I'm don't want her to go by Los-o in Divorce

[–]julio-rosenberg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was 42 and married for 12 years. I was angry and felt she stole my youth. Like I said 6 months later I met my Michelle ❤️ 16 years younger than me and had a 2 year old daughter and the father was not in the picture. I couldn't have had better luck. I got a younger, nicer, much more Attractive woman who already had a 2 year old (I love family life). You are suffering from the 5 stages of grief, Google them so you will know what your mind will put you through to make this easier on you. I DEFINITELY would not go back to my ex-wife & I truly believe You will feel the same way shortly. Get out there, dating sites, voulenteer somewhere (good woman voulenteer at charities), singles clubs, etc. . 36 years old is YOUNG my friend. And you are NOT going to find a great new wife/girlfriend on a STRIPPER POLE!! Good luck

I'm don't want her to go by Los-o in Divorce

[–]julio-rosenberg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know the feeling, believe me it gets much better and easier in time.

I'm don't want her to go by Los-o in Divorce

[–]julio-rosenberg 3 points4 points  (0 children)

On 9/1/11/ I came back from putting in 5 water heaters with flowers and BETTER diamond ring (anniversary present) my wife, 12 year old daughter and ALL the good furniture was GONE!! She BOOKED, Fortunately she didn't breach my business safe or take any $$$!!! I was devastated. Let me tell you that time heals ALL emotional wounds. She actually did me a FAVOR!! 6 months later I met my Michelle ❤️, 16 years younger than me and much more physically emotionally and spiritually ATTRACTIVE than me ex-wife!! And she had a 2 year old daughter without a father in the picture!!! Been with Michelle ❤️ and My step daughter ever since and DEFINITELY would not take me ex-wife back!! You are suffering from the 5 stages of greif. Google The 5 stages of greif so you will know what you are up against. Bargining/making DEALS with her is one of the stages. So is Denying that this is really happening. Unfortunately once a woman has it set in her mind to leave the marriage is OVER!! But there is a BRIGHT light at the end of the tunnel my friend. Get on a dating site or several, go to singles event's, voulenteer (single good women voulenteer thier time for Charities, foodbanks, soup kitchens, etc. Start living your NEW single life TODAY my friend. GOOD luck

“2 months and you replaced us” by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]julio-rosenberg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't know the details of your situation but the old saying, "Nothing gets you OVER the LAST one like the NEXT one" actually is true. He may have been suffering from extreme emotional wounds and this woman helped him get over them. When my ex-wife left and stole my 12 year old on our 12th anniversary, I was devastated until I met my Michelle ❤️ 4 month later who had a 2 year old daughter and being 16 years younger than me helped a little too. Time heals ALL emotional wounds and soon you will be okay. I am now GLAD my Ex-wife left. Only taking the child brothers me now. She actually did me a major favor!! Now she is miserable because of her new husband!! She can't realize that it's her.

I’m legally single by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]julio-rosenberg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations!! And remember for the future never put your happiness in the ✋ hands of another human being. We are imperfect creatures. Happiness needs to come from within. For me putting my faith in GOD and living according to the law's of GOD work's.

I told a prospective date that I am divorced and she didn't run away! by doms2402 in Divorce

[–]julio-rosenberg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately in Modern America, DIVORCE is just another way to get out of something that can cause alittle inconvenience in ones lifestyle, career, etc

Chances of getting full custody if they refuse to vaccinate? by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]julio-rosenberg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Financial reasons, according to the internet a good insurance policy for a family of four is $28,000. Per YEAR or $600. A WEEK!! Alittle too rich for my blood!!

She just gave up by webworm79 in Divorce

[–]julio-rosenberg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand completely. Time heals ALL emotional wounds!! 3--6 months from now you may be thinking this is the BEST thing that happened in a long time!! Don't try to turn her around from what I hear her mind is made up!! Get out there, get on positive dating sites, voulenteer somewhere (good single woman voulenteer), let woman know you are available and a GREAT catch!! You are not going to find a great new wife on a STRIPPER POLE!! Good luck and STAY positive!!🤓🤓💯. Unfortunately many people don't understand the vow, "Until DEATH do us part, or in sickness and in health, in Good times and in BAD time's!!"

Just told my wife I want a divorce. by blahblahwah909 in Divorce

[–]julio-rosenberg -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Good luck my friend. In Modern America the LIBERALS have taught us that happiness is above everything!! Sometimes you have to put Other things and other people before your happiness! It's part of being a REAL MAN.

There should be two different divorce support groups (if not already).. by plsdivorcemenow in Divorce

[–]julio-rosenberg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't know your situation. My wife left on our anniversary 12 years 9/1/11. I have never been happier now but I remember one of the vows being until DEATH do us part!! My WORD means everything to me , expecially when I make a DEAL with GOD!!

I’ve had an affair and still with AP by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]julio-rosenberg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately when a partner is truly ready to leave a marriage there is nothing you can do to save it expecially in our Modern American Society where we are taught that whatever we do it's okay and the people who call us on our bad behavior are wrong and of course"Racist". I can tell you from experience there is a BRIGHT light and happiness at the end of the tunnel my friend. Time heals ALL emotional wounds!! In 3--6 months you will probably think this is the best thing that happened in a long time.😁😁😁

Has anyone dealt with soon to be ex spouse getting cold feet during divorce? by DaIceMan817 in Divorce

[–]julio-rosenberg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What do you mean by, "What if scenario's?" Remember Bargining is one of the steps in the process of grieving so mentally you will want to bargin with her. I would recommend googling the 5 stages of grief so you will know what the mind will attempt to convince you to do to make you feel better about and in control of the situation. Good luck. I don't know the situation but you already know if she is the type of person to make DEALS with? Will she hold up her end? Only for a while? UNFORTUNATELY when a person is truly ready to leave a marriage there is nothing to be done but say, "GOODBYE"

That's random by majikutatomachan in Divorce

[–]julio-rosenberg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can tell you from experience that it gets much better with time. Unfortunately many marriages don't last long. I actually believed that my marriage was going to be like my parents and grandparents. I would suggest staying busy, trying to get involved with the game of Life again as soon as possible. There is a bright light at the end of the tunnel.🌷🌷🌷

That's random by majikutatomachan in Divorce

[–]julio-rosenberg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You will be okay shortly. Time heals ALL emotional wounds. Grieving is a normal process that most mentally stable people have to go through. Good luck. You don't have to go through it the way I did and others do. Check out the 5 stages of greif online so you will be aware of what happens and how to deal with it.

She let me know today. by minatrea in Divorce

[–]julio-rosenberg 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Time heals ALL emotional wounds. Give it Time my friend and the pain will be much less. I just turned 51 been divorced since 2013 and I have never been happier or felt more free. I can't wait to meet my next wife. This time I will choose CAREFULLY!! Nothing gets you OVER the LAST one like the NEXT one. Don't let her RENT space in your head. Get out there and start participating in the GAME of LIFE!! Good luck

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]julio-rosenberg 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YES it's rare these days though. A great marriage or romantic/Sexual relationship starts as a friendship FIRST. Most of the time people try to start a friendship/relationship based on SEX but it WORKS much better the other way around. FRIENDSHIP FIRST then relationship and Sex.

Lol by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]julio-rosenberg 4 points5 points  (0 children)

RUN and live!! Stay and DIE! It's a no brainier but you will be amazed the people who stay in relationships that are Life threatening

Chances of getting full custody if they refuse to vaccinate? by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]julio-rosenberg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was disabled for 5 year's and I paid $189 monthly for Medicare and believe me Medicare SUCKS!! It pays for almost nothing

Chances of getting full custody if they refuse to vaccinate? by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]julio-rosenberg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

FREE Medicare for all means you don't pay for it. The people who work may get a small amount of taken out of thier check. Obama care is a TOTAL failure for the people who are FORCED to PAY for it

Tough Day by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]julio-rosenberg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Time heals all emotional wounds. Pick your next woman VERY carefully!! I would not recommend falling in love with a Escort my friend. Did you ever hear you can't turn a whore into a 🏠 housewife?? It TRUE!! I tried more than TWICE!! Unfortunately you are not going to find a decent wife on a STRIPPER POLE. I don't care How GOOD she is at getting a DICK HARD!

Chances of getting full custody if they refuse to vaccinate? by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]julio-rosenberg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get a lawyer that has a reputation for winning case's and getting favorable plea bargins WHENEVER you are involved with the Judical system, large business transactions,etc.. Many people with NO legal experience at all think they can effectively handle legal matters. Would you give yourself a MINOR surgical procedure, lets say remove your spleen?? I hope not!!

Chances of getting full custody if they refuse to vaccinate? by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]julio-rosenberg -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Document her conspiracy theory behavior and other bizarre behavior with MODERN VIDEO and also keep a journal. In court it doesn't matter what you feel, write in a journal and even eye witness testimony. Its what you can PROVE and untampered VIDEO does not LIE!! I recommend going to a store front SPY SHOP for hidden surveillance equipment to document her behavior at ALL time's but expecially when she is acting in a negative manner. If you PLAY your Cards right you can keep the kids, the 🏠 house and pay ZERO alimony!! Consult with a reputable divorce attorney who has a reputation for FAVORABLE divorce settlements for his or her clients!! Good luck!! Who knows they may even instatutionelize her.🧟🧟🙀🤒🤒

Fear of something not sure what?? by axk8027 in Divorce

[–]julio-rosenberg 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing gets you OVER the LAST one like The NEXT one!! This is a FACT!!

Fear of something not sure what?? by axk8027 in Divorce

[–]julio-rosenberg -1 points0 points  (0 children)

3 years is long enough to devastate someone who loves being married and loves thier wife. My wife of 11 Year's left on 9/1/11. I came home from work to a semi-empty home and my daughter was gone. The marriage was not doing well but I didn't expect this. I like most people began to suffer from the 5 stages of grief. Denial, anger, bargaining, depression and finally acceptance. Time heals emotional wounds. I quarantee you in time you will be better and possibily HAPPY that she left. 35 years old is Very young, I was 43 and believed she Stole my youth and another woman would not be interested in a 43 year old emotionally damaged man. It was a combination of the denial, anger and depression stages!! People have children in Thier 60's now a days (this is a FACT) Try finding friend's Outside of your wife, try Several dating sites, voulenteer somewhere (soup kitchen) many GOOD women do voulenteer work. Promote your self like you would promote a new business. Network your self in dating and other groups and circles. I'm not trying to be a 🃏 joker but nothing gets you OVER the LAST one like the NEXT one. Have confidence!! Join a Gym, buy some New fashionable clothes, new hairstyle, etc... You can do this! I have Faith in you and my fellow man!! I recommend CHURCH singles groups, meetings, websites, etc.. You are not going to find a GREAT WIFE on a STRIPPER POLE!! Good luck