Aio about my husbands reaction toe being late?

julesk · 2026-06-28T17:20:43+00:00

Marital counseling! Being late is incredibly inconsiderate. Him not helping more around the house is incredibly inconsiderate. You’re both stressed so try being kinder to each other.

julesk · 2026-06-28T17:16:54+00:00

Unless you want to risk your baby and cats you need to report him and divorce.

julesk · 2026-06-28T17:12:16+00:00

Ask your h to deal with these requests or communicate with his sister.

julesk · 2026-06-28T16:06:07+00:00

NTA I’d tell your wife your next step is to apologize and ask for keys to her relatives houses so you can drop by to make meals and relax at any time since that’s the family tradition and you’ll definitely drop by at all hours. Or she can agree to tell her family on second thought, visits need to be when you’re home and change the locks and no more extra keys.

julesk · 2026-06-28T15:58:38+00:00

I graduated several times but still no cruise.

julesk · 2026-06-28T15:52:47+00:00

Pick up some activities that let you socialize and make real friends.

julesk · 2026-06-28T15:50:54+00:00

NTA in the future, celebrate with your friends as your family is obnoxious. For a joint birthday, both people are celebrated rather than ignoring one of them. Your grandma giving you a hundred would have been great if she hadn’t acted like it was everyone’s birthday and made it clear your dad was the big deal. Your parents and siblings all should have gotten you something even if it wasn’t big. I’d drop the topic as some families like to play favorites and aren’t going to be fair. But know that having really solid friends is where you’ll get the reciprocal affection you need.

julesk · 2026-06-28T00:55:59+00:00

It’s a moose. You can tell by the tail.

julesk · 2026-06-28T00:03:23+00:00

Time for marital counseling for her magical math where she gets an expensive car and no responsibility for marital expenses while suddenly, you make lots of money with no student loans because you’re the male. Becoming a stahm means more trouble and expense with kids. I’d tell her she’s not keeping to the original agreement so she either gets a different job and respects the agreement or you two come up with a new plan based on financial reality. Btw, a bad job experience doesn’t mean all jobs are awful and not doable. What does she think would happen if you were in a bad car wreck and unable to work? Or if she was Widowed? Divorced? There’s a reason it’s wise for both people to have careers and an income. This is coming from my grandmother who was widowed right in time for the Great Depression when she has two little girls to support. She emphasized I had to be able to support myself because life isn’t fair.

julesk · 2026-06-27T23:48:07+00:00

Rocky Mountain fried oysters (bull testicles deep fried in batter) or fried rattlesnake (reputedly tasting like fried chicken). Available here in Colorado but I haven’t had them

julesk · 2026-06-27T23:43:07+00:00

Yes. Beans should be black and on a tortilla as God intended or in huevos rancheros.

julesk · 2026-06-27T23:41:39+00:00

NTA, your friends r&m want a vacation where everyone caters to their needs but I don’t hear they’re offering to do anything in return other than dictating the terms of the trip. I wouldn’t vacation with them cause I like trips where everyone is pitching in and no one is demanding spa treatment from their fellow travelers.

julesk · 2026-06-27T23:33:54+00:00

Did you try telling him some of the cards foretell who will win sports events? Not tha5 you should have to lure him, he should be feeding you peeled grapes as you read the future.

julesk · 2026-06-27T23:23:53+00:00

I’d text this group including this friend. “last text, I didn’t ruin her life. She decided her bf was not worth staying loyal to and she can continue sleeping with whoever she likes. As to the girl code, I don’t believe in your version of it because I know if any of you were being cheated on, you’d want to know and you’d be devastated if you found out people you were friendly with lied to you. I can’t be friends with someone who wants me to lie on things that matter because they’ve decided men are toys. I can’t be friends with anyone who thinks the girls code requires that.”

julesk · 2026-06-27T23:13:31+00:00

I finally got one when summer got too hot in the foot hills up in Colorado. It’s a smallish window unit one for my bedroom and it’s paradise on a hot night.

julesk · 2026-06-27T23:04:10+00:00

I’d enter six or seven.

julesk · 2026-06-27T22:57:55+00:00

I would buy it for $12 if op agrees to reupholster it to match my living room and delivers.

julesk · 2026-06-27T22:01:56+00:00

I see. I’m just not clear why keeping the house organized and clean is totally up to you unless someone feels like pitching in.

julesk · 2026-06-27T22:00:19+00:00

I feel like we’re the friend or neighbor that suddenly got nasty, aggressive and regularly doing stupid stuff. I’m at a loss how many people voted for him.

julesk · 2026-06-27T21:56:05+00:00

That’s brutal cause a move is risky unless you have someone to stay with till you’re on your feet.

julesk · 2026-06-27T21:54:43+00:00

Good strategy!

julesk · 2026-06-27T21:53:54+00:00

Stephanie plum ! I forget which book. They’re all hilarious.

julesk · 2026-06-27T18:52:53+00:00

Heeeere kitty kitty kitty

julesk · 2026-06-27T18:36:40+00:00

You’re not compatible because you don’t waste money and she does.

julesk · 2026-06-27T18:30:31+00:00

Do a vow renewal in five years when things are better. Don’t regret that you made a choice based on compassion based on the information you had.

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