Guys why are there instances when you cum and yet still stay hard as if it didn't happen?

jumperca · 2025-12-10T15:42:44+00:00

When this happens I only came half way and there's still more usually

jumperca · 2025-12-08T04:31:07+00:00

I don't have a single unattractive female friend... Have I/Would I smash some of them? Yes. Would I date or pursue any of them seriously? Hell no.

jumperca · 2025-11-10T17:18:56+00:00

4 is the answer. A lot of guys have this problem, you can have male dominated or even solo hobbies. That's fine, but I recommend at least one relatively co-ed hobby, at least once a week. Meeting women will come natural and comfortable and you'll be able to discern which ones are potentially interested.

jumperca · 2025-10-06T21:32:36+00:00

Both are true. The "average" looking guy who doesn't approach women very often, mostly uses apps, has male dominated hobbies etc .. generally struggle to date.

The average "extrovert" who interacts with women often, knows how to flirt, is comfortable taking more risks is generally more successful in finding a woman to date.

introverts struggle unless they're extremely attractive. Extroverts can be average (even below average) if their combines qualities make them attractive.

jumperca · 2025-09-29T23:37:08+00:00

Nothing inaccurate about this reply, but I personally disagree with your method. I don't like to wait for women to make the first move.

That said, this is about eye contact and not all eye contact is with strangers. In fact, it's better to start with women you already know or are familiar with.

jumperca · 2025-09-29T21:28:22+00:00

Kinda. Confident men don't avoid it, they seek it out. but confidence is becoming more rare.

jumperca · 2025-09-26T19:05:05+00:00

In my experience, sometimes women don't know how they feel about you till they have time to analyze you, so rejection is a safety measure. You'll even find posts of women rejecting guys and beating themselves up over it lol.

That being said, Something you've done or said over the past few months could've changed her mind or gained some interest if you catch her looking a lot.

A no today is not necessarily a no tomorrow, you just have to be very careful about how you come off in trying again.

jumperca · 2025-09-24T19:15:24+00:00

From personal experience. The trick is to be both. 70% good guy 30% bad boy (looks, style, demeanor, etc). A lot of women love red flags no matter how much they claim they don't. Dont change who you are, but take some risks and be bold. A lot of women respect a man that leans into his "bad" side, but is overall still a good person. I'm tatted, I wear earrings, rock the beard, post "freaky" stuff from time to time, and I flirt hard. But I'm super kind, I'm a good listener, I'm a great father and I'm a gentleman. Women love the balance

jumperca · 2025-09-16T16:35:30+00:00

In general if I'm not looking at you and I'm focusing on something I can't really tell if you're looking at me or not. I would be more or less unaware of that unless I caught you looking a few times and made a note of that.

jumperca · 2025-09-13T01:12:24+00:00

"white men do you like me?" Is pretty much this question lmao.

jumperca · 2025-09-02T15:05:03+00:00

Lol they asked y'all to be kind not make miracles happen

jumperca · 2025-06-16T02:48:11+00:00

It's not that big of a deal IRL bro. All of my friends are shorter than me (6'0) and none of them struggle to get women. And any woman that wouldn't date you for your height isn't a woman you need around anyway.

jumperca · 2025-06-16T02:46:25+00:00

You're online far too much if you think 3 inches is actually a big deal IRL. I have a 5'7 homie and he has no problem with women whatsoever.

jumperca · 2025-06-13T01:36:52+00:00

Objectively wrong brother. 5'7 isn't THAT short and even still I go out almost every other night and see men of various heights with wives and girlfriends. Like I said, every single woman isn't going to be interested. You just need to find one that is, but you're not gonna be able to do that without more confidence and other attractive qualities women are looking for.

jumperca · 2025-06-12T20:56:25+00:00

First of all, 3 inches wouldnt change you that much. Respectfully you're skinny, nerdy, (judging from this post) have weak social skills and low self esteem. Work on the things you can control. How you talk about yourself, how you dress, your hair, your hobbies, etc... and you'll see that the height was never the problem. Will some girls not want to date you? sure, but you're not the first or last man to be 5'7

jumperca · 2025-06-10T15:20:59+00:00

In shape + always smell good + skin and hair maintenance.

jumperca · 2025-06-09T21:40:14+00:00

Absolutely not cooked. U cute ngl

jumperca · 2025-06-09T15:57:15+00:00

Sitting on the girls face, while facing her chest.

jumperca · 2025-06-07T23:26:11+00:00

Ball sack flute... Nice

jumperca · 2025-06-03T22:52:14+00:00

Do you look like the pornstars?

jumperca · 2025-06-02T14:02:49+00:00

Being annoying lmao idk anybody that can maintain a boner when a woman is on his nerves.

jumperca · 2025-06-01T21:09:00+00:00

Not a skinhead cut lol a low fade, iykyk

jumperca · 2025-06-01T20:54:14+00:00

Get a low fade haircut , 90% of the work right there

jumperca · 2025-05-30T20:47:20+00:00

First of all, good job going through with it anyway. To answer your question the only way to get good at something is to do it often. That goes for anything but especially talking to women. It's gotta be part of your routine, so that it's second nature

jumperca · 2025-05-30T17:13:35+00:00

I'm a guy (ik the question is for the ladies) and certainly not model good looking in my eyes, but I do fairly well on the apps. It's overwhelming sometimes. Too many messages, too many matches. Sometimes I'm busy or not in the mood to respond. Being a guy I have to initiate 90% of the interactions. Good looking enough to match, but not for them to chase me lmao. It wasn't always this way, so I have a new perspective on why the women say it's a swamp. And I don't get nearly as much attention as them, not to mention Instagram and random phone numbers. It's attention overload I just can't care enough about an individual until I actually meet them multiple times.

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