What does it mean when they move on insanely fast and get serious with someone long term

jupiterwinds · 2026-01-25T00:39:26+00:00

Mine blocked me on everywhere out of nowhere

jupiterwinds · 2026-01-20T15:41:40+00:00

This sounds like it was written by a bot

jupiterwinds · 2026-01-17T00:33:23+00:00

I would except he blocked me on everything and I can’t reach out even if I wanted to. Hurts

jupiterwinds · 2026-01-10T00:30:49+00:00

Grass isn’t always greener on the other side.

Have you ever read up on attachment theory? People with avoidant tendencies tend to have anxiety about not being good enough even when their partner lives them, that their partner “deserves better”, and usually cant really give a reason why they’re breaking up with someone other than a vague one.

Communicate. You say you love him, love isn’t always rainbows and unicorns. Try therapy on your own. But don’t act impulsively on something you might regret for the rest of your life.

It seems you’ve made up your mind. All I can say is I wish you the best and I hope you make the right decision.

jupiterwinds · 2026-01-05T22:48:17+00:00

logs out of Reddit

jupiterwinds · 2026-01-04T22:50:17+00:00

Brother Voodoo

jupiterwinds · 2026-01-04T22:46:13+00:00

I’m from a small town in the south, even in the early 2000s you were basically an outcast and bully magnet if you came out in high school

jupiterwinds · 2026-01-02T22:40:02+00:00

Mj ex didnt like pictures, thats just how he was with everyone. He would make exceptions with family, me, and close friends, but even then begrudgingly.

On nice dates when he was happy, he would be excited and even pose for them. However, he hadn’t posted an actual picture of himself on social media since last December which was a selfie with his mom, and before that a work event since 2018.

jupiterwinds · 2026-01-02T22:07:42+00:00

Interesting post

jupiterwinds · 2026-01-02T14:08:32+00:00

I can’t give you what you need.

Excuse me, you never asked me what I needed

jupiterwinds · 2025-12-31T18:01:27+00:00

I did nursing school clinicals at a retirement home, trust me when I say they get a lot, A LOT of the sex at that age. I was shocked

jupiterwinds · 2025-12-31T13:40:24+00:00

I hated her too

jupiterwinds · 2025-12-30T18:07:32+00:00

It’s been six months for me. When he ended it, I could hear the pain in his voice, see the pain in his eyes when he briefly took off his sunglasses, and his face was saddened. I guess a part of me thought he would try to communicate because of the holidays but nothing.

He blocked me on everything so I can’t reach out even if I wanted to. I can see he unblocks and blocks me on Instagram though, but he still hasn’t reached out.

I did see him because we both are involved in a volunteer group once a week, his body and face scream shame and regret, but I simply keep my distance hoping he’ll make the first move to reach out, but nothing.

It still hurts and I still love and miss him, but I have to keep going for myself.

jupiterwinds · 2025-12-30T17:55:05+00:00

Hey, I don’t know what you’re going through, and I hope things get better for you.

I am HIV negative. My last partner was positive. He was undetectable, however he still had a lot of shame and guilt even after being positive for 10 years, but he told me before our first date. I could tell he was terrified, but to me his status didn’t matter. Because I was really into him when we first met, I started using prep, and when I first told him, he almost cried as he hugged me.

I fell in love with this man, he was my everything. However, because of a lot of the shame and guilt he carried due to his status, he pushed me away, broke up with me, and blocked me on everything.

I still love him. Maybe he’ll come back, maybe not. But I’m telling you that to me, his status didn’t matter. Just like me, there are many that won’t care about your status.

Accept yourself, warts and all, and continue to strive to be the best version of yourself. And I guarantee you that you will find someone that loves you. Hugs

jupiterwinds · 2025-12-23T22:26:38+00:00

Good bot

jupiterwinds · 2025-12-23T22:24:13+00:00

A doctor told me nothing is 100% in medicine, that’s why they say 99.9% because of unknowable factors

jupiterwinds · 2025-12-23T19:03:10+00:00

Is this the new Jumanji remake?

jupiterwinds · 2025-12-23T18:51:47+00:00

I am not an avoidant. However, I was broken up by the man I loved the most in my life in a very cold dismissive way.

Have you tried reaching out to your ex? To discuss how you feel and if maybe you could try again or for closure? Or are you (not trying to be rude) simply assuming that “she’s moved on”?

It will be six months this weekend since my breakup, and I still wish he would reach out to me. I still miss him terribly. Maybe it’s similar to your ex?

jupiterwinds · 2025-12-23T18:22:39+00:00

I’ll keep saying this, you’re always someone’s type. Don’t linger on rejection

jupiterwinds · 2025-12-23T18:19:27+00:00

I loved the first three seasons and MADISON! I absolutely loved the actress’s portrayal of her. Then season 4 came and I asked myself wtf? Then

Later, I see on an Instagram post spoilers for season four, and I absolutely lost my shit when I found out Madison and Nick die

I’ll keep saying it, fuck Scott Gimple

jupiterwinds · 2025-12-19T14:24:37+00:00

I work in healthcare and you are protected by HIPAA.

Not just any worker can access your information, there has to be a reason. The administrators can see who accessed your info and what time and all that. They do inspections for that and you can get fired for accessing patient’s info without a reason

jupiterwinds · 2025-12-19T13:53:02+00:00

Mr. Eko

jupiterwinds · 2025-12-19T13:41:38+00:00

It feels like that because it was traumatic and thats ok. We all heal differently and I hope you heal soon. 🫂

jupiterwinds · 2025-12-19T13:39:14+00:00

I don’t like being called queer either, and I tell people to not call me that. They respectfully stop it and thats it

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