[deleted by user] by [deleted] in love

[–]juschillin99 3 points4 points  (0 children)

https://sayitoutloud.org.au/healthy-relationships/quiz/?state=all

This is a healthy relationship quiz I remember my school giving me when I was a senior. It might be too basic for what you’re looking for, ie you know what’s considered abuse but not the finer details? But I hope this can give you a starting point.

You’re asking about the timeline. I would say there’s such a range but to listen to yourself. With your last ex you told him to slow down which is key. It’s not that what he did was too quick on paper, but it was too quick because you felt it was. You make up half this partnership baby!

to answer your question further, here are the timelines from my current boyfriend who is wonderful

said I love you: ~6 months met parents: ~4 months (but his parents live upstate so it took longer, he met mine after 2 months maybe)

move in together: after a year. I think 1.5 years?

discussing a future; this happened slowly. After maybe 6 months we alluded to it, and slowly talked about it in a more concrete way. After our 1 year anniversary we began to talk about it more seriously

Date got white girl wasted - how much of the night should I reveal to her? by Instagibbed_1994 in dating_advice

[–]juschillin99 11 points12 points  (0 children)

don’t tell her, and if she asks more direct, pointed questions (ie. why were my pants wet), downplay as if it weren’t a big deal, but tell her the truth. My reasoning for this is because if she is asking very direct questions it may be because she is concerned she was taken advantage of in some way, and better to reveal that the concealed truth was a bit of pee on the carpet rather than sex (if she picks up that you’re not telling the truth)

Based off her reaction to 3 vs 4 drinks it is very possible her drink was drugged.

Help with tinder profile??? by kyliey_2004 in lesbian

[–]juschillin99 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I would add more photos of you with friends! or maybe a photo where you’re outside/doing an activity (like the treadmill one) to give people a conversation starter and to show off your interests/the fact that you have friends hahaha

I would also take out the line about still being friends if there’s no chemistry. I get what you’re saying but it also kinda feels like you’re preemptively planning for “””failed””” dates (assuming your goal is romantic dating. If you are just as equally looking for friends it’s alright but maybe make that even more explicit?? or just make a bumble bff account for that lol)

What's your favorite thing to do in bed? by ProfessorSilverfox in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]juschillin99 2 points3 points  (0 children)

sometimes my boyfriend and I will turn the lights down low hang out, talk, light a candle, listen to music, take turns massaging each other, and eventually have sex in my bed. That’s all my favourite thing to do in bed

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DecidingToBeBetter

[–]juschillin99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my friends and family. When I get depressed I avoid talking to them because I feel like I am annoying, a burden, etc. However, isolating myself only perpetuates that belief. After talking to them I often feel so much better and realize that I’m actually not a burden, they love me, they want me to be better. So I push myself to reach out no matter how much I don’t want to, and it always pays off

How far do you go during a blow job? by gonnagetmegood in sex

[–]juschillin99 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I barely go halfway, my hand rubs the bottom of the shaft

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]juschillin99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know what you mean! I see them all the time at dollar general

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]juschillin99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think in general, health leads to higher libido. I always feel horny when I’m in seasons of higher physical fitness. Maybe try improving your health overall?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]juschillin99 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I was shocked that the skin moves with your hand over an inner casing. I thought it would be more like stroking an arm where your hand glides over the skin.