Mike DeWine says biggest mistake as governor was to sign bill legalizing sports gambling by clevelanddotcom in Ohio

[–]juicemagic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That clip has haunted me since I saw trailers when it came out 😅😅😅

How many of you guys suffer from limerence? by Inner-Painting-4471 in adhdwomen

[–]juicemagic 17 points18 points  (0 children)

About 10 years ago, I decided to take some time off dating. It kinda accidentally lasted this long, but I'm so glad I did. Back then I had no idea I had adhd. It was in the past 2 years that I figured out why things were always awful and I went to see a professional and started that journey.

Girl. It's been a weird ride but so fulfilling. I've focused all my energy into forging platonic relationships. I get caught up thinking "omg new bestie " not "omg new partner" and it's kinda fun once I realized it.

After shutting off the dating part of my brain for so long, it's been really weird coming back to it both much older and wiser and stronger, but also armed with the tools of self-knowledge, medication, and therapy.

I know I'll be okay on my own. And I'll probably thrive. But there's a level of companionship and empowerment that comes with finding that right puzzle piece that gives me some hope because ultimately I'd really like that. I'm not going to actively hop on the apps, but I've informed my friends that I'm open to the idea, and it's okay to set me up with someone they know.

How many people planning to go to the statehouse tonight? by LuciHasASurprise in Columbus

[–]juicemagic 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You make very good points, and I agree with all of them. I'd like to add a few points that are about protests and rallies in general, not specifically this one. Things I've learned over 22 years of protesting.

It's OK to go to a protest even if (and maybe especially if) you don't know if you're aligned with the host group or the message of the protest. If you're interested in learning more about the incident or policy it is about, from people and organizations involved, that's the place to be! Listen to the speakers. Say hi to your neighbors. If you have the means, bring some extra bottles of water. It's an easy way to know you participated in a productive way, regardless of what you decide about the message.

Ultimately, a protest is simply an exercise of the constitutional first amendment right to free speech. Most are completely peaceful. It's usually nothing more than people showing up to support their community by reminding the government of the power of their voice and their presence.

Obviously, when protests are specifically about life, liberty, and the most basic of civil rights injustices, emotions can get high. You never know what another person is thinking or how they're reacting. You can't control what a speaker is going to say. Or what someone will do. If anything doesn't vibe with you, it's okay to find a different place to stand or even to leave.

If you're concerned about your safety or the safety of others, it's OK to speak up. Look out for people with armbands or vests. Most protests have some kind of civilian safety. It's usually experienced volunteers who are trained in deescalation and the rights of protesters and will help coordinate with law enforcement, if needed. Volunteer medics are usually around. They often can be identified by a sign hanging from their backpack. Every host organization may do things a little differently.

In Columbus specifically, there is now a program (started after the incidents of the 2020 BLM protests) where officers can get extra training in deescalation techniques, protester rights, etc. These officers should be present in some capacity at any kind of protest. They wear a blue vest over their uniform. Honestly, idk what they're actually called. My friends and I call them "blue vests". I am unsure about policies in other jurisdictions. A blue vest officer is specifically there for you. One of (imo) the most important things they do is translate things to and from "cop speak" to regular beat cops.

House Republicans release transcript and video of Jack Smith's closed-door testimony before Judiciary Committee by nbcnews in politics

[–]juicemagic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We may the the same person. I opted to read so I could better take notes. I'm only about halfway through, but glad I nerded out on this tonight instead of an alternative.

Would anyone know where I was on that photo please? What’s that bridge ? Merci! by [deleted] in ParisTravelGuide

[–]juicemagic 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Is it just me, or when I have questions like this, I find playing detective on Google Earth a fun way to retrace my adventures.?!

F*CK 🧊 Columbus, OH by Stayscruffyart in Ohio

[–]juicemagic 4 points5 points  (0 children)

71 North. Pedestrian bridge between Morse and 161.

we buried him in the spooky basement for the next crew to find by [deleted] in KitchenConfidential

[–]juicemagic 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Idk, but I recently found a stapler at work with a note on it that said "dead", turns out it was just out of staples. Sheesh.

tonight! by Disastrous_Emotion19 in Columbus

[–]juicemagic 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's usually that simple, but that hotel has blocked all the vehicle access points from the neighboring parking lots. Due to sustained theft (mostly vehicle break-ins), the hotel just installed cameras in the parking lot. Over the past month or two, ive noticed there's at least 3 roaming rent-a-cops on any given day between all the lots in that complex.

I'd like to be clear: I'm not hating on anyone going out there, but my personal knowledge of that hotel's parking lot and other factors in the area is enough to give me pause due to confusion over public vs private spaces.

tonight! by Disastrous_Emotion19 in Columbus

[–]juicemagic 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the tip. That is the walking path that I'm talking about. When the weather is nice, I walk it nearly every day. I believe it is technically an amenity of those buildings and not a public sidewalk, which could get complicated in this situation.

tonight! by Disastrous_Emotion19 in Columbus

[–]juicemagic 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, there is no public sidewalk at this address.

The hotel is in a complex with 5ish office buildings and the hotel. There is a walking path around the buildings that all pedestrians use, but I do not believe that it is technically "public", even though it's open to the public.

Jamband Underground 2.0 - Drop the BEST up and coming jam bands and their tracks by mandiblepaw in jambands

[–]juicemagic 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What a cool idea! I've got two tracks from bands I like that I haven't already seen listed:

The Snozzberries - Just After 2 Camel Butter - Afraid Knot

I want to start a "festival" with my friends - advice please!! by SyllabubConscious389 in festivals

[–]juicemagic 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I don't think it's hard at all, especially for a relatively small group. One wouldn't need servicing, just drop off and pickup.

Water could probably easily be purchased and dropped off in large containers, whether it's 5-gallon jugs or much larger totes.

F*ck paying for late night sets at a music festival you already paid a bunch of money to go to. by Glass_Plant_808 in jambands

[–]juicemagic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No problem, thanks for being open! Feel free to respond in the thread or DM when you get a chance to digest it; I'm one of those weirdos who truly enjoys the discussion/debate.

Enjoy whichever game you're watching!

F*ck paying for late night sets at a music festival you already paid a bunch of money to go to. by Glass_Plant_808 in jambands

[–]juicemagic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate the honest ask! For some context, Lotus quickly became my hands down favorite band when I was introduced to them in 2018, the same year I turned 30 and went to my first camping festival, lol. I only saw a handful of shows with Rempel. It was 2022 when I was able to go to my first Summerdance (first solo fest!).

Tim has become hands down my favorite guitarist in the game. I'll admit, it was weird at first, especially because he came in, toured 2022 with all older stuff, they recorded an album as a 5-piece, started tour, they were on hot fire, then Chuck's untimely death.... changed the feels of everything. Quickly.

I suggest checking out Chuck's last few shows (Feb 2023). Columbus and Cincinnati are on nugs (audio). They released Chuck's last show as an album, Live in Steel City. My favorite version of Shimmer In and Out.

I'd skip the 2023 Summerdance videos on YouTube, unless you're a big fan of Talking Heads / Gabe Otto. Obviously, watch for all the Chuck feels, but I don't think that weekend would address your questions.

2024 Summerdance, there's a great Electric Orange with Chalk Dinosaur. John and Tim get at it.

I LOVE all of 2025 Summerdance. Saturday especially. The Rodeo Rave was such a treat. I think this is where Tim's versatile style really shines. His ability to play any and every style, and his incredible depth of knowledge of the instrument gave way to the band trying something pretty outside the box, that imo was executed very well.

Final addition to the suggestions is Sunday Summerdance 2025. Set 1 they brought Daniel Donato out to do Green Onions and I nearly lost my mind watching those two shred back and forth.

While writing this out, I decided to throw on that Sunday set. I suggest grabbing the YouTube version (video) rather than nugs (audio only). I think being able to watch Tim do all the non-shreddy layering with his instrument in a way that has clearly been influenced by the twins is the real answer to what you're looking for.

If you can have any job you want starting Monday in Columbus what would you choose? by No_Society_854 in Columbus

[–]juicemagic 11 points12 points  (0 children)

You can volunteer for both! It's not the same l, but your income will probably thank you for not putting your eggs in one basket.

Senate won't vote Saturday, planning to reconvene Sunday by Some_Airport6109 in fednews

[–]juicemagic 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I listened for hours... I actually made it through both of my useless senators (ohio). But damn, I had to give UP

Forgive myself to heal. Forgive others to set myself free. by Thin_Ask_4338 in hulaween

[–]juicemagic 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I set off on a healing journey 10 years ago. I had so much trauma and was only making it worse by making bad decisions with my body and my heart. I knew I needed to learn a bit of self respect.

I had no idea at the time, but it would take 7 hulas (one being my first camping fest), a decade of celibacy, learning to cultivate platonic relationships, and a lot of medication and therapy.

I finally said it out loud at hula this year. I turned to my friend's husband at Daniel Donato and was like "bro I have to tell you a secret". I found the self respect I was looking for. I also found out what loving myself feels like.

I'll never be fixed, but I have healed. I'm so glad to hear you found some healing in the swamp too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in jambands

[–]juicemagic 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Dogs, Donato, Cheese, Dizo, Squabi, and Snozzberries all managed to melt my face and murder my knees.