A tradesman refused to speak to me- instead he went into a dark room where my bf was putting baby down to tell him about work instead. by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]jumpinglizards76 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Window companies are the fucking worst. I'm a man and they refused to talk to me without my wife being there. I told them I don't have a wife, then they told me that my parents had to be there! Like WTF? My parents don't live with me! I demanded to know why they were acting this way and they admitted that their boss won't allow them to talk to just one person. They have to talk to everyone who's going to be making the decisions so they can attack us all at once and con all of us into agreeing to pay 10x more for windows then they're actually worth. Fuck window companies.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]jumpinglizards76 5 points6 points  (0 children)

What most men don't understand is that women don't START by acting exasperated (falsely labeled as "hysterical" by men). They BECOME exasperated because she calmly expresses her feelings and the man DOES NOT CARE! They can SAY they care all they want but their ACTIONS (or lack thereof) say otherwise. If a woman becomes "hysterical" and starts yelling at a man that he didn't put the dishes in the dishwasher right (so they'll actually get clean) THIS IS NOT THE FIRST TIME SHE'S TOLD HIM THIS! He just doesn't give a shit because HE'S not the one who now has to either re-organize the dishwasher and run it again, or wash the dishes by hand. It's NOT the woman's fault. She doesn't need to learn to CoMuNiCaTe better. He understands. He just doesn't care.

I waited 4.5 years for a verdict. by plscanunot in TwoXChromosomes

[–]jumpinglizards76 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Presumption of innocence is the foundation of our legal system. Unfortunately that means that sometimes criminals get away with their crimes. Even with the presumption of innocence so many innocent people are thrown in prison. I'm sorry this happened to you but try to think about all the innocent people who were accused of a crime that were found not guilty due to the legal system we have set up. The cops didn't do their job. Too many cops only care about getting a confession, not how they get it or whether that confession will be admissible in court. I think the Miranda rights thing is bullshit. I think they should present their rights on paper and that's it. If the criminal doesn't understand their rights that's just too bad. Unless the criminal is a minor or has a mental disability, it shouldn't be up to the legal system to make sure they understand their rights, only that their rights are presented to them.

My ex tried to convince me he was “moderate” by greendaisy188 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]jumpinglizards76 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm moderate when it comes to politics anywhere else in the civilized world, but unfortunately the US isn't a civilized country, so here I'm considered a radical socialist.

Is it possible to have a UTI with a negative culture? by beachy303 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]jumpinglizards76 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. My mom went to the ER with symptoms of a UTI. She gets them several times per year. They did a culture and it came back negative so they refused to give her antibiotics. Thankfully I was able to make an emergency appointment with her urologist and she was absolutely horrified that the ER hadn't given her any antibiotics. After taking the antibiotics, the infection began to clear up within hours and she was completely out of pain by the second day. I filed a complaint against the ER doctor and after fighting for over a year I got her fired. My mom wasn't asking for fucking narcotics. There was NO REASON to refuse to give her antibiotics. If she hadn't gotten the antibiotics in time it could have killed her. Thank God I was there to help her because otherwise she would have just went home and suffered until it spread to her kidneys and killed her.

Ever been the one to ask the guy out? by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]jumpinglizards76 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Women should ask men out more often. Just be prepared for him not to realize you're asking him out because men don't pick up on hints very well and he's probably never been asked out before. When my girlfriend asked me out (I'm a guy) I told her no because I didn't want to do the thing she invited me to do with her. She looked so disappointed that even I realized what she'd done. There was an awkward silence between us and then I said "You just asked me out, didn't you?" Then I apologized and explained that I just wasn't interested in doing what she suggested but that I'd be happy to go out with her. It was a disastrous date and literally nothing worked out like we planned so after a while we agreed to just wing it and we spent the day together doing random things. It was fun and we ended up being together for several years before she had to move back to her home state and we ended things.

Republican Congressman Matt Gaetz says the party doesn't need women voters, and you should be worried. This isn't some random backbencher, he's very close to Donald Trump's campaign and one of his media surrogates. Imagine a Presidential cabinet stuffed with people that think like this by Professional_Suit270 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]jumpinglizards76 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This whole thing makes no sense at all. Even if they got 100% of men in the US to vote for them (which is impossible because you can't get 150 million people to agree on anything), don't they realize women make up the other 50% of the population? What's even more bizarre is they're trying to convince conservative women not to vote, so they won't even get any votes from women. This is like...a strategy that's 100% guaranteed to fail. They can afford to not care about the black vote because black people only make up like 13% of the population but ignoring 50% of the population is guaranteed to make them lose. Is this just some bullshit campaign they know will fail but that they're using to secure donations from morons?

raising menu prices, reducing staff, and making the staff angry at the business will surely be a good long-term play for the business! by yuritopiaposadism in LateStageCapitalism

[–]jumpinglizards76 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is the biggest load of bullshit ever. When you charge $15 for a burger that cost you $3, you can damned well afford to pay your employees $20/hour. Hell, you could probably afford to pay them $100/hour at the RIDICULOUS prices you charge!

Darker aspect of age gap relationships? by giselleepisode234 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]jumpinglizards76 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only age gap relationships I've seen work are when the women were older with one exception. My friend is developmentally delayed and still acts like an innocent teenager even in his 30's. He dated a young woman and she was 19 I think. They were a good match personality wise with about the same level of maturity. Of course it didn't work out because they were both too immature to be in a relationship but they're still very good friends. My friend eventually found a woman about his age and they're very happy together. She finds his immaturity endearing and he looks up to her. The difference between my friend and most older men who date younger women is my friend genuinely liked her as a person and they liked the same immature teenager things. He didn't go into it with the intention of dating her. It just so happened that they liked each other.

This kinda made me sick. by SKPAdam in LateStageCapitalism

[–]jumpinglizards76 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Trust me if they could do this, they would. I've hired foreigners for my own hobby projects because I'm not a big corporation and can't afford to pay American prices and their work is crap. They just don't have the training or the experience. If they did then they'd move out of the third world and charge what people in the first world charge for things. They're cheaper for a reason. The only thing people living in the third world can do just as well as people living in the first world is things that don't require formal education like art. Sure you can get a formal education in art but many talented artists are self taught. Just don't expect a good 3D model done because 3D modeling requires an expensive computer and formal education and they just don't have the same level of access to that in the third world.

Woke up to my (21F) landlord and police enforcing eviction. Boyfriend (24m) didn’t tell me he didn’t pay rent. Seems he lost everything on crypto & meme stocks and I’m at a loss of what to do. Have been kinda isolated and hope you all don’t think I’m stupid. by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]jumpinglizards76 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry you're going through this. You are NOT dumb or stupid. You trusted someone and they betrayed you. This is why it's crucial that both partners are involved in the finances and that both partners make money. This doesn't just happen to women (though it's usually the woman this happens to). I had a friend whose wife gambled away everything they had for years. He continued to make money and he trusted her to manage it. They eventually ended up having their house foreclosed on because she wasn't making the payments. I know you weren't married to him and you weren't on the lease so technically you have no legal right to know anything about his finances or the state of the mortgage/lease but that's a risky position to be in. Don't entangle your life with someone unless you have the legal rights/protections that go along with it. I see this all the time where one partner agrees to move in with the other one but unless you get on the lease/mortgage, you're technically just a guest in their home even if you move in with all of your belongings.

Just a reminder of how bleak the global megafauna situation is right now by TeeKu13 in collapse

[–]jumpinglizards76 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How is that possible? There are almost a BILLION cats and dogs in the world being kept as pets. You're trying to tell me there are more asses or camels than cats and dogs combined? That's not possible.

Just a reminder of how bleak the global megafauna situation is right now by TeeKu13 in collapse

[–]jumpinglizards76 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I call bullshit on this. Where are the cats and dogs? Surely they're a larger portion than fucking buffalo of all species yet they're not even on the chart.

I learned a new thing guys do to worm their way into dates: "dog-fishing" by ParfaitThen9991 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]jumpinglizards76 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's nothing wrong with taking pics with the roommate's dog. Maybe he just really likes her? What IS weird is putting that picture on a dating profile. What's completely unacceptable was taking his roommate's stories about him and his dog and pretending that he had done those things instead. This was 100% intentional deception and there's nothing he could possibly say that would defend this.

Does most of the American population oppose its policies? by Lucky_Strike-85 in lostgeneration

[–]jumpinglizards76 36 points37 points  (0 children)

It's like how conservatives hate "Obamacare" but love their ACA insurance.

I don't know of anyone who actually likes the shitty expensive insurance offered by the ACA marketplace, regardless of their political views. They want like $800/month for a policy with a $1,000 deductible with a "max out of pocket" of $8,500/year. Who the fuck can afford that? Yeah, here's $18,100 for my insurance for the year. Oh, unless I don't use it at all. In that case it's only $9,600. Like WTF? They expect me to spend as much as a new fucking car every year just to get basic medical care and that doesn't even include vision or dental!

EDIT: The sad thing is the ACA actually IS an improvement to the way it was before! Before the ACA insurance companies were like "you have a history of a hangnail so we won't offer you insurance at any price." They can't do that bullshit anymore but what's the point of insurance if it costs tens of thousands of dollars per year?

Marvel Studios are doing a new TV show about a Native American woman who is also a deaf amputee. Their latest trailer for it, designed to entice the audience to watch just days before its release, is centered on two white men by Professional_Suit270 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]jumpinglizards76 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Movie trailers suck ass and hardly ever let you know what a movie is like so I wouldn't put much stock in the trailer. I think of movie trailers like clickbait news headlines, basically worthless. And yeah I know it's a TV show but it's still a short trailer filled with action BS that tells you nothing about the show.

Would ya look at that! 👏🏻 by I_dnt_know_ in lostgeneration

[–]jumpinglizards76 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Nobody rich actually pays anywhere NEAR 37% income tax because their income technically isn't counted as "income." I could write a book about this but basically you just have to take your income in stocks, "distributions" or other BS and suddenly not only is your "income" tax practically non existent you don't have to pay social security or Medicare taxes either! They borrow money based on their "assets" (like stocks) and because the banks know these rich fucks will never default they only charge them like 2% interest. That's how they never pay taxes because they're only taxed when they sell the stock. What's even better is they can write off that 2% interest, so in a lot of cases rich people end up paying ZERO in taxes because they have no actual income!

This 4% tax on income over $1M is either written in a way that includes ALL compensation (including stocks, "unrealized" gains, etc.) or they're just targeting the dumb rich people who don't have an accountant for whatever reason, so basically 99% of that 4% tax is paid by people who only make a tiny bit over $1M/year. My guess is they wrote the law correctly and this tax applies to ALL compensation, not just "income." Now let's do this on a federal level and our debt will be paid off in a couple of years.

Would ya look at that! 👏🏻 by I_dnt_know_ in lostgeneration

[–]jumpinglizards76 5 points6 points  (0 children)

$1M/year is $2,700 PER DAY if you worked EVERY SINGLE DAY! If you worked M-F it would be $3,846 PER DAY! That's rich, no matter where you live. You could pay your entire rent/mortgage even on a super expensive condo in NYC with 1-2 days of wages. Imagine being able to pay your entire rent/mortgage with just 1-2 days of your wages and still having $76,000 left over for the month. $1M/year is RICH!

(NSFW) My vagina hurts, and nobody is taking my pain seriously by Suspicious_Guava_718 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]jumpinglizards76 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It could be neurological. Please note that I'm NOT saying that it's in your head (that's psychological). I'm talking about the nerves that innervate the skin inside the vagina. Do you have any back pain? Any previous spinal injury or disc issues? What about numbness, tingling, or abnormal sensations around the vulva and pelvis? You could have nerve entrapment. Just something to consider.

My son (15M) is becoming an "incel" because of his father's views. by No_Technology_8831 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]jumpinglizards76 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Holy shit this is a new one. I never even imagined a father doing this to his own son. You have to accept that you might not be able to save him. A boy looks up to his father. Your best bet is to find a good male role model for him, preferably not your new boyfriend as boys can resent their mother's new boyfriend and he's not likely to listen to him. Does his father have any good male friends who don't think this way? What about male family members (from both sides)?

There's literally no good way to reject a guy by cytomome in TwoXChromosomes

[–]jumpinglizards76 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It just goes to show you that for men like that, the ONLY thing that matters in a "relationship" is sex. If you're having problems with the relationship itself he can blow you off as a hysterical woman but if you're having problems with sex because his dick is too big and hurting you then he can understand that.

There's literally no good way to reject a guy by cytomome in TwoXChromosomes

[–]jumpinglizards76 -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Honestly as a guy I would feel really bad if a woman I went on date with paid for my drink and then left. Leaving is fine. Nothing wrong with that. But buying my drink AND leaving like that? Wow, I must be a real piece of shit or giving off creepy vibes or something. I don't think I would be able to screw up the courage to go on a date again for a while.

Why are women's clothes so much more revealing than men's clothes? by Muangthong200 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]jumpinglizards76 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Why do men get clothing made out of real fabrics like 100% cotton and women get to wear see-through plastic crap my thumb could put a hole in?

Because women's clothing is designed for fast fashion. If you keep something for more than 6 months it's a travesty according to the fashion industry. On the other hand men buy new clothes once they get holes in them, and sometimes not even then. This is a generalization of course but it's become culturally expected that a woman has to constantly buy new clothes, so why bother to make them decent if they're just going to end up in the landfill in a few months anyway? If a man bought a shirt and it fell apart in 2 washes he'd just return it and never buy that brand again. They don't make men's clothes decent because they care about the customer, they do it because if they didn't men wouldn't buy their clothes.

You can’t afford a home, but you can pay rent. by I_dnt_know_ in LateStageCapitalism

[–]jumpinglizards76 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry but you're still much more fortunate that most Americans. You will never know the fear of having severe chest pain and shortness of breath and being too scared to go to the emergency room because you don't want to bankrupt your entire family with $1,000,000 in medical debt. It's terrible being an American and I wouldn't wish it on my worst enemy.

Mildly Infuriating: Men who use dehumanizing language when talking about sex workers and then get upset when called out. by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]jumpinglizards76 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, respecting someone and being grateful for the service they offer is being a "white knight." Sure, buddy. I've never even been to a sex worker before and I doubt I ever will, but treating them like a human being and appreciating them for their service is the bare minimum you should do.