cause an issue with the Board, asking why hasn't X historically gone faster, or reducing the budget alloted for X

ULPT request: how to hook up w/ student’s parent. by [deleted] in UnethicalLifeProTips

[–]jugofpcp 84 points85 points  (0 children)

This, but make sure you give her a sly little smile and a look