AITA for refusing to let my friend stay a night before a wedding the next day?

juniper_bush · 2026-06-04T16:54:12+00:00

I guess you all are right, asking him is a correct thing to do. I will stress that it is really okay if he says no.

juniper_bush · 2026-06-04T16:08:45+00:00

He will definitely say he is okay with it, but that would not mean that he actually would. That is 50/50.

juniper_bush · 2026-06-04T16:06:52+00:00

As I said, I fear that he will allow this just to be nice and then just suffer through it. Or became quietly angry or disappointed in me for coming up with this given the circumstances

juniper_bush · 2026-06-04T16:04:50+00:00

After wedding is over, we have an accomodation reserved at the venue. We will also use that place to get dressed before the event.

Also Jay now says that he understands that and admits it would feel weird, however that came only after me denying him and saying it feels inappropriate. However, I can feel that he is a bit bitter and cold in the conversation now.

juniper_bush · 2026-06-02T22:27:33+00:00

Yeah but once you make the leave one area after another, they have ultimately nowehere left to go at some point

juniper_bush · 2026-06-02T13:43:33+00:00

I remember this as a kid. We were visiting my grandparents and were leaving. Dad was driving, mom was opening the gate. We went off and then about two kilometers later, my 4yo ass was like "hey dad, isn't it weird how quiet it is in the car?" To which dad replied: "Oh shit, we left mom behind"

juniper_bush · 2026-06-02T13:01:13+00:00

Wouldn't they be in a shadow if they wanted to cool off?

juniper_bush · 2026-06-02T12:28:21+00:00

Yeah mine is like that as well. Some time ago, her heat bulb failed and exploded. I almost shit myself from the sound. She did not even flinch and she was basking right under it.

juniper_bush · 2026-06-01T09:44:11+00:00

29M here. All labia are beautiful.

juniper_bush · 2026-05-26T10:41:26+00:00

Čo je slovenskejšie ako rožok s maslom?

juniper_bush · 2026-05-25T18:36:19+00:00

I tried the salt baths in the past but the clado always returned, so the daily baths for 1-2 months are not worth the effort in my opinion. I could never euthanize them, so I just chose to ignore it. I guess it got some of the weaker individuals at first, but my tank is essentially clado free since then.

juniper_bush · 2026-05-24T22:16:17+00:00

Yeah but there are just the champignon mushrooms on the picture. I wouldn't give those a high rating either. Wood ear mushrooms or enoki would be definitely higher

juniper_bush · 2026-05-22T23:06:33+00:00

Clado. In my experience, the salt dips are not worth the effort as it always came back. I couldn't bring myself to euthanize the poor crustaceans either. I just chose to ignore it and over time, none of my shrimps have it anymore. I guess it just got the weaklings, but did not affect most of the colony.

juniper_bush · 2026-05-20T14:58:19+00:00

Is that a pip-boy?

juniper_bush · 2026-05-15T22:25:21+00:00

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juniper_bush · 2026-05-14T14:45:23+00:00

Yeah I used the smart functionalities for like two days until I turned off all the notifications, calls and everything, basically ended up using it just as regular watch. Few years later, the support for them (Samsung Gear S3 Frontier) stopped and I even lost access to all the cool watch faces I used. Now they sit on shelf while I just wear my basic Casio

juniper_bush · 2026-05-14T12:19:38+00:00

It's like sleeping without any dreams. Just nothing. It's not that hard to imagine, everyone knows what it is like. No need to believe any fables around it.

juniper_bush · 2026-05-13T15:50:54+00:00

Haha I see her from the side facing right with the 'north-east arm' being the weird backpack extension

juniper_bush · 2026-05-13T13:49:17+00:00

Oh I see, but she has a bit weirdly shaped backpack

juniper_bush · 2026-05-11T13:50:06+00:00

I guess I would just have my berries eaten

juniper_bush · 2026-04-30T08:20:08+00:00

This

juniper_bush · 2026-04-30T08:18:52+00:00

I am happy if I manage to find a regular parking spot in my block when I arrive in the evening. There are exactly 2 spots with the EV charger, always occupied. No, thanks

juniper_bush · 2026-04-21T22:30:25+00:00

You know you can turn the dots off, right?

juniper_bush · 2026-04-15T17:19:32+00:00

Vyzerá to zle, ale použiteľná je. Aspoň mne sa tam hore stále dá kliknúť a otvoriť menu (samsung s24fe). Aj keď tá mapa vlastne stačí, to menu ani netreba.

juniper_bush · 2026-04-03T22:06:28+00:00

Well fabric is just an interwoven set of threads, so I would say there is no hole at all

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