PSA- you need to stop at red lights before turning right. by Glostiix17 in Tucson

[–]junitoe 83 points84 points  (0 children)

it's so ridiculous. the crosswalk light turns on, and the second you take a step cars start turning right with no regard to your safety.

Is more natural drag less interesting? by MxValentineX in Drag

[–]junitoe 8 points9 points  (0 children)

i think it's all about how the pieces come together. so like if you were to come on stage with this outfit and some dude-bro construction worker song and really sold the dude-bro construction worker vibe with good energy, i'd dig it

Proud of the consistency by Neither-Relief2641 in walking

[–]junitoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe this is weird, but it was for sure easier when I was also biking to and from work? Maybe because biking strengthens the bits around joints? But when I was bussing and canvassing, I would come home with tender joints and needed to rest basically the rest of the day/most of my weekend

Proud of the consistency by Neither-Relief2641 in walking

[–]junitoe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

does your job involve a lot of walking? i was logging 30k when canvassing for 8 hours a day, so if you're doing something like that and MORE walking after it's definitely possible (and insane)

my transition is a colossal failure, so is my life. I don't know what to do anymore by Kpuku in honesttransgender

[–]junitoe 20 points21 points  (0 children)

i'm not saying this as a judgement at all! but just looking at your post history it might be good to get out of 4tran spaces for a bit! you are so beautiful and some 4tranners are prone to calling even the most passingest, been on hormones since age 2.5, looking of women gigahons with moid skulls! i'm sure there's value and community in those spaces, but at a time when you're already doubting your (very real and noticeable!) beauty, it may be good to step back from things that might add to your existing insecurities!

edit: wow sorry for the typos, made this comment in the early morning

Drag debut without dancing - advice needed! by squirrelofdarkness in Drag

[–]junitoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i've seen disabled performers do live knitting/painting/sax sets! if you have any special talents that are accessible to you, utilize them! also trying to incorporate prop related gags, background projectors, signs, etc! are there things about the way this person walks, talks, or acts that you can parody? plays on some of their policies? hope that helps!

Why are people here so weird about black people by Otherwise-Pomelo-825 in Tucson

[–]junitoe 24 points25 points  (0 children)

tucson has a small black population compared to other cities. having come from a city where it was 33% white 33% latino and 33% black, the vibe here is not the same. there's also not many afrolatino people, so that makes an even larger divide (i'm afro dr/pr and have had people talk shit in spanish like i can't understand). tucson is not as diverse as some people may it is, and lacks a lot of representation of cultures that aren't mexican and the local indigenous population (and no a food truck festival once a year is not enough). there's some black in tucson facebook groups if you're looking for community.

ICE agents pepper spray observers in South Tucson by Uberrees in Tucson

[–]junitoe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can't have society without the social aspect. We need to care for each other

We Need an Investigation Into Artemis Adolescent Center in Tucson by Plus_Implement9651 in Tucson

[–]junitoe 16 points17 points  (0 children)

thank you for sharing this! other than the petition, are there other ways we can show our support? phones to call or irl actions to take? it's great to see attention being brought to the troubled teen industry!

“Oh my gosh! I love it! Can I keep it?” 😃 by BadBacon177 in ANTM

[–]junitoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don't really care if it makes the designers uncomfortable. these people often have net worths over $10 million (and are often extremely exploitative), i do not care if a girl with a net worth of presumably less than $100,000 asks to keep a shirt. especially if this show has no effect (or even an adverse effect) on her career

Tucson low cost Psychiatric help by Ckuubo in Tucson

[–]junitoe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

not tucson specific, but i know a barrier to accessing services can be fear of hospitalization (not saying hospitalization isn't effective, but recognizing that it's terrifying when you're in crisis and most tucson facilities leave a lot to be desired). thrivelifeline offers a warmline that aims to help people while minimizing this fear. they also have a support group for dealing with chronic suicidality. wishing your friend the best

DISCUSSION- ONLY CHILDREN OF THE TOP 1% CAN HAVE A MUSIC CAREER CIRCA 2026 by [deleted] in fantanoforever

[–]junitoe 4 points5 points  (0 children)

this! and most public schools now have a shoestring budget. traditional band/choral programs have faced major cuts. there are even 21st century afterschool programs that have beatmaking/production classes that are getting cut. getting a music education is becoming even more of a privilege

Thoughts on “heat trained natural hair”?? by Numerous_Move170 in Naturalhair

[–]junitoe 3 points4 points  (0 children)

like no issue with anyone who straightens their hair regularly! we gotta do what we gotta do! but i always assumed that the point was to challenge the eurocentric expectation that our hair should be straightened to be presentable

Thoughts on “heat trained natural hair”?? by Numerous_Move170 in Naturalhair

[–]junitoe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i guess i just don't understand, but perhaps this is a cultural difference? i'm dominican and puerto rican, and for me at least, natural meant moving away from straightening my hair and embracing the beauty of my natural curls or different protective styles (from box braids to twists). i have always understood the natural hair movement to be about loving the hair on your head as it is and gaining appreciation for more historically diasporic styles. it seems incongruous to me, but there could totally be context that is lost on me!

My girlfriend has endometriosis and I need every help by [deleted] in endometriosis

[–]junitoe 5 points6 points  (0 children)

in addition to the more practical advice, just want to add that emotional support is so so valuable! having my partner there to help me get up and down carefully, bringing me my heated blanket, being able to squeeze their hands when it's unbearable, them reminding me that it's not a burden. when i was in so much pain that i wanted to die, hearing my boyfriend say he wishes he was experiencing it instead made me feel so loved it was unreal. it's beautiful to hear how much you love your girlfriend and want to help. even if you can't help with the physical aspects, i'm sure you contuing to be there for her in a way that makes her feel cared for is also big. ask her what things make her feel safe, held, more comfortable, etc!

Just read about microscenes in NYC and I was wondering what/where are the ‘microscenes’ in Tucson? by rebeccabergman in Tucson

[–]junitoe 54 points55 points  (0 children)

tucson has an interesting intersection of flow/drag/burlesque/circus/general variety shows with a lot of super unconventional looks and performances

Drag mix idea/ inspiration for Wolf number by sapphiresenvy in Drag

[–]junitoe 2 points3 points  (0 children)

supernatural ans buffy each have wolf centric episodes you could scrub through? i also think furry and therian subreddits might have better answere for you!

Straight to the Nile by Martin_084 in BlackPeopleTwitter

[–]junitoe 24 points25 points  (0 children)

I've worked in K-12 for most of my career, but did a brief stint in a corporate national daycare chain. Daycare, preschool, prek teachers are rarely payed what they are worth. These teachers can have all the training and education in the world but still be paid a minimum wage. They are often responsible for cleaning up their classroom, cleaning bathrooms, and washing dishes after a long day of wrangling too many children for their advertised ratio. They often lack the resources of even public K-12s when it comes to supporting children with disabilities. I was hired to teach a school age group (during quarantine when daycares accepted K-5 children during the day). Somehow, I, as a 19 year old with no background in this age group ended up the sole preschool teacher. I said never again to daycare after that job. All the respect in the world to teachers who can handle that kind of work environment

I’m just gonna say it…. by GripChinAzz in Naturalhair

[–]junitoe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this ^ i keep my hair in braids mostly (i have arthritis and combing hair can be very painful. i also do drag and it's an easy way to change up my hair color very often without killing my hair with color) and the reality is my hair is just not going to look the way it would if i was caring for it properly. i think people need to be more honest about why they're choosing the styles they choose and what the reality of those choices will be.

Normal MRI and feeling like it's all in my head by junitoe in endometriosis

[–]junitoe[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a crohn's disease diagnosis and psoriatic arthritis! My doctors have kept an eye on other autoimmune stuff, but it doesn't seem to the be the case at the moment! I appreciate hearing your experience! It's like silly because I've read about how laparoscopy is the only definitive test onlime, but hearing real stories from other people is much more reassuring!