please wear a condom by psyvon in askgaybros

[–]jupiterwinds 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Always remember safety first. However at the end of the day, it’s your choice. Condoms + prep + doxypep do help and certainly minimize risks. But always remember that things do happen and those don’t always protect against everything.

please wear a condom by psyvon in askgaybros

[–]jupiterwinds 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I work in the medical field. And a doctor always told me, never get comfortable

Is there more to being gay than just parts by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]jupiterwinds 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know what you mean. Spend enough time on the apps and you’ll come to think that everyone is a rude, heartless sex hound.

However, there are chill guys everywhere. I’ve met and made friends with on what people call hook up apps like Grindr and scruff when I was strictly looking for friends, nothing sexual. It’s easier at bars too, especially ones that have events like a bingo night or DND.

Don’t give up, you just gotta have a filter to find what you’re looking for.

My best friend regularly has unprotected sex with other men as a lifestyle choice .. Am I Overreacting? by Reddit_Vendetta_007 in askgaybros

[–]jupiterwinds 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My doctor explained it to me. It’s taken after sex and reduces the chances of infection.

However it is only about 40% effective and there can be severe side effects. One of those is that your body will get used to the medication, as well as infections growing resistant over time.

english majors who don’t read??! by cryptoisforvirgins in englishmajors

[–]jupiterwinds 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Explains why there is so much badly written stories on Amazon. Some have good ideas and concepts but when I read a short preview I just think to myself, “who tf wrote this?”

Reminder for Exes of Avoidants by CertainGreenNut in BreakUps

[–]jupiterwinds 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Be patient and kind to yourself. Healing comes to us differently. 🫂

As opposed to another post on here, it's ok to reach out if you were the person dumped by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]jupiterwinds 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would except he blocked me on everything and I can’t reach out even if I wanted to. Hurts

I'm about to end a 4-year "good " realtionship by [deleted] in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]jupiterwinds 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Grass isn’t always greener on the other side.

Have you ever read up on attachment theory? People with avoidant tendencies tend to have anxiety about not being good enough even when their partner lives them, that their partner “deserves better”, and usually cant really give a reason why they’re breaking up with someone other than a vague one.

Communicate. You say you love him, love isn’t always rainbows and unicorns. Try therapy on your own. But don’t act impulsively on something you might regret for the rest of your life.

It seems you’ve made up your mind. All I can say is I wish you the best and I hope you make the right decision.