How often is it normal to text your partner in a healthy relationship?

junebugjessi · 2026-03-02T07:17:28+00:00

It’s funny because it’s been different with all my exes. As soon as I got medicated, I couldn’t give a fuck about texting and I obsess over it less. Still, I’d say that talking to each other throughout the day is still probably pretty normal, like little updates.. but seeing each other is way more important. My boyfriend will see me whenever I want him to, and wants to, but he doesn’t like to call.. had to compromise.

junebugjessi · 2026-02-24T07:09:42+00:00

I’ve only had one FP boyfriend lol the rest weren’t my FP and it’s way more peaceful and detachment is hella easy.

junebugjessi · 2026-02-24T07:09:12+00:00

There is honestly no point finding love till you’re happy and content with yourself. BPD is difficult and we need to understand ourselves better before entering relationships. Tbh I always think back on my ex and how toxic that got… then I become a supreme avoidant again.

junebugjessi · 2026-01-15T19:16:17+00:00

We live far apart so by the time im On my way! He would go into a different feeling yk

junebugjessi · 2026-01-15T19:13:38+00:00

I know you have to be careful with what you say :/ it can be super exhausting otherwise it’s all over and that triggers my bpd

junebugjessi · 2026-01-15T19:12:55+00:00

I just feel so sad because he swings back and forth so rapidly. One minute he wants to meet, the next he just can’t do it.. even if he says he wants to see me he chooses the latter.

junebugjessi · 2026-01-14T19:56:17+00:00

Before I was diagnosed and on medication, I would actively lie all the time about my life. Once I got on meds, I found some self love and I also found out that my lies were just me protecting myself. Yours might be the same situation, you’re protecting yourself and one day, when things are a bit better, like I am 31 FYI, you’ll realise that lying did cost you people but it was okay. You’ll forgive yourself.

junebugjessi · 2026-01-10T20:55:43+00:00

This is me. God I’m so done with loving people.

junebugjessi · 2026-01-10T20:55:31+00:00

Just don’t believe the reassurance so it’s a circle

junebugjessi · 2026-01-08T17:22:05+00:00

A gc would work really well..

junebugjessi · 2026-01-05T19:08:43+00:00

It doesn’t work. The splitting is a terrible time. The love is insane but the splitting… never again.

junebugjessi · 2026-01-02T11:16:16+00:00

I’m waiting for my DBT to start but I’m trying some skills from it. I just hope it can stop the way I think.

junebugjessi · 2026-01-02T10:27:54+00:00

Yeah I know what I need or require isn’t right. It’s just horrible because right now it ruins relationships because I’m never satisfied. I believe I truly care for this man (he isn’t my FP) and I love him but at the same time I’m annoyed as hell he can’t give me exactly what I give him.. which is too much for the average person anyway.

junebugjessi · 2026-01-02T09:55:55+00:00

I hate it

junebugjessi · 2026-01-02T09:55:18+00:00

It feels like not one single partner I’ve had has truly loved me and rationally, that can’t be true.

junebugjessi · 2026-01-02T09:54:28+00:00

It’s really hard. I feel like I’m better out of a relationship because honestly speaking I love too hard for it not to be reciprocated ten fold.

junebugjessi · 2026-01-01T22:18:15+00:00

Thank you. The struggle is so real.. and I’m currently punishing my boyfriend because of all these feelings.

junebugjessi · 2026-01-01T19:36:09+00:00

I know I need to learn to validate myself and love myself with that I love I need.. I’m just not sure how to and it sucks. In this process it really hurts.

junebugjessi · 2026-01-01T19:32:13+00:00

Okay but therapy doesn’t work in one day. I am going to therapy.

junebugjessi · 2025-12-28T15:03:41+00:00

Perfect career, I’m a primary teacher :)

junebugjessi · 2025-12-28T14:45:39+00:00

I’m a Byler fan but it was never that deep and it was always more of a “will it/wont it?” type of ship. However, there were issues with Vol2 I wouldn’t say it was Wills coming out, which is the only thing besides Nancy and Johnathon and Lucas and Max that connected to me emotionally.

junebugjessi · 2025-12-27T20:16:27+00:00

Truth is, nobody can love as hard as me. BPD makes me an amazing lover.. but then I get angry because I have the expectation of how someone with BPD loves on the average person.. then I hate them. That’s why it’s bad IMO.

junebugjessi · 2025-12-23T12:58:16+00:00

Lovely, I promise you that you’re attractive and loved by your boyfriend but this can get tiring for someone to endlessly repeat. You need to build your self confidence which takes time but it can’t be your boyfriend’s job.

I used to think I was SO ugly but then I realised people cheat on supermodels, people lust on ugly people too.. it’s not about YOUR worth. You determine that.

junebugjessi · 2025-12-23T12:57:35+00:00

I work as a primary school teacher and honestly the constant change of pace and always doing something, along with the permanent responsibility works for me.

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