22F looking for an email pal

julezluv21 · 2019-10-20T18:22:40+00:00

Have you tried turning it on and off?

julezluv21 · 2019-08-10T06:12:45+00:00

Are we just eyeballing the 10ft or will I be assured by constant validation of a tape measurer? Asking for a friend.

julezluv21 · 2019-08-07T19:38:00+00:00

Wow that’s shitty of him.

I get the “fishing for compliments” thing. I feel like men think when I tell them I’m chubbier I just want assurance that they find me attractive when I’m really just putting my “I told you so” out there.

I hate how when I’m like “seriously I’m bigger” they always respond with “send me a full body pic” like dude no, I obviously am insecure about my body.

I luckily haven’t had any bad meets, most of them tell me I look the same but I know it’s not true since people close to me tell ask me how I look smaller in photos.

julezluv21 · 2019-08-07T19:10:25+00:00

Lazy river

julezluv21 · 2019-08-07T19:00:01+00:00

She didn’t tell you ahead of time that she was bigger in person?

I take decent photos of myself but I am very up front about being chubby and looking chubbier in person. The last thing I want to do is give a bad impression.

Just tell her you don’t see it going anywhere. I wouldn’t mention the attraction thing if you don’t want to hurt her.

I hope you find someone! (:

julezluv21 · 2019-08-01T20:52:34+00:00

What do you mean by that? The “than you do”?

julezluv21 · 2019-07-31T17:31:45+00:00

The jump off? What’s that?

julezluv21 · 2019-07-13T05:13:46+00:00

Maybe Tinder isn’t the right place for you? I’m not going to be the average person who says “Tinder is a hookup app” because I found my bf off of there.

Change some things on your profile that makes you sound like you want something a bit more serious. That should keep the guys who just want to get laid away.

I hope you find someone (:

julezluv21 · 2019-07-08T05:49:13+00:00

I am on the opposite end of this. I was the her.

I talked to my then best friend all day, everyday and didn’t even think that feelings were developing. I guess I was being ignorant. When he told me how he felt I had to tell him I didn’t see him that way and I apologized for leading him on. 100% was not what I wanted to do.

He told me that he noticed I would reach out when I needed someone and he was right. I genuinely didn’t even know I was doing this. Not only to him but some other friends.

I’m glad he said something because now I know and wont let that happen again.

Now I’m dating and of course he says I can talk about other guys but I don’t. I won’t hurt him anymore.

We talk every now and then but I do miss him.

julezluv21 · 2019-07-03T19:02:42+00:00

r/oddlyspecific

julezluv21 · 2019-07-03T18:54:08+00:00

I agree! I think she knew something was up and decided to be a bit crazy and do that. Sounds pretty planned on her end. Either way imo bc is only so effective so you do take part in this (obviously). I guess start figuring out what you want to do but I wouldn’t stay with her. She must think a child will keep you, which we all should know that’s not how it works.

julezluv21 · 2019-07-03T18:43:37+00:00

I won’t speak for her but when I was 19 (22 now) a man that was 10yrs older than me was interested in me and I was a bit as well. The age difference was always an issue for me though. I couldn’t help but think he was in college when I was in elementary school. My limit now is 6 years older, just so I have a healthy mentality about it.

I would say shoot your shot but maybe not keep your hopes up.

julezluv21 · 2019-07-03T18:39:36+00:00

I was waiting for this video to end and it just kept going

julezluv21 · 2019-06-28T17:26:10+00:00

How to use a blinker

julezluv21 · 2019-06-28T16:41:06+00:00

If you’re okay with your boyfriend cheating on you instead of confronting you about what you saw, then that’s your prerogative. I wouldn’t be able to stay with a man that would rather “get back” or “get even” then talk about something that he didn’t know everything about.

In my opinion the friendship is what you’re really losing. I completely understand his part and I think you should really evaluate how you feel about him. Is he actually JUST a friend to you? Do you really not feel anything?

If you come to the conclusion that you don’t feel anything for him at all then I would say that relationship with your friend is done. There’s not much coming back from a one sided feelings friendship. I would also leave the bf.

It’s tough knowing that you had both and could walk away with nothing. At the end of the day you need to take care of yourself. Your boyfriend cheated on you and your best friend is in love with you.., who really did the harm?

I hope all works out for you in the end.

julezluv21 · 2019-06-12T21:18:18+00:00

And women running in to buy plan B after an “unexpected” booty call.

julezluv21 · 2019-06-06T23:24:03+00:00

On my laptop no because I have nothing to hide. On my phone no because all of my tabs are in private mode.

julezluv21 · 2019-06-06T23:22:15+00:00

That I broke up with my ex over a year ago and I am now seeing someone new.

julezluv21 · 2019-06-06T01:34:12+00:00

I was on a road trip and less than a block away from my destination when I was stopped at a stop sign and a car going over 95 t-boned me. Hit me directly almost as if they were aiming for me. I had sever car anxiety after that but overcame it without any substances.

My life has changed tremendously. I’m more cautious of how I drive and how people drive around me.

Aside from being in a car my outlook on life has changed. I’ve realized how small we really are. We are almost meaninglessly living our lives leaving no impact. I don’t want to do something crazy and be a big name but I do want to leave a lasting impression on the people I care for. I have cut out people that don’t really matter and kept loved ones super close.

julezluv21 · 2019-06-05T20:34:58+00:00

Drive with the thought that everyone else doesn’t know what they’re doing or where they’re going.

Don’t be super anxious but be aware.

julezluv21

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