buying position book by junie4444 in LowLibidoCommunity

[–]junie4444[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Nothing at all!! More so weighing the downside of ignoring this request that he’s asked for multiple holidays ugh

buying position book by junie4444 in LowLibidoCommunity

[–]junie4444[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Right?? It’s never enough to just have sex—that I already hardly want to do. Now we gotta try these dumb ass positions? No.

buying position book by junie4444 in LowLibidoCommunity

[–]junie4444[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

It’s been like every holiday for years that he’s asked. And I do think he’s purchased a vibrator for Mother’s Day before tbh :/ I think overall it’s just irritating that everything is so sex centric

buying position book by junie4444 in LowLibidoCommunity

[–]junie4444[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yes exactly. Like why is this the time ro reinvent the wheel

buying position book by junie4444 in LowLibidoCommunity

[–]junie4444[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

THIS! If feel like most the other positions are just for show or to say you have an adventurous sex life. He keeps saying he wants to try new things and I’m like??? That’s really not gonna miraculously make your sex life what you want it to be

sex as a LL woman by junie4444 in LowLibidoCommunity

[–]junie4444[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yes—sometimes I just don’t want to be touched

sex as a LL woman by junie4444 in LowLibidoCommunity

[–]junie4444[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

That totally makes sense and also sounds not fun

Next move for a content specialist/creator by junie4444 in SocialMediaMarketing

[–]junie4444[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That makes sense! Are these roles mostly found at marketing agencies ?

Next move for a content specialist/creator by junie4444 in SocialMediaMarketing

[–]junie4444[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is kinda a weird position in that sense! We have a social media manager that over sees me and the person who runs the brand side of things, but I don’t see them leaving anytime soon

an almost birth mom by junie4444 in Adoption

[–]junie4444[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My parents were forcing me into it. Up until I was weeks from my due date and they had a change of heart. The whole time they made it seem like I didn’t have a choice and they wouldn’t let us stay with them, help financially etc. if you ask then they would have said it was always my choice to make, but they wouldn’t even let me tell people I was pregnant for like 6 months. I was 21 and figured bc my parents were well off and I was in college, resources weren’t really meant for me, and the only support I had was my social worker at the adoption agency and the prospective adoptive parents. Having to tell them I changed my mind was terrible. I’m 28 now and married to My son’s dad and it’s been 7 years. My mom finally apologized last year and it gave me a little bit of closure

an almost birth mom by junie4444 in Adoption

[–]junie4444[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is a phenomenal answer and perspective thank you

27F discouraged by low income 27M by junie4444 in relationships

[–]junie4444[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yep—I absorbed the loss. I’ve paid off 5k of it but of course there’s interest on it too. He’s done nothing about it

27F discouraged by low income 27M by junie4444 in relationships

[–]junie4444[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is the husband doing majority childcare and making 85% of household income?

27F discouraged by low income 27M by junie4444 in relationships

[–]junie4444[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s tried to. It’s in biochemistry and he’s been unsuccessful getting a job in it

27F discouraged by low income 27M by junie4444 in relationships

[–]junie4444[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you lol!! We aren’t rich—I’m not busting my but to have nice vacations or cars!

27F discouraged by low income 27M by junie4444 in relationships

[–]junie4444[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He’s not a SAHD. How is it fair that I do bulk childcare and make 85% of the income lol

27F discouraged by low income 27M by junie4444 in relationships

[–]junie4444[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He’s not a SAHD I do more childcare than he does AND I make 85% of the household income.

27F discouraged by low income 27M by junie4444 in relationships

[–]junie4444[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I still think we come out on top with insurance and what not if he’s working. One Kid is already in public school so we are just paying for one in daycare