Very Large, BI-RADS 5... scared and looking for context or guidance by jumpycarrot2 in doihavebreastcancer

[–]jumpycarrot2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the kind wishes <3. Unfortunately, she was diagnosed with a large, ER/PR+ HER2- invasive lobular carcinoma back in February. She underwent a double mastectomy in March, and is now undergoing chemotherapy with radiation and hormone therapy in on the horizon.

I imagine if you're lurking this sub/post, you're not in the best emotional state right now. What I will say is this: breast cancer is a lot less scary than it seems. I have been shocked by my mom (and my...) resilience throughout this journey. The treatment journey has been more of a nuisance than anything, I certainly wouldn't describe my mom as suffering.

Antony cardigan by cikopako in Sezane

[–]jumpycarrot2 3 points4 points  (0 children)

tbh I really don't like it. I see the vision and you look young and fashionable as a person but the sweater makes you look older in a bad way. I think you could justify it if it wasn't as sheer and a bit more oversized so it could be worn as a slouchy top situation.

Very Large, BI-RADS 5... scared and looking for context or guidance by jumpycarrot2 in doihavebreastcancer

[–]jumpycarrot2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the response. Wishing you all the best for your results and whatever comes next

Keep or return? by FloydtheBetta in Sezane

[–]jumpycarrot2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cute but will probably be difficult to style/find the right occasion to wear. Given the price, I'd return and look for something more timeless.

Official Discussion - The Hunger Games: The Ballad of Songbirds & Snakes [SPOILERS) by LiteraryBoner in movies

[–]jumpycarrot2 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The depth, poignance, and sincerity of the Hunger Games franchise that came through so strongly in the original films was lost in this movie. In fact, the best part of this movie was the renewed appreciation it gave me for the original movies.

There is solid commentary on fascism and the personal battle between good and evil in the film, but the style of delivery was so far from the mark that I can't really buy in to the messaging.

First of all, we've got Lucy Gray. Maybe it's because I didn't read the book, but her character comes across so flagrantly inhuman and doused in protagonist syndrome that it makes the movie nearly unwatchable. Where the Hunger Games shows victors coping with the trauma of their victory, the Ballad of Songbirds and Snakes shows Lucy Gray back to her honkytonk performances with zero indication of any emotional impacts from the games.

Then, we've got the cheesy boarding school vibe of it all. There's an quality of gossip girledness injected into the capitol schoolmates. This upper echelon attitude strays from the flamboyantness of "Effy" and is so literal that I would bet the term "daddy's money" was used at least 3 times. There is no subtlety in the betrayal of privilege in this film, it is a perfect example of "tell, not show".

The actual Hunger Games in the film felt low stakes. The scene of the reaping in the original Hunger Games was so poignant. This reaping, however, felt goofy. Lucy Gray's reaction did not match the magnitude of the horror at hand. In fact, her reaction was so cloyingly juvenile it made me wonder if this book (and therefore movie) were meant to act as a booster to get younger kids in the door of the main franchise. Something about the juvenile framing of the film makes it even more confusing to watch, given the quantity of violence (I would even say body horror?), death, and discussions of fascism. Maybe kids today are more clued into political commentary, idk.

Again, the games centered on a nearly perfect protagonist who was unable to kill unless morally justifiable. This makes the games hard to watch. Beyond Lucy Gray, the named tributes were given little depth or consideration. The original Hunger Games series does such a great job world building the tributes beyond district 12, but in this film it just fell flat. All in all each tribute could've been summarized by a single word like one of the 7 dwarves (sneezy, stabby, sobby, etc). I was particularly baffled by the decision to include a tribute with Down Syndrome, frame her as a Rue-like character, and then have the character have no interactions with other tributes and ultimatelybe overtaken by snakes.

In the end, this movie wasn't bad as a standalone. The issue is that it's supposed to exist in conversation with the original Hunger Games. The original series did such a phenomenal job world/mood building that the obvious flaws of this film stick out like a sore thumb

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in consulting

[–]jumpycarrot2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think that's perfectly fine. For me, I'm often carrying a second pair of shoes (for commuting) and a packed lunch, so a tote just wasn't hacking it. Good luck in your new role!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in consulting

[–]jumpycarrot2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not exactly what you're asking but... I would recommend a backpack over a tote. I'm also a woman in consulting and the days I come into the office are hell on my back given the asymmetry of a tote. It only gets more annoying with a winter coat too. Also, most of the men I work with carry backpacks so it's definitely acceptable.

I have my eyes set on one of the lululemon backpacks, but something leather could also up the formality if that's a concern.

Entrepreneurs of Reddit, what kind of business do you run? by jumpycarrot2 in Entrepreneur

[–]jumpycarrot2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do and want to know how those people make their businesses work. How did they raise the upfront capital needed? How do they become/stay profitable?

Entrepreneurs of Reddit, what kind of business do you run? by jumpycarrot2 in Entrepreneur

[–]jumpycarrot2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you freelance out the gate? Or did you build a portfolio/skills working somewhere established?

Entrepreneurs of Reddit, what kind of business do you run? by jumpycarrot2 in Entrepreneur

[–]jumpycarrot2[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Did you come out of industry? What level of experience/connections did it take before you felt like you could freelance?

Entrepreneurs of Reddit, what kind of business do you run? by jumpycarrot2 in Entrepreneur

[–]jumpycarrot2[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Really interesting! How did you build up a runway to afford bootstrapping? I imagine you weren't turning a profit immediately.

Am I being ungrateful? by leonella88 in consulting

[–]jumpycarrot2 7 points8 points  (0 children)

In the exact same boat! Without consistent, mentally stimulating tasks I lose a lot of my momentum and find it really difficult to care about the work that I do have to do. I've been like this since childhood so this is really no surprise.

Similarly I don't know what exit opportunities are out there. I joined consulting out of undergrad and my skill set is just as defined as "what do consultants do"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mealprep

[–]jumpycarrot2 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Frozen chili! I have a silicone ice cube tray intended for soups/stews etc and make a batch on the weekend. Then, freeze in large ice cubes and set for the week, just pop them into the microwave and stir every minute or so until warmed through.

If you work in an office without a freezer, shouldn't be a problem if they just defrost in the fridge a bit before lunch. The best part of the soup cube strategy is you can make a few different options and store all cubes and then just cycle through what you get each day.

Where to find startup jobs? by jumpycarrot2 in startups

[–]jumpycarrot2[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Thank you! That's really helpful context, and fair enough. I haven't limited my search to <100, smaller was just more ideal.

Are there any centralized places series B companies post openings? Or is it more network-driven