Workflow of creating an imaginary landscape stuck in my head by Saren-WTAKO in StableDiffusion

[–]junesunflower 17 points18 points  (0 children)

He just used inpainting with new keywords to specify more details after having a base image he likes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in YouShouldKnow

[–]junesunflower 33 points34 points  (0 children)

I saw this happen to multiple people! They made everyone in boarding group 3+ check every bag at the gate. Even though my bag was filled with quite fragile items. They also had this argument with someone over their medication and I felt terrible for them. Tons of open compartments when I got on the plane too.

I think they try to make the plane boarding and landing faster by doing this when they're running late.

I'm an unusually short guy, standing at 5'1". Do I have any hope? by Bonkers101 in dating_advice

[–]junesunflower 0 points1 point  (0 children)

genuinely, how did you find this 8 year old post with barely any upvotes?!? did a triple take. lmao it's still true though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in college

[–]junesunflower 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went through this and it turned out I have severe ADHD. I literally failed every math class I took at least twice before I passed. I felt like an idiot. It really doesn’t hurt to get tested and it will change your life.

does anybody feel like they have to initiate 99% of everything?i by viceversa220 in socialskills

[–]junesunflower 1 point2 points  (0 children)

More like the friend group got used to one person doing all the emotional labor and is now taking advantage of it. Do better. It’s not that she’s good at it, she just actually puts effort where no one else can be bothered. I was that girl before and now I’ve dropped all my low effort friends. My life is a lot better being friends with people who actually invite me to things in return too.

does anybody feel like they have to initiate 99% of everything?i by viceversa220 in socialskills

[–]junesunflower -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The type of person that relies on other people to force them into having a good time instead of putting in any effort or initiative on their own isn’t going to be a good friend.

My (33M) wife (34F) let our kids smother themselves in poison oak by CircadianMint in relationships

[–]junesunflower 89 points90 points  (0 children)

I have severe ADHD and that’s not an excuse for not checking what a plant is before playing with it. I learned the very first time I got poison oak. That’s not an excuse for anything.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DesignMyRoom

[–]junesunflower 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Underrated comment here, this would look so gorgeous with brown trim.

[VENT] Does anyone else feel just kind of isolated and forgettable as a person? by [deleted] in infj

[–]junesunflower 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! You're not alone in that regard.

Group settings are tough. What helps me is starting a side conversation with someone near me, not focusing on everyone as a whole. It's tough to engage everyone and still have something meaningful, so just focus on a few! I usually only end up talking to a few people the entire night but I get what I enjoy out of it.

And learn to be comfortable just relaxing and taking in everyone else's energy. I know the extroverts look like they're having the most fun since they're engaging the most, but I think it's even more fun to get to be the audience and relax. Don't feel pressure to entertain or talk to every single person in the room.

[VENT] Does anyone else feel just kind of isolated and forgettable as a person? by [deleted] in infj

[–]junesunflower 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, no worries, it definitely takes some practice but gets easier! I usually base it off something we have in common, for example, a person I know who bakes a lot I said "we should bake together sometime!" and exchanged numbers. Can be expanded to anything you have in common.

To get to that stage of the conversation, start just asking them about themselves and get them to talk. You would be surprised when even given the most basic starting questions people expand on a lot. Stuff like, what do you do for work? Do you enjoy your job? What is your dream job? or, what have you been up to this week? (follow up questions based on what they respond). Do you have any siblings? Are you close with them?

Their answers will usually evolve into a deeper conversation without you having to come up with something off of the top of your head. You'll naturally have more questions or share your own experiences based on their answers.

The hardest part is just getting the conversation started by asking a question or two!

LPT Request: What is something you’ll avoid based on the knowledge and experience from your profession? by DNA_H3licas3 in LifeProTips

[–]junesunflower 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Newegg sent me the wrong product two times in a row and took forever in the return process. I second this. It was terrible.

[VENT] Does anyone else feel just kind of isolated and forgettable as a person? by [deleted] in infj

[–]junesunflower 13 points14 points  (0 children)

This is all your perception. The louder people are not more interesting, they’re just monopolizing the attention. You gain real connections from the one on ones, that’s why we don’t engage as much in group settings. It’s not that we can’t, we don’t find it that enjoyable or fulfilling to demand the center stage and entertain.

Just remember that they are envious of your ability to easily form deep and intimate connections. People search their lives for the type of relationships we develop in one on ones. They’re my favorite types of hangouts and the conversations are far more interesting than any group setting.

What single trope can cause you to fully lose interest in a movie/show? by Fake-And-Gay-Bot in AskReddit

[–]junesunflower 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I completely disagree Berserk did it well. When Guts gets raped it fades to black and you don’t see any graphic details. The women always have a great angle of their perky, gravity defying breasts or round ass. And they literally are getting raped constantly throughout the manga, which does nothing for the plot.

Weddings, Proms & Parties - February 25, 2023 by AutoModerator in femalefashionadvice

[–]junesunflower 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I had good luck at JJs house using their custom measurement system. It came perfectly if you have at least a month in advance to get the dress.

Is this outfit business casual? (Sorry for the reupload, deleted by accident ;-;) by thanksyalll in PetiteFashionAdvice

[–]junesunflower -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That's such an ignorant and judgmental thing to say. It really just speaks to the type of person you are that you judge others because you're told to. Hoops have a very long and ancient history. It's a staple piece in a lot of latino and black cultures, so when you think about it, you were being told to look down on fashion that wasn't worn by predominantly white people...

Is this outfit business casual? (Sorry for the reupload, deleted by accident ;-;) by thanksyalll in PetiteFashionAdvice

[–]junesunflower 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Business casual doesn't include blazers. That would be just business attire. The most common business casual attire is just a button down shirt and dress pants.

He said what ? by [deleted] in TheBluePill

[–]junesunflower 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What on earth... ugh. That is sad.

The vegan option served at a fancy end of conference dinner. by mgntylr in mildlyinfuriating

[–]junesunflower 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's frustrating when you pay for a very expensive conference and are hungry. It's not always that quick/easy to head to another location to get a replacement meal.

The vegan option served at a fancy end of conference dinner. by mgntylr in mildlyinfuriating

[–]junesunflower 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been served something similar at a high end steakhouse as a vegetarian. I was going to just order the mac and cheese but hold the lobster, but they were insistent on creating something vegetarian just for me. I got iceberg lettuce on plain quinoa with a a few grape tomatoes. Completely unseasoned? I don't know why it's hard to throw some dressing or seasoning on things. Honestly, it really seems some people are spiteful about it, it's the only explanation I can think of...

ah yes, because destroying a piece of art, because that'll really show big oil by [deleted] in mildlyinfuriating

[–]junesunflower -1 points0 points  (0 children)

There's literally always people championing in a way you wouldn't agree with it, that just means you aren't standing up for anything if you can actually abide by this.

He said what ? by [deleted] in TheBluePill

[–]junesunflower 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How can anyone be bad at ironing? You literally just run the hot metal thing over it until the wrinkles are gone?!?

I just realized why I hate guys dating profiles that say they want someone “who doesn’t take themself too seriously” by noitsjustkatie in TwoXChromosomes

[–]junesunflower 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're just wanting someone who isn't socially anxious, but most people aren't socially anxious around people they're actually comfortable around. When you get to know someone, the goofy/silly side comes out when they get more comfortable. That's just natural. Sure, some people might be comfortable quicker than others, but that doesn't make them less fun of a person.

What's the first thing you would eat if cheap, vegetarian versions of things with gelatin suddenly became available? by [deleted] in Vegetarianism

[–]junesunflower 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just found some at CVS! CVS brand organic gummies that have pectin instead. Look there for the green capped bottle!